{"id":31731,"date":"2020-03-05T14:48:32","date_gmt":"2020-03-05T14:48:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=31731"},"modified":"2022-12-06T11:01:20","modified_gmt":"2022-12-06T11:01:20","slug":"8-modi-per-perdere-linteresse-di-un-ragazzo-senza-nemmeno-accorgersene","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/8-modi-per-perdere-linteresse-di-un-ragazzo-senza-nemmeno-accorgersene\/","title":{"rendered":"8 modi per perdere l'interesse di un ragazzo senza nemmeno accorgersene"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Vi siete mai chiesti perch\u00e9 alcuni ragazzi si impegnano cos\u00ec tanto all'inizio e poi all'improvviso smettono di provarci?<\/p>\n<p>Sebbene nella maggior parte dei casi il motivo sia il loro essere stronzi, ci sono anche situazioni in cui il colpevole di questo comportamento potresti essere TU.<\/p>\n<p>Gli uomini sono praticamente fatti allo stesso modo e si attengono tutti allo stesso vecchio schema: INSEGUIRE-VINCERE. E se interrompete questo schema, ucciderete il loro interesse senza nemmeno accorgervene.<\/p>\n<p>So, if you\u2019ve noticed that your guy has been acting distant and different lately, there\u2019s a chance that you\u2019ve killed his interest in chasing you by doing one or more of the following 8 things unwittingly.<\/p>\n<p>8 ways you&#8217;re killing a guy&#8217;s interest without even realizing it<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Hai iniziato a inseguirlo<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-73250\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/young-smiling-woman-looking-at-phone.jpg\" alt=\"giovane donna sorridente che guarda il telefono\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/young-smiling-woman-looking-at-phone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/young-smiling-woman-looking-at-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/young-smiling-woman-looking-at-phone-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If you chase him, he will no longer chase you. It\u2019s that simple.<\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re constantly texting him, initiating date nights, complimenting him and doing everything to make him feel special, it means you\u2019ve started <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/inseguirlo-e-stata-la-cosa-piu-stupida-che-abbia-mai-fatto\/\">inseguendolo<\/a>, mentre dovrebbe essere il contrario.<\/p>\n<p>You should be the one enjoying all of these privileges without any pressure and the need to prove to him that you\u2019re worthy.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Avete accettato di andare su Netflix e rilassarvi troppo presto<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-73251\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/happy-couple-watching-television.jpg\" alt=\"coppia felice che guarda la televisione\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/happy-couple-watching-television.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/happy-couple-watching-television-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/happy-couple-watching-television-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s every guy\u2019s dream to manage the transition from \u201cgoing to the restaurant dates\u201d to \u201cNetflix and chill dates at his place\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>If he suggests this to you, it is because he likes more casual date options where he will not feel that much pressure to impress you and because it is easier to convince you to sleep with him (if you haven\u2019t already).<\/p>\n<p>Whatever the reasons be, you shouldn\u2019t agree to come to his place too early because once you\u2019re into casual dating, he will think that his job here is done, and he will slowly stop chasing you.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Sei andata a letto con lui troppo presto<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-73252\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/happy-woman-kissing-man-in-bed.jpg\" alt=\"donna felice che bacia l&#039;uomo a letto\" width=\"800\" height=\"532\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/happy-woman-kissing-man-in-bed.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/happy-woman-kissing-man-in-bed-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/happy-woman-kissing-man-in-bed-768x511.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Yup. If you sleep with them too soon, men have this tendency to think that you\u2019re an easy catch, and they didn\u2019t have to try hard to win you because you are satisfied with much less.<\/p>\n<p>Vogliono una donna che elevi i loro standard, che li rispetti e che li faccia lavorare duramente per conquistarla.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">You\u2019ve been an open book<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-73254\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/young-woman-talking-to-business-man.jpg\" alt=\"giovane donna che parla con un uomo d&#039;affari\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/young-woman-talking-to-business-man.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/young-woman-talking-to-business-man-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/young-woman-talking-to-business-man-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>There\u2019s nothing wrong with being honest about your whereabouts and life in general, but you need to find the balance.<\/p>\n<p>If he knows everything about your life from A-Z, your habits, every pet you\u2019ve ever had, family, friends and even your plans for the next ten years, he will stop being interested in you.<\/p>\n<p>Dovete mantenere un po' di mistero e lasciare che di tanto in tanto si chieda dove siete e cosa state facendo.<\/p>\n<p>That way, he\u2019ll see that he has so much to learn about you yet, and he will not stop chasing you until he knows every single detail about you (and you\u2019ll give him everything bit by bit).