{"id":31661,"date":"2020-07-22T14:12:18","date_gmt":"2020-07-22T14:12:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=31661"},"modified":"2021-08-12T09:51:38","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T09:51:38","slug":"bisogna-amarla-sia-nei-suoi-giorni-difficili-che-in-quelli-belli","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/bisogna-amarla-sia-nei-suoi-giorni-difficili-che-in-quelli-belli\/","title":{"rendered":"Devi amarla nei suoi giorni difficili come in quelli belli"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Amatela quando si sveglia e la prima cosa che fa \u00e8 controllare se siete svegli, baciandovi delicatamente sulle labbra e assicurandosi che ora lo siate.<\/p>\n<p>Love her when she\u2019s having a good day and there\u2019s nothing that can bring her down.<\/p>\n<p>When she\u2019s singing along to her favorite jams, dancing awkwardly (but adorably) and making funny faces, inviting you to join her.<\/p>\n<p>Love her when you\u2019re driving along the highway at night-time, coming back from an unforgettable road trip, and she\u2019s desperately trying to stay up to keep you company while you\u2019re driving but her eyes are slowly giving in\u2026 and you realize how much you adore that person right there.<\/p>\n<p>Amarla quando realizza qualcosa di straordinario.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-116118\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/young-woman-hugging-with-a-man-and-smile.jpg\" alt=\"giovane donna che si abbraccia con un uomo e sorride\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/young-woman-hugging-with-a-man-and-smile.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/young-woman-hugging-with-a-man-and-smile-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/young-woman-hugging-with-a-man-and-smile-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/young-woman-hugging-with-a-man-and-smile-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/young-woman-hugging-with-a-man-and-smile-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/young-woman-hugging-with-a-man-and-smile-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/young-woman-hugging-with-a-man-and-smile-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/young-woman-hugging-with-a-man-and-smile-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Quando si sa quanto ha lavorato duramente e quanti ostacoli ha dovuto superare, alla fine il lavoro e la dedizione sono stati ripagati e lei \u00e8 al settimo cielo e salta di gioia.<\/p>\n<p><b>Amatela quando \u00e8 sdraiata a letto accanto a voi, con le gambe avvolte intorno a voi, i capelli scompigliati e senza trucco. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Quando \u00e8 cruda e vulnerabile, ma pi\u00f9 che a suo agio nell'essere autentica mentre ti stringe forte.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Love her on the nights out where you\u2019re having so much fun, almost peeing from laughter, enjoying each other\u2019s company like two best buddies, often unable to speak from laughing too much, and then coming home and just looking at each other like only two people in love know how.<\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ma sappiate anche che l'amore \u00e8 pi\u00f9 che amare <\/span><\/i><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/se-qualcuno-fa-queste-8-cose-per-voi-e-la-vostra-persona\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">la tua persona<\/span><\/i><\/a><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> when they\u2019re making it all seem so easy and effortless.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p>L'amore \u00e8 qualcosa di pi\u00f9 che amarli nei loro giorni migliori, quando sono facili da frequentare.<\/p>\n<p><b>More than ever, you need to love her when she\u2019s going through a funk. When she doesn\u2019t want to wake up in the morning and doesn\u2019t see any point in going about her day.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-116116\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/couple-sitting-on-couch-and-hugging.jpg\" alt=\"coppia seduta sul divano e abbracciata\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/couple-sitting-on-couch-and-hugging.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/couple-sitting-on-couch-and-hugging-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/couple-sitting-on-couch-and-hugging-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/couple-sitting-on-couch-and-hugging-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/couple-sitting-on-couch-and-hugging-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/couple-sitting-on-couch-and-hugging-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/couple-sitting-on-couch-and-hugging-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/couple-sitting-on-couch-and-hugging-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>When she feels like she\u2019s been hit by a train which has left her immobile and without the motivation to get herself in order.<\/p>\n<p>When her mood is nowhere near her usual perky self and she\u2019s taking it out on you.<\/p>\n<p>You need to love her when anxiety gets the best of her and she\u2019s insecure about herself.<\/p>\n<p>Understand that this is something she can\u2019t control but also needs to get out of her system in order to get better.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t retaliate when she starts a fight for no reason. Let her get it all out and drain the negativity from inside her mind by yelling at you for a little while.<\/p>\n<p>You can take It, knowing that she\u2019s going to apologize in a few days when she\u2019s okay again.<\/p>\n<p>She doesn\u2019t like this side of herself any more than you do. Always keep that in mind.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-116114\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/couple-hugging-in-windy-field.jpg\" alt=\"coppia che si abbraccia in un campo ventoso\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/couple-hugging-in-windy-field.