{"id":31747,"date":"2020-09-24T08:05:06","date_gmt":"2020-09-24T08:05:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=31747"},"modified":"2022-11-29T14:42:39","modified_gmt":"2022-11-29T14:42:39","slug":"sentimenti-di-incertezza-sul-matrimonio-7-pro-e-contro-per-capirlo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/sentimenti-di-incertezza-sul-matrimonio-7-pro-e-contro-per-capirlo\/","title":{"rendered":"Vi sentite insicuri sul matrimonio? 7 pro e contro per capirlo"},"content":{"rendered":"

These days, marriage has become a real debate in which everyone has their own opinions on who is a \u201creal candidate\u201d for it and who should not get married due to some assumptions or prejudice. But, not in my case.<\/p>\n

For some unknown reasons, I\u2019ve always felt unsure about marriage and never was one hundred percent for or against it.<\/p>\n

Ne parlavamo spesso e a volte eravamo d'accordo, ma a volte le nostre opinioni si scontravano e uno di noi era totalmente contrario.<\/p>\n

So, I\u2019ve figured it out that the only way to find the right answer is to create a list of pros and cons that will help us decide.<\/p>\n

And, believe me, it did help us. And if you\u2019re having the same dilemmas as we did, I warmly recommend to read the following list of pros and cons of marriage to figure things out.<\/p>\n

7 PRO E 7 CONTRO DEL MATRIMONIO<\/b><\/p>\n

LE CONSIDERAZIONI<\/b><\/p>\n

You\u2019re influenced by others\u2019 expectations and rules<\/h2>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

Getting married is not just saying: \u201cYes, I do\u201d to the l'amore della tua vita<\/a> e poi vivere per sempre felici e contenti.<\/p>\n

There are also some annoying legalities you need to deal with once you\u2019re in marriage waters. You are no longer left to your own decisions.<\/p>\n

I vostri piani e i vostri risparmi influenzano direttamente i piani e i risparmi del vostro partner, e sar\u00e0 sempre necessario prendere in considerazione numerosi fattori e firmare numerose carte per soddisfare le leggi.<\/p>\n

When you\u2019re single, you don\u2019t have to think about things like this which are in most of the cases draining as hell.<\/p>\n

Il matrimonio sembra superato<\/h2>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

Il matrimonio ha perso il suo fascino in generale. Prima era qualcosa che ogni coppia faceva senza ripensarci a causa delle pressioni della societ\u00e0, della sicurezza finanziaria o delle affinit\u00e0. Oggi abbiamo un'immagine diversa.<\/p>\n

Siamo liberi di vivere con il nostro ragazzo o la nostra ragazza senza essere giudicati per questo o senza subire pressioni da parte di altri per sposarci, il che \u00e8 fantastico.<\/p>\n

So, why would we rush things if we don\u2019t have to yet? The decision to live together as a couple sounds pretty inviting. As a matter of fact, it\u2019s the same thing as being married, only that you haven\u2019t signed anything.<\/p>\n

I matrimoni sono un vero e proprio onere finanziario<\/h2>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

La preparazione di un matrimonio pu\u00f2 essere un vero e proprio calvario finanziario. Chi ci \u00e8 passato pu\u00f2 confermarlo con certezza. Oltre al vostro lavoro e alle altre cose che fate attualmente nella vita, dovrete fare spazio nel vostro budget anche per la preparazione di un matrimonio.<\/p>\n

And if you\u2019ve always had pictures in your head of your perfect wedding day, you will have to do everything in your power to make it come true.<\/p>\n

If your current finances can\u2019t support your wishes, you will not be content and your wedding would turn into a disappointment.<\/p>\n

Il tasso di divorzio \u00e8 aumentato in modo significativo<\/h2>\n

\"la<\/p>\n

And it is still increasing. There\u2019s this epidemic of divorced couples, single moms and single dads and I\u2019m sure you already know a few of them in your circle of friends and family.<\/p>\n

While it doesn\u2019t have to mean that you\u2019ll end up being divorced, there is still some percentage proving that you might.<\/p>\n

If your guts are telling you that you\u2019re not ready yet or if your partner might not be the best marriage material, it is better to wait until you have better insight and perspective on how thinally are.<\/p>\n

La fobia dell'impegno \u00e8 una vera e propria lotta<\/h2>\n

\"l'uomo<\/p>\n

Choosing one person for the rest of your life sounds a little bit scary, right? It is like going to a chocolate factory where you\u2019re \u201cforced\u201d to choose only one type of chocolate that you\u2019ll be eating till the rest of your life.<\/p>\n

Are you capable of doing that? Are you capable of discarding all of the other flavors to devote all of yourself to the one you\u2019ve chosen? If not, you know what you ought to do because commitment phobia is not something you should dare per scontato<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Il matrimonio potrebbe cambiare le cose<\/h2>\n

\"l'uomo<\/p>\n

Sometimes marriage can influence your happiness and change the good you\u2019ve had before while you were unmarried.<\/p>\n

For example, married people have this tendency to relax a little bit too much than they should because now they\u2019re married, and it\u2019s the end of the story.<\/p>\n

