A pensarci bene, una relazione che non richiede impegno sembra perfetta. La vedete come un'opportunit\u00e0 per ravvivare la vostra vita con la giusta dose di passione e di farfalle per aiutarvi ad affrontare la giornata.<\/p>\n
You have someone to call when you are lonely, without having any duties which could rearrange your life. You don\u2019t have to change or make compromises for the sake of the other person and you can continue rocking your vita da single<\/span><\/a> e avere qualcuno che ti dia un po' di affetto e tenerezza quando ne hai bisogno.<\/p>\n Sembra un'ottima soluzione, no? Dopotutto, cosa pu\u00f2 andare storto?<\/p>\n Ebbene, prima di iniziare la mia quasi relazione avevo gli stessi identici pensieri in testa. E poi la vita mi ha dimostrato che mi sbagliavo.<\/p>\n Ecco perch\u00e9 sto per darvi una visione di prima mano di come si presenta questo tipo di relazione. State per leggere 5 cose che sicuramente vi faranno cambiare idea su tutto ci\u00f2 che pensavate di sapere sulle relazioni senza titolo.<\/p>\n Gli incontri moderni ci hanno insegnato che un relazione senza laboratorio<\/a> \u00e8 quasi identico a quello reale. Trascorrete del tempo con il vostro partner, comunicate regolarmente, siete fisicamente intimi e, in sostanza, fate tutte le cose che fa una coppia normale.<\/p>\n Nevertheless, the emphasis here is on the word almost. This relationship is not a real relationship, even if it is similar to one and this is something you need to be aware of before getting yourself involved in it. You can call it an affair, a situationship or some kind of connection but if it were a real romantic relationship, you guys would have labeled it as such, wouldn\u2019t you?<\/p>\n Il vostro quasi-fidanzato non \u00e8 una persona su cui potete contare in ogni momento. Non \u00e8 qualcuno che ha promesso di essere al vostro fianco nei giorni belli e brutti e non \u00e8 l'uomo che ha firmato per essere il vostro migliore amico e il vostro compagno di vita.<\/p>\n Nevertheless, he will be the cause of your sleepless nights and of your tears. He will be someone you\u2019ll give your precious time and effort to, just like in a real relationship.<\/p>\n Anche se questa situazione senza laboratorio non \u00e8 una relazione, vi porter\u00e0 tutte le reali problemi di relazione<\/a>. Its end will bring you the same amount of emotional pain a real break-up would. Just because you never dated a man, it doesn\u2019t mean he can\u2019t break your heart.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t get me wrong\u2014I am not saying that a labeled relationship guarantees you a stress-free life. I am not saying that labeled couples don\u2019t have problems and disagreements because they most certainly do.<\/p>\n But they also have the benefits of a real relationship which makes all of the hardships worth it. And that is something you don\u2019t have.<\/p>\n When you are in this kind of situationship, you are not entitled to demand anything. You don\u2019t have the right to demand loyalty, fidelity, commitment, effort or closure. Whenever you think about complaining, remember that you are the one who signed up for this.<\/p>\n If you are planning on getting yourself involved in this type of relationship in the hope of it one day becoming serious\u2014don\u2019t. A person who doesn\u2019t have second thoughts about you and a person who is sure about his feelings for you will behave accordingly from the start.<\/p>\n Please, don\u2019t lie to yourself that il tuo amore cambier\u00e0 quest'uomo<\/span><\/a> and that he\u2019ll eventually understand that you deserve to have the title of his girlfriend. Don\u2019t fall for his false excuses that he just needs time to get his shit together. Don\u2019t believe in his empty promises that this arrangement is only temporary and that things between you will sort themselves out in no time.<\/p>\n The harsh truth is that nothing will probably ever change. You\u2019ll just end up wasting years of your life next to someone who thinks you are convenient, while you keep waiting for a miracle that will never come.<\/p>\n Another thing you need to be aware of when it comes to entering a relationship without a label is that you are probably not the only girl in this man\u2019s life. After all, he never promised you fidelity or exclusivity which means that you don\u2019t have the right to be jealous.<\/p>\n Nevertheless, I guarantee you that you will be more than upset about this\u2014you\u2019ll just know that you can\u2019t show it. You\u2019ll spend numerous nights crying yourself to sleep, che chiede cosa sia il suo quasi-fidanzato<\/a> has been up to. You\u2019ll do your best to find out everything there is to know about other women in his life, secretly hoping that you are the only one, while not saying a word and knowing that he never gave you the right to ask any questions.<\/p>\n Prima di lasciarvi coinvolgere in una relazione senza laboratorio, sappiate che non \u00e8 quello che vi meritate e che non dovete assolutamente accontentarvi. Al contrario, meritate un uomo che sia pi\u00f9 che orgoglioso di tenervi per mano in pubblico, di mostrarvi il suo affetto davanti a tutti e di chiamarvi la sua ragazza.<\/p>\n1. Non \u00e8 una relazione reale<\/h2>\n
2. Ma vi porter\u00e0 a tutti i veri problemi di relazione<\/h2>\n
3. Probabilmente non diventer\u00e0 mai una cosa seria<\/h2>\n
4. You don\u2019t have the right to be jealous<\/h2>\n
5. Meritate di pi\u00f9<\/h2>\n