{"id":3175,"date":"2020-09-03T08:26:13","date_gmt":"2020-09-03T08:26:13","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=3175"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:51:26","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:51:26","slug":"la-dura-verita-non-puo-piu-far-male","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/la-dura-verita-non-puo-piu-far-male\/","title":{"rendered":"La cruda verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che non puoi pi\u00f9 farmi del male"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Anche se sono le 3 del mattino, sei seduto nella tua stanza e pensi a me. Non riesci ad accettare il fatto che a me non importi pi\u00f9 nulla di te.<\/p>\n<p>You can\u2019t sleep because you lost everything that was worthwhile in your life. It\u2019s too late to think about it now. I will never come back to you.<\/p>\n<p>So, don\u2019t cry over spilled milk. Things weren\u2019t always like this. You know, I loved you once. You were the world to me.<\/p>\n<p>You were everything I had ever wanted but unfortunately, you didn\u2019t know to cherish that. I still remember how you enjoyed my pain.<\/p>\n<p>Pensavi che mi meritassi quel dolore perch\u00e9 sapevo come godermi la vita.<\/p>\n<p>For some reason you loved to see tears in my eyes. Maybe it made you feel like you have everything under control. \u201cYou know, I make her cry, and she will crawl back to me!\u201d<\/p>\n<p>And that worked for so many times. Every time you called me \u201cslut\u201d, \u201cstupid\u201d or \u201cnegative\u201d.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-118401 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/the-man-yells-at-the-sad-brunette.jpg\" alt=\"l&#039;uomo urla alla brunetta triste\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/the-man-yells-at-the-sad-brunette.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/the-man-yells-at-the-sad-brunette-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/the-man-yells-at-the-sad-brunette-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/the-man-yells-at-the-sad-brunette-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/the-man-yells-at-the-sad-brunette-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/the-man-yells-at-the-sad-brunette-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/the-man-yells-at-the-sad-brunette-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/the-man-yells-at-the-sad-brunette-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ogni volta che mi facevi del male, porgevo l'altra guancia. Per altri schiaffi a venire. Per quella sensazione di ignoranza.<\/p>\n<p>You didn\u2019t care when I cried and looked at the wall the whole day. You thought that is normal, like you were not interested in me.<\/p>\n<p>Ti odio per tutti i momenti che mi hai fatto passare.<\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t care if you had a rough past so you destroy other people\u2019s lives to feel better.<\/p>\n<p>The fact is that you destroy lives, and you can\u2019t change. It is not my life mission to save you from your past. It is something you need to do alone.<\/p>\n<p>Ti rimprovero solo di avermi ingannato per tutto questo tempo. Pensavo che mi amassi, ma l'unica cosa che hai provato \u00e8 stata l'indifferenza. Tutto il contrario dell'amore.<\/p>\n<p>Do you really think you can make a true love story with this kind of behavior? Do you think there is someone crazy enough to put up with that bullshit? I don\u2019t think so.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-118402 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/a-sad-Asian-girl-sits-in-bed-and-thinks.jpg\" alt=\"una triste ragazza asiatica siede a letto e pensa\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/a-sad-Asian-girl-sits-in-bed-and-thinks.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/a-sad-Asian-girl-sits-in-bed-and-thinks-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/a-sad-Asian-girl-sits-in-bed-and-thinks-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/a-sad-Asian-girl-sits-in-bed-and-thinks-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/a-sad-Asian-girl-sits-in-bed-and-thinks-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/a-sad-Asian-girl-sits-in-bed-and-thinks-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/a-sad-Asian-girl-sits-in-bed-and-thinks-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/a-sad-Asian-girl-sits-in-bed-and-thinks-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I just know I want to be far away from you. I don\u2019t even want to see you in the street. Because if I see you, I will immediately cross it.<\/p>\n<p>You know that saying: \u201cFool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me!\u201d And that\u2019s how things work now. I know you manipulated me, punished me, abused me, and tortured me.