{"id":3165,"date":"2017-08-03T08:02:01","date_gmt":"2017-08-03T08:02:01","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=3165"},"modified":"2021-08-12T13:28:44","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T13:28:44","slug":"5-ottime-ragioni-per-essere-uccisi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/5-ottime-ragioni-per-essere-uccisi\/","title":{"rendered":"5 ottime ragioni per cui si \u00e8 uccisa"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00c8 sempre stata migliore con gli altri di quanto loro fossero buoni con lei.<\/span><\/h2>\n

She was even better to others than she was to herself. And that wasn\u2019t good. Other people were her priority and she thought that once, at some point, she\u2019ll meet in life all the love she was showering on others.<\/p>\n

Pensava che alla fine il bene che faceva le sarebbe tornato indietro e che tutto l'impegno che metteva nelle persone sarebbe stato ricompensato. Non misurava mai quanto dava agli altri. Finch\u00e9 li rendeva felici, andava bene. A un certo punto del percorso, si \u00e8 dimenticata di sorridere.<\/p>\n

Spesso veniva lasciata sola.<\/span><\/h2>\n

Le persone bussavano alla sua porta solo quando avevano bisogno di qualcosa. Lei era l\u00ec per confortarli. Era l\u00ec per aumentare la loro fiducia e per farli sentire bene con se stessi, ma a nessuno importava di come si sentiva lei.<\/p>\n

The moment they got what they needed, they\u2019d pack their things and leave, leaving her alone. Not asking her if she was ok. She didn\u2019t need anybody to get her\u2014she only needed someone to care.<\/p>\n

She was other people\u2019s dumping ground.<\/span><\/h2>\n

All the evil, all the darkness and misfortune they had, they transferred to her. It was just like she wore a sign telling people how she\u2019s a landfill\u2014 so feel free to contaminate her pureness and her good soul with their problems.<\/p>\n

Una volta era la persona pi\u00f9 positiva di questo mondo. Aveva il sorriso pi\u00f9 luminoso, ma le persone tossiche di cui era circondata trovavano il modo di avvelenarlo.<\/p>\n

Tutti erano cos\u00ec egoisti.<\/span><\/h2>\n

Come se a un certo punto della sua vita fosse stata invisibile per il resto del mondo. Certo, le persone la notavano, ma solo nei momenti in cui avevano bisogno di lei. Nessuno vedeva il suo sorriso falso e nessuno si prendeva cura di lei.<\/p>\n

Yes, she was a very welcoming person, smart and strong. She could bear anybody\u2019s burden but only up to some point. When they overburdened her, they left her to deal with it alone. She was only as good as she was needed.<\/p>\n

She just couldn\u2019t do it anymore.<\/span><\/h2>\n

She couldn\u2019t be the least relevant person to herself. She just couldn\u2019t put others before her because they made it pretty obvious they were toxic. She learned her lesson. She couldn\u2019t let those toxic people use her anymore so she killed herself. She killed her kind and unselfish side and everybody lost.<\/p>\n

And then she learned to say \u2018no\u2019.<\/p>\n

No, she doesn\u2019t have a moment for you.<\/p>\n

No, she doesn\u2019t understand anymore.<\/p>\n

No, she can\u2019t help you.<\/p>\n

Ha imparato a mettere se stessa al primo posto. Ha imparato a essere la sua priorit\u00e0. Ha imparato che quando non ha nessuno che le tiene la mano, la cosa migliore da fare \u00e8 mettere le mani in tasca e continuare a camminare.<\/p>\n

The tables have turned. Now, she’s aware of her worth and she’s aware of everything she deserves. So, the next time you ask why is she such a jerk, maybe you should wonder what you did wrong.<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

She was always better to others than they were good to her. She was even better to others than she was to herself. And that wasn\u2019t good. Other people were her priority and she thought that once, at some point, she\u2019ll meet in life all the love she was showering on others. She thought that…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":3167,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29635],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3165","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-depression"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29635,"label":"depression"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/shifaaz-shamoon-300079.jpg",800,555,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":4,"category_info":[{"term_id":29635,"name":"depression","slug":"depression","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29635,"taxonomy":"category","description":"If you or someone you know is fighting depression, here you'll find symptoms, plenty of coping techniques, and above all, you'll learn to understand it.","parent":22911,"count":23,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29635,"category_count":23,"category_description":"If you or someone you know is fighting depression, here you'll find symptoms, plenty of coping techniques, and above all, you'll learn to understand it.","cat_name":"depression","category_nicename":"depression","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3165","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/21"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3165"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3165\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/3167"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3165"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3165"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3165"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}