<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">You\u2019re too available<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-73255\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/nice-woman-putting-a-mascara.jpg\" alt=\"donna gentile che mette il mascara\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/nice-woman-putting-a-mascara.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/nice-woman-putting-a-mascara-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/nice-woman-putting-a-mascara-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If you jump the same second he calls you out and start dressing, you\u2019re being too available.<\/p>\n<p>If you discard your plans only because he wants to see you, you\u2019re being too available.<\/p>\n<p>E questo \u00e8 il motivo per cui anche lui ha iniziato a perdere interesse. Godetevi la vostra vita e fategli sapere che a volte dovr\u00e0 aspettare un po' per passare del tempo con voi.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">You don\u2019t have boundaries<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-73256\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/man-ignoring-woman-talk.jpg\" alt=\"l&#039;uomo che ignora la donna parla\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/man-ignoring-woman-talk.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/man-ignoring-woman-talk-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/man-ignoring-woman-talk-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re accepting everything he gives you, if you\u2019re absorbing all of his words without ever contradicting him, it means you don\u2019t have boundaries.<\/p>\n<p>E quando un ragazzo sa di poterti dire e fare qualsiasi cosa senza che tu possa protestare o arrabbiarti con lui, perder\u00e0 il rispetto nei tuoi confronti, il che va di pari passo con la perdita del suo interesse.<\/p>\n<p>Set strict boundaries, stick to them, and you\u2019ll be in control of the game.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">You don\u2019t ask for what you want<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-73257\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/worried-woman-looking-away.jpg\" alt=\"donna preoccupata che distoglie lo sguardo\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/worried-woman-looking-away.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/worried-woman-looking-away-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/worried-woman-looking-away-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Chiedere ci\u00f2 che si vuole \u00e8 un obiettivo che ogni donna dovrebbe perseguire al giorno d'oggi.<\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re not satisfied with something but you\u2019re having problems telling him that, you\u2019re deliberately denying yourself happiness only to make him feel good which is totally unsexy.<\/p>\n<p>Chiedete sempre quello che volete e pretendete che ve lo dia. Questo \u00e8 l'unico modo per mantenere il suo interesse.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You don\u2019t give him ultimatums<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-73259\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/unintrested-woman-sitting-with-man-in-cafe.jpg\" alt=\"donna non sorpresa seduta con un uomo in un caff\u00e8\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/unintrested-woman-sitting-with-man-in-cafe.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/unintrested-woman-sitting-with-man-in-cafe-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/unintrested-woman-sitting-with-man-in-cafe-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Has it ever happened that he\u2019s disappointed you somehow by not arriving on time or something else more serious, and you didn\u2019t say a word?<\/p>\n<p>Hai continuato a essere gentile anche se dentro di te morivi dalla voglia di dirgli tutto.<\/p>\n<p>If you don\u2019t give him ultimatums and make him think about what he\u2019s done, he will <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/not-rebuild-take-granted\/\">darvi per scontati<\/a>e non sar\u00e0 pi\u00f9 interessato a inseguirvi.<\/p>\n<p>Quindi, la cosa migliore \u00e8 riconoscere i suoi sforzi o punire il suo comportamento quando necessario, e vi assicuro che continuer\u00e0 a inseguirvi.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-73261\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/8-Ways-Youre-Killing-A-Guys-Interest-Without-Even-Realizing-It-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"8 modi in cui state uccidendo l&#039;interesse di un ragazzo senza nemmeno rendervene conto\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/8-Ways-Youre-Killing-A-Guys-Interest-Without-Even-Realizing-It-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/8-Ways-Youre-Killing-A-Guys-Interest-Without-Even-Realizing-It-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/8-Ways-Youre-Killing-A-Guys-Interest-Without-Even-Realizing-It-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/8-Ways-Youre-Killing-A-Guys-Interest-Without-Even-Realizing-It-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Have you ever wondered why some guys put so much effort in the beginning, and then all of a sudden they stop trying? While in the majority of cases the reason is them being assholes, there are also some situations where YOU might be the culprit for such behavior. You see, guys are pretty much&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":73260,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29648],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-31731","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-tips"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29648,"label":"dating tips"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/8-Ways-Youre-Killing-A-Guys-Interest-Without-Even-Realizing-It.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29648,"name":"dating tips","slug":"dating-tips","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29648,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. 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