So, sometimes they forget to fight for their partners and work on themselves because they think that they should be accepted as they are because they\u2019ve signed the sacred \u201ccontract\u201d of loving each other at their good and bad (which comes as a perfect excuse).<\/p>\n

Vedi anche: L'elenco definitivo dei pro e contro delle relazioni che funzionano<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

Le domande sull'avere figli non finiscono mai<\/h2>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

So, let\u2019s say that you\u2019ve decided to get married, but you still don\u2019t want children or you haven\u2019t even thought about having them. Now, how will you explain this to all of these people who will constantly keep bombarding you with questions regarding your future offspring?<\/p>\n

I\u2019m sure you already have a few of them in mind who might fit the role of being \u201ca pain in the ass\u201d and who keep living other people\u2019s lives and worrying about what they certainly shouldn\u2019t.<\/p>\n

I PRO<\/b><\/p>\n

\"Vi<\/p>\n

1. Gli altri capiranno meglio il vostro stato di coppia<\/h3>\n

Your relationship status will no longer be the biggest enigma the world has seen or to be exact your grandma and grandpa who still can\u2019t deal with how things function today.<\/p>\n

You will no longer have to think of what to say before introducing yourself and your partner to others because now you will know exactly what to say proudly and out loud: \u201cI\u2019m her\/his husband\/wife\u201d.<\/p>\n

2. Ottenete l'assicurazione e le sovvenzioni fiscali<\/h3>\n

Forse non \u00e8 la cosa pi\u00f9 appropriata a cui pensare in questa situazione, ma essere sposati ha anche dei vantaggi economici.<\/p>\n

So, if you\u2019ve always thought about making some changes in life but couldn\u2019t afford it, when you get married these will be much easier for you to accomplish when your budget is improved.<\/p>\n

3. Con le nuove etichette di marito e moglie, si ottengono nuovi ruoli di vita<\/h3>\n

During our lives, we go through different roles from being a daughter\/son, sister\/brother, granddaughter\/grandson and now you\u2019re about to become someone\u2019s wife or husband!<\/p>\n

Hooray!! Doesn\u2019t it sound exciting to proudly share your new labels with the rest of the world?<\/p>\n

Doesn\u2019t it sound exciting to share your love with the rest of the world? It surely does because it is one of the most beautiful roles one could have during his lifetime, so think about it.<\/p>\n

4. Se avete l'opportunit\u00e0 di scegliere di sposare l'amore della vostra vita, sfruttatela.<\/h3>\n

In passato, le persone erano massicciamente costrette a contrarre un matrimonio combinato e a seguire le regole tradizionali della loro famiglia o del loro credo (e questo accade ancora oggi, ma in numero minore). Oggi siamo per lo pi\u00f9 liberi di scegliere di sposare l'amore della nostra vita, quindi perch\u00e9 non approfittarne?<\/p>\n

Perch\u00e9 non lasciare che l'amore che portiamo nel cuore per un altro essere umano fiorisca?<\/p>\n

Molti di coloro che sono stati o sono costretti a sposare qualcuno per motivi diversi dall'amore avrebbero ucciso per avere la possibilit\u00e0 di fare altrimenti. Quindi, siate saggi e riconoscenti.<\/p>\n

5. Organizzare un matrimonio \u00e8 creativo e divertente<\/h3>\n

Organizzare un matrimonio \u00e8 la scusa perfetta per dare sfogo alla propria creativit\u00e0 e cimentarsi nell'impossibile.<\/p>\n

Dai palloncini, ai coriandoli, ai fiori in migliaia di colori e altro ancora, sarete voi a scegliere come sar\u00e0 il vostro giorno perfetto.<\/p>\n

You have the opportunity to make it a real fairy tale (if that\u2019s what you always wanted) and you have the opportunity to have lots of fun while doing it.<\/p>\n

Especially if you\u2019re a creative maniac, now is the perfect time to shine.<\/p>\n

6. Vi d\u00e0 l'opportunit\u00e0 di elogiare la vostra relazione<\/h3>\n

I believe that every relationship deserves to be crowned at some point because five years or more spent together definitely deserve a special celebration. All of these hardships you\u2019ve survived together, all of these happy moments, kisses, tears deserve to be praised by a celebration called marriage.<\/p>\n

It is a perfect opportunity to say to the world and to yourselves that you\u2019ve gone through a lot, you\u2019re still together, you still amarsi<\/a> no matter what. It\u2019s just beautiful.<\/p>\n

7. Se nel profondo del vostro cuore lo volete davvero, allora perch\u00e9 no?<\/h3>\n

If you can\u2019t think of any specific reason why not and you\u2019re still having second thoughts about it, then ask yourself why not? If deep down in your heart you know you really want to do it, but you somehow keep making excuses not to do it, then just do it.<\/p>\n

After all, you only live once, and if you\u2019re sure that you\u2019ve found the love of your life, someone who will be there for you in your bad and at your good, someone who will share joy and tears with you, then do not wait.<\/p>\n

Enjoy the moment of saying: \u201cYes, I do\u201d and becoming someone\u2019s friend, lover, and life companion just as I did myself (and I didn\u2019t regret it).<\/p>\n

\"Sentimento<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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