{"id":31713,"date":"2020-01-23T10:50:13","date_gmt":"2020-01-23T10:50:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=31713"},"modified":"2022-01-24T18:46:59","modified_gmt":"2022-01-24T18:46:59","slug":"le-7-tattiche-di-controllo-della-conversazione-piu-comuni-utilizzate-dai-narcisisti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/le-7-tattiche-di-controllo-della-conversazione-piu-comuni-utilizzate-dai-narcisisti\/","title":{"rendered":"7 tattiche di controllo della conversazione pi\u00f9 comuni che tutti i narcisisti usano"},"content":{"rendered":"

Cercare di ragionare o di avere una conversazione normale con un narcisista \u00e8 impossibile. Si pu\u00f2 provare. Potete lottare per il vostro diritto di parola, ma non otterrete nulla.<\/p>\n

If he wants to, he will make you feel like you\u2019re talking to a wall\u2014an emotionless, cold, and distant wall.<\/p>\n

Your words simply won\u2019t get through, no matter how determined and loud you are. Conversations with a narcissist can drive you insane.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re going around in circles while talking to a narcissist, and in the end, you, a perfectly healthy person, leave the conversation wondering if there is something wrong with you.<\/p>\n

Ma cosa facciamo quando iniziamo una relazione con un narcisista? <\/i><\/p>\n

Ci fidiamo di loro.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

E questo \u00e8 qualcosa che si dovrebbe fare all'inizio di ogni relazione. Avete un uomo al vostro fianco. Credete che vi ami e che non farebbe mai nulla per ferirvi.<\/p>\n

Cos\u00ec si d\u00e0 il proprio cuore e la propria anima alla persona che dovrebbe proteggerci, e si riceve freddezza. Si viene maltrattati, si viene presi in giro.<\/p>\n

Questo naturalmente vi lascia confusi e feriti. Narcissists don\u2019t think like we do. <\/b><\/p>\n

They don\u2019t play by the rules, and their mindsets are completely different than ours.<\/p>\n

Their empathy doesn’t exist, and don\u2019t you ever try to understand why a narcissist did something or said something because you won\u2019t be able to understand it.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Anche se qualcuno ve lo dicesse, per voi sarebbe del tutto illogico.<\/p>\n

Cosa succede quando ci rendiamo conto di chi sono in realt\u00e0? <\/i><\/p>\n

By that time, it\u2019s too late. You go round in circles. You try to prove a point to a person who thinks he is almighty and right all the time.<\/p>\n

Never start a conversation match with a narcissist. You\u2019ll lose!<\/b><\/p>\n

Their manipulation is obvious to everyone but you. And the first mistake you\u2019re making in a conversation with a narcissist is disagreeing with him.<\/p>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

If you\u2019ve found yourself in a situation where you can\u2019t avoid talking to a person like that, just wait patiently for him to finish what he has to say, and no matter how it hurts, keep your mouth shut, and don\u2019t let any of it disturb you.<\/p>\n

A simple disagreement will cause a full attack on you. Instead of you being the victim which you are, he\u2019ll turn things around, and you\u2019re going to be the bad guy all of a sudden.<\/p>\n

Narcissists don\u2019t lead conversations, they lead verbal attacks. <\/b>It\u2019s not in their interest to talk things through like normal people do.<\/p>\n

Vogliono confonderti le idee e vogliono vincere una discussione. Non conta nient'altro se non vincere l'incontro verbale.<\/p>\n

Ecco le conversazioni pi\u00f9 comuni tattiche utilizzate dai narcisisti<\/a> per manipolarvi.<\/b><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

Proiezione inversa<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

When you talk to a narcissist, you may say something nice. You may try really hard to compliment him on something to take the conversation in another direction, but that won\u2019t be enough.<\/p>\n

Un narcisista interpreter\u00e0 sempre tutto ci\u00f2 che dite come un insulto e un attacco personale nei suoi confronti. Invertir\u00e0 il progetto e si trasformer\u00e0 in una vittima.<\/p>\n

He will make you think you\u2019re crazy and turn you into a bad guy which will leave you confused because all you wanted to do or say was something nice.<\/p>\n

Cambio di argomento<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Whenever you have the upper hand, you\u2019re right, and your narcissist doesn\u2019t know how to disprove you, he changes the topic.<\/p>\n

He has to have the control over the conversation, and while you\u2019re in charge with your valid points, he can\u2019t achieve that.<\/p>\n

Ma prima che voi possiate battere ciglio, lui indirizzer\u00e0 la conversazione in un'altra direzione dove voi non avrete pi\u00f9 il controllo.<\/p>\n

It will have nothing to do with what you\u2019ve talked about before, and you will find yourself in defense mode trying to prove your innocence.<\/p>\n

Gridare<\/h2>\n

\"Uomo<\/p>\n

Il narcisista cerca di intimidirvi urlando. Usa la voce alta per costringervi a ritirarvi durante una conversazione.<\/p>\n

Questo ha perfettamente senso quando il narcisista \u00e8 un uomo e la vittima \u00e8 una donna. La maggior parte delle donne si ritira dopo aver iniziato a gridare.<\/p>\n