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/couple-hugging-in-windy-field-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/couple-hugging-in-windy-field-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/couple-hugging-in-windy-field-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/couple-hugging-in-windy-field-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/couple-hugging-in-windy-field-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/couple-hugging-in-windy-field-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/couple-hugging-in-windy-field-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>But sometimes it\u2019s going to get the best of her and she\u2019s not going to handle it right. And that\u2019s okay. We all have our crappy days.<\/p>\n<p>Let her have hers and before you know it, you\u2019re going to be back on track.<\/p>\n<p>Love her when she\u2019s out wasted with her girlfriends and calling you to pick her up because she can\u2019t even stand. Don\u2019t lecture her.<\/p>\n<p>She needed this night out to let off some steam and forget about the shit that\u2019s actually making her this anxious.<\/p>\n<p><b>Love her enough to know that when she tells you to back off and leave her alone, she doesn\u2019t really mean it.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Lasciatele spazio, datele un po' di tempo per uscire da questa situazione di disagio.<\/p>\n<p>She needs to figure out what\u2019s making her this miserable and when she does, she\u2019s going to be okay again and you\u2019re going to be glad you were there by her side.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-116113\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/couple-sitting-by-the-river-hugging.jpg\" alt=\"coppia seduta in riva al fiume che si abbraccia\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/couple-sitting-by-the-river-hugging.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/couple-sitting-by-the-river-hugging-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/couple-sitting-by-the-river-hugging-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/couple-sitting-by-the-river-hugging-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/couple-sitting-by-the-river-hugging-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/couple-sitting-by-the-river-hugging-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/couple-sitting-by-the-river-hugging-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/couple-sitting-by-the-river-hugging-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Quando la vedete in difficolt\u00e0 <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/6-modi-in-cui-ha-imparato-ad-amarsi-di-nuovo-dopo-aver-amato-un-uomo-tossico\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">di amare se stessa<\/span><\/a>e amarla il doppio. Non lasciatela mai essere troppo dura con se stessa, perch\u00e9 sapete quanto questa donna sia davvero straordinaria, gentile e amorevole.<\/p>\n<p>Just because she is unable to see it right now doesn\u2019t mean you should forget about it too. This is when you love her and support her more than ever.<\/p>\n<p>She is tired of feeling this way, too. She needs your strength and understanding that she is not perfect. She is not without flaws and she doesn\u2019t want to be.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c8 semplicemente un essere umano suscettibile di errori e sta facendo del suo meglio.<\/p>\n<p>Dopo tutto, \u00e8 la ragazza di cui vi siete innamorati. Ora siate presenti per lei in tutte le sue imperfezioni, proprio come lei lo \u00e8 per voi.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Love her, hold her and don\u2019t expect what she can\u2019t give you. When needed, give her the benefit of the doubt. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><b><i>\u00c8 stanca di cercare di essere perfetta per tutti, lasciatela essere imperfetta con voi.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-116108\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/Youve-Got-To-Love-Her-On-Her-Bad-Days-As-Well-As-Her-Good-Ones-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Devi amarla nei suoi giorni difficili come in quelli belli\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/Youve-Got-To-Love-Her-On-Her-Bad-Days-As-Well-As-Her-Good-Ones-pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/Youve-Got-To-Love-Her-On-Her-Bad-Days-As-Well-As-Her-Good-Ones-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/Youve-Got-To-Love-Her-On-Her-Bad-Days-As-Well-As-Her-Good-Ones-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Love her when she wakes up and the first thing she does is check if you\u2019re up, by kissing you gently on the lips and making sure that now you are. Love her when she\u2019s having a good day and there\u2019s nothing that can bring her down. When she\u2019s singing along to her favorite jams,&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":56,"featured_media":116112,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29639],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-31661","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-women"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29639,"label":"understanding women"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/Youve-Got-To-Love-Her-On-Her-Bad-Days-As-Well-As-Her-Good-Ones-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Katie Burns","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/katie\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29639,"name":"understanding women","slug":"understanding-women","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29639,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Women are not that complicated once you learn to understand them, seduce them and treat them the way they deserve. 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