{"id":31933,"date":"2020-04-29T08:10:53","date_gmt":"2020-04-29T08:10:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=31933"},"modified":"2021-08-11T20:07:17","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T20:07:17","slug":"alla-donna-coraggiosa-che-ha-lasciato-il-suo-partner-violento","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/alla-donna-coraggiosa-che-ha-lasciato-il-suo-partner-violento\/","title":{"rendered":"Alla donna coraggiosa che ha lasciato il suo compagno violento"},"content":{"rendered":"

Quando si tratta di lasciare <\/i> una relazione abusiva <\/i><\/a> , everybody talks about it like it\u2019s the easiest thing to do. <\/i><\/p>\n

They can all talk the talk but YOU walked the walk and I\u2019m proud of you! <\/i><\/p>\n

I want you to know that it doesn\u2019t matter that it took you so long to find the courage to leave.<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t matter if you went back a few times because he lured you back in with his lies that broke you and made you crumble under his vile pressure.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re the only one who knows how painful and humiliating it was hearing him tell you that you were ugly and unworthy.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Telling you that you couldn\u2019t leave because you wouldn\u2019t be able to survive without him.<\/p>\n

Dicendoti che nessuno ti avrebbe voluto, perch\u00e9 temeva che qualcuno ti avrebbe trattato meglio.<\/p>\n

Prendersi gioco di voi per aver pensato di poter vivere senza di lui <\/a>quando in realt\u00e0 era lui ad avere paura di perdervi, perch\u00e9 era lui ad avere bisogno di voi.<\/p>\n

Being in an abusive relationship fundamentally changes you in ways that you can\u2019t even tell yourself.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

It takes a huge toll on you and you become a different person, without even being aware that it\u2019s happening.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

These heinous relationships and vile partners destroy you gradually from the inside out. You feel yourself slowly burning out\u2026 until one day, there is nothing left.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve burned out and you\u2019re numb.<\/p>\n

Si diventa insensibili al mondo, alle emozioni e si smette di preoccuparsi di se stessi e di ci\u00f2 che accade.<\/p>\n

What you\u2019re going through is so unimaginably painful that you genuinely stop caring about what will happen and how it will end. You just need it to stop.<\/p>\n

There is only so much pain one person is capable of enduring and whatever you did and however you coped with the abusive nature of your partner, it\u2019s okay.<\/i><\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Qualsiasi scelta difficile abbiate dovuto fare, di cui forse oggi non andate fieri, non \u00e8 in alcun modo un riflesso di voi come persona.<\/p>\n

Sono il risultato di continui abusi da parte di un uomo crudele che non aveva alcun diritto di fare quello che ha fatto a lei.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019ve been there, I need you to know that it\u2019s okay. You made it out. You\u2019re in one piece and right now, that\u2019s all that matters.<\/p>\n

Whatever you had to resort to in order to get yourself here, it doesn\u2019t matter. It got you out and that is something not a lot of people can say, so be proud of yourself.<\/p>\n

Ci vuole tempo prima di imparare a dimenticare quello che ti ha fatto passare e quello che ha fatto di te. Ci vuole tempo per ricostruire se stessi dalle fondamenta.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

It\u2019s okay to feel lost right now. It\u2019s okay to feel weak and even miss that person at times. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Even though it was the worst kind of love\u2026 the feelings still need time to go away.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

It\u2019s going to take some time before you\u2019re your own person again. Before you can look yourself in the mirror and recognize the woman you\u2019re seeing.<\/p>\n

For so long, you were leaning on the most destructive type of love, that right now you\u2019re unsure of how to live without it.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t feel like there is something wrong with you for feeling this way. There is no right way to cope with abuse.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Let yourself go at the pace you\u2019re comfortable with.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t feel bad for thinking he would change. I know that is probably why you stayed that long but know that it\u2019s okay.<\/p>\n

You believe in people, even when they don\u2019t deserve it, and that is not something to be ashamed of.<\/p>\n

Siete molto forti. In primo luogo, per aver sopportato ci\u00f2 che hai fatto e per essere sopravvissuta all'abuso, e solo tu sai esattamente quanto sia stato brutale, e in secondo luogo per allontanarsi <\/a>.<\/p>\n

La forza che ci \u00e8 voluta per andarsene alla fine dimostra quanto siate forti e resistenti.<\/p>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

Siete rimasti cos\u00ec a lungo perch\u00e9 credevate in qualcosa.<\/p>\n

Volevate credere che le cose sarebbero andate meglio. Volevate credere che avrebbe ricevuto l'aiuto di cui aveva bisogno.<\/p>\n

You desperately wanted to believe that he wouldn\u2019t resort to abuse ever again\u2026 but when you realized your hopes were in vain, you did the hardest thing\u2013you left.<\/p>\n

And wherever you are right now on your road to recovery, I want you to know I\u2019m proud of you. You did the right thing. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Avete fatto una cosa coraggiosa. E per questo meriti tutte le lodi e le rassicurazioni del mondo.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

There are going to be days that will be so dark, you won\u2019t find a reason to get up. There are going to be days where you will be questioning yourself and doubting your choices.<\/p>\n

Ci saranno ostacoli nel vostro viaggio verso la guarigione e in quei momenti ricordatevi di ci\u00f2 che avete fatto.<\/p>\n

Ricordate quanto siete stati coraggiosi e forti e siate orgogliosi di voi stessi!<\/p>\n

The pain you\u2019re feeling right now is proof that you are on your way to getting your life back together. <\/i><\/p>\n

A ogni passo avanti, vi liberate del dolore che vi ha lasciato e riprendete il controllo della vostra vita. <\/i><\/p>\n

\"Alla<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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