This tactic is the most effective when there are people around you like when you\u2019re in public.<\/p>\n

Knowing that you won\u2019t risk public embarrassment, a narcissist will pick a fight, preferably around as many people as possible because he knows he\u2019ll win it.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll back down trying to calm things down.<\/p>\n

Incolpare<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Quando un narcisista cambia argomento, scarica la colpa su di voi. Solleva domande e tira fuori cose del passato.<\/p>\n

Maybe some of them were your fault, but you\u2019ve dealt with them then\u2014at least you thought so. Well, that\u2019s not the case.<\/p>\n

Sta conservando quei calci nella sua mente proprio per usarli contro di voi in momenti come questo.<\/p>\n

Then, you\u2019re the one to blame, you start defending yourself, and you have no idea how the conversation changed its course that quickly.<\/p>\n

All you know is that you\u2019re the one to blame for every single problem in your relationship, and he is just a blameless, poor victim.<\/p>\n

La vittima che gioca<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Quando fanno la vittima, nessuno sospetter\u00e0 che siano loro a maltrattare. Sanno come ribaltare la situazione e dimostrare di essere i maltrattanti.<\/p>\n

For example, if you want something from them and you ask them nicely, they won\u2019t answer with empathy.<\/p>\n

They won\u2019t care that the thing you\u2019re asking for is very important to you. They won\u2019t apologize for not being able to help you out.<\/p>\n

They will get angry at you and scream at you because you haven\u2019t considered their emotions. You haven\u2019t thought about their feelings and what they are going through.<\/p>\n

Because when you\u2019re dealing with a narcissist, it\u2019s always about them. They are and always will be their own first priority.<\/p>\n

E alla fine sarai una stronza anche solo per aver osato chiedergli qualcosa. Visto che lui \u00e8 una vittima e nessuno ha la pi\u00f9 pallida idea di quanto tu sia difficile da gestire.<\/p>\n

That is his goal\u2014to present himself like that to others and eventually to convince you that it is really the truth.<\/p>\n

Interruzione<\/h2>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

Come amano essere al centro dell'attenzione nella folla, amano anche essere al centro dell'attenzione nella conversazione.<\/p>\n

Their communication with you is a one-way street. If you try to prove a point and you\u2019re very close to doing so, a narcissist will constantly interrupt you in attempt to disprove your thesis.<\/p>\n

Quando un narcisista vi parla, non ha alcun interesse ad ascoltare ci\u00f2 che avete da dire, e la conversazione deve svolgersi secondo le sue regole o non deve svolgersi affatto.<\/p>\n

Cos\u00ec, quando iniziano a perdere il controllo, interrompono per riprendere il controllo e spostare l'attenzione su se stessi.<\/p>\n

Il trattamento silenzioso<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

La peggiore forma di abuso emotivo \u00e8 sicuramente un narcissist\u2019s silent treatment <\/a> . Narcissists use this to block you when you haven\u2019t accepted what they perceive and tell to be the truth.<\/p>\n

When they have no other source of power, they use emotional manipulation to gain control over you. Not only they use it when they are not wrong, but also every time something they don\u2019t like takes its course.<\/p>\n

Lo usano quando la coppia deve discutere di questioni importanti o quando ha fatto qualcosa di sbagliato.<\/p>\n

And the worst part is, they won\u2019t talk to you unless you apologize\u2014usually for the thing you didn\u2019t do.<\/p>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

Quindi non solo vi ignorano senza motivo, ma dovete scusarvi e di solito implorare la sua attenzione, in modo che possa avere piet\u00e0 e parlarvi di nuovo.<\/p>\n

Poi assume il ruolo di perdonatore onnipotente.<\/p>\n

Diventa cos\u00ec buono e indulgente, e si assicura che vi ricordiate di quella volta in cui avete sbagliato qualcosa e lui vi ha perdonato, perch\u00e9 \u00e8 un'anima buona come lui.<\/p>\n

Il trattamento silenzioso dovrebbe farvi sentire non amati e abbandonati.<\/p>\n

All'inizio sembra strano che un comportamento del genere possa provocare queste emozioni dentro di voi, ma quando il silenzio diventa una cosa regolare, ha un impatto enorme su di voi.<\/p>\n

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Trying to reason or have a normal conversation with a narcissist is impossible. You can try. You can fight for your right to speak, but you\u2019ll get nowhere. If he wants to, he will make you feel like you\u2019re talking to a wall\u2014an emotionless, cold, and distant wall. Your words simply won\u2019t get through, no…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":77644,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29633],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-31713","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-narcissism"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29633,"label":"narcissism"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/7-Most-Common-Conversation-Control-Tactics-All-Narcissists-Use.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29633,"name":"narcissism","slug":"narcissism","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29633,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. Learn how their mind operates so that you can protect yourself. ","parent":22911,"count":232,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29633,"category_count":232,"category_description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. Learn how their mind operates so that you can protect yourself. ","cat_name":"narcissism","category_nicename":"narcissism","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31713","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/21"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=31713"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31713\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/77644"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=31713"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=31713"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=31713"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}