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Vedi anche:<\/strong> <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/lettera-uomo-maltrattato-emotivamente\/\">Una lettera all'uomo che mi ha maltrattato emotivamente<\/a><\/p>\n<p>But you didn\u2019t know that I am strong enough to carry that burden. I finally survived, and now I can live my life to the fullest.<\/p>\n<p>Unlike you, I am capable of change and that\u2019s an opportunity I cannot pass up.<\/p>\n<p>The reason why you can\u2019t hurt me anymore is that I am not the same person. I am not that quiet and kind girl anymore. I don\u2019t want to be like that anymore.<\/p>\n<p>I tried, God knows I did. But it didn\u2019t work. People took advantage of me, including you.<\/p>\n<p>Now I am totally different woman\u2014strong, independent and the one who knows what she wants from her life. So, don\u2019t try to win me over.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-118403 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/portrait-of-a-beautiful-smiling-brunette-in-the-office.jpg\" alt=\"ritratto di una bella bruna sorridente in ufficio\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/portrait-of-a-beautiful-smiling-brunette-in-the-office.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/portrait-of-a-beautiful-smiling-brunette-in-the-office-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/portrait-of-a-beautiful-smiling-brunette-in-the-office-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/portrait-of-a-beautiful-smiling-brunette-in-the-office-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/portrait-of-a-beautiful-smiling-brunette-in-the-office-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/portrait-of-a-beautiful-smiling-brunette-in-the-office-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/portrait-of-a-beautiful-smiling-brunette-in-the-office-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/portrait-of-a-beautiful-smiling-brunette-in-the-office-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Your sweet words don\u2019t have any effect on my heart anymore. I am done trying to make you love me. I deserve more than an \u2018almost\u2019 relationship.<\/p>\n<p>E tu? Ti meriti la merda! Ti meriti qualcuno con tutte le tue caratteristiche che ti faccia sentire male e impotente.<\/p>\n<p>Forse allora capirete tutte le mie lacrime. E piangerai. Mi implorerai di tornare da te. Ma io calpester\u00f2 il tuo cuore come tu hai fatto con me.<\/p>\n<p>Questa \u00e8 una lezione che devi imparare per non pensare mai di fare tutte quelle cose a un'altra ragazza.<\/p>\n<p>Alla fine, ricordate che dovete stare attenti quando avete a che fare con una donna pazza. Non si pu\u00f2 mai sapere a cosa stia pensando mentre vi guarda con quello sguardo da cucciolo.<\/p>\n<p>Pu\u00f2 toglierti il cuore in un batter d'occhio. Lo so, perch\u00e9 l'ho fatto con te.<\/p>\n<p>E non me ne pentir\u00f2 mai.<\/p>\n<p>MAI!<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-118404 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/The-Harsh-Truth-Is-You-Cant-Hurt-Me-Anymore-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"La cruda verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che non puoi pi\u00f9 farmi del male\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/The-Harsh-Truth-Is-You-Cant-Hurt-Me-Anymore-Pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/The-Harsh-Truth-Is-You-Cant-Hurt-Me-Anymore-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/The-Harsh-Truth-Is-You-Cant-Hurt-Me-Anymore-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/The-Harsh-Truth-Is-You-Cant-Hurt-Me-Anymore-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/The-Harsh-Truth-Is-You-Cant-Hurt-Me-Anymore-Pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Even if it is 3 A.M., you are sitting in your room, thinking of me. You simply can\u2019t accept the fact that I don\u2019t give a damn about you anymore. You can\u2019t sleep because you lost everything that was worthwhile in your life. It\u2019s too late to think about it now. I will never come&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":118400,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29617],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3175","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-heartbreak"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29617,"label":"heartbreak"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/The-Harsh-Truth-Is-You-Cant-Hurt-Me-Anymore-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29617,"name":"heartbreak","slug":"heartbreak","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29617,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. 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