{"id":31937,"date":"2019-01-29T08:19:53","date_gmt":"2019-01-29T08:19:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=31937"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:23:49","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:23:49","slug":"se-e-il-tipo-di-ragazzo-che-si-preoccupa-solo-quando-non-te-ne-vai","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/se-e-il-tipo-di-ragazzo-che-si-preoccupa-solo-quando-non-te-ne-vai\/","title":{"rendered":"Se \u00e8 il tipo di ragazzo che si preoccupa solo quando tu non lo fai, vattene"},"content":{"rendered":"

Quando voi smettete di preoccuparvi, lui improvvisamente inizia a preoccuparsi di pi\u00f9. Quando ti allontani un po', lui cerca di riavvicinarti. Quando ignorate i suoi messaggi, lui vi manda un triplo messaggio.<\/em><\/p>\n

E quando finalmente cedete e gli date le attenzioni che desidera tanto, improvvisamente si tira indietro e diventa distante e disinteressato.<\/em><\/p>\n

Vi suona familiare?<\/p>\n

\u00c8 un uomo che molti di noi hanno avuto il dispiacere di conoscere a un certo punto della loro vita. Un uomo che tratta l'amore come se fosse un gioco a chi ci tiene di pi\u00f9 e a chi riesce a essere il pi\u00f9 stronzo.<\/p>\n

Chiaramente vince lui, perch\u00e9 voi ci cascate ogni volta. (Non \u00e8 colpa tua, tra l'altro).<\/p>\n

Ogni volta che vi d\u00e0 un barlume di speranza che vi tratter\u00e0 meglio e non si preoccuper\u00e0 solo di perdervi, finirete per essere deluse.<\/p>\n

Ogni volta che gli concedete il beneficio del dubbio e decidete di andare contro il vostro giudizio, lui vi dimostra quanto sia immaturo ed egoista.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s all just a game to him. He desperately seeks attention that he is unable to reciprocate and all just to feel better about himself.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Usually, he\u2019ll pop up in your life at the worst moment imaginable.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll think you\u2019re finally over him and that he\u2019s out of your head and he\u2019ll start texting you out of the blue.<\/p>\n

When you\u2019re finally in a good place and you\u2019re doing so well, he\u2019ll re-appear to remind you of the lingering feelings you still have for him.<\/p>\n

Ha questo superpotere per cui spunta dal nulla quando ne hai meno bisogno e sconvolge la tua vita, la tua mente e la pace interiore che stavi appena iniziando a ritrovare.<\/p>\n

He knows you have a soft spot for him and that no matter how hard you try\u2026 you won\u2019t be able to resist him.<\/p>\n

Quando fa qualcosa di veramente schifoso, si fa perdonare con qualche gesto grandioso che dovrebbe farvelo dimenticare.<\/p>\n

Quando si accorge che finalmente si sta <\/i><\/b>pronti ad andare avanti<\/i><\/b><\/a> with your life (without him in it) he\u2019ll suddenly start telling you everything you\u2019ve been wanting to hear for so long.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

When you tell him how much he hurt you, he\u2019ll shift the blame onto you, making you appear somehow responsible for his actions.<\/p>\n

Quest'uomo vi dar\u00e0 sempre le briciole e chieder\u00e0 il mondo in cambio. Non sar\u00e0 mai quello di cui avete bisogno e soprattutto non sar\u00e0 quello che vi meritate.<\/p>\n

You are worth so much more than bits and pieces of his affection at times when it\u2019s convenient for him.<\/p>\n

Vi raggiunger\u00e0 sempre, ma non riuscir\u00e0 mai a prendervi completamente.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

With him, you\u2019ll always have half of everything. Just enough to feel like you\u2019re going somewhere\u2026 but nowhere near enough to actually feel fulfilled and content.<\/p>\n

When you\u2019re dealing with this guy, it\u2019s important to show him that when you say you\u2019re leaving, you mean it. He won\u2019t believe you and he\u2019ll test you, be sure of that. Don\u2019t fall for it.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s never going to be enough. He is not what you need.<\/p>\n

When he suddenly tells you all the things that you want to hear, make sure there are actions to substantiate these claims. Don\u2019t let him fool you with his charming, boyish smile and those puppy dog eyes.<\/p>\n

Lo conoscete meglio di cos\u00ec.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t allow an insecure boy to dictate your life. You know better than to give in to this child\u2019s play.<\/p>\n

Un vero uomo<\/i><\/b><\/a> rispetta voi e il vostro tempo. Vi dice che vi ama e ve lo dimostra. Dice quello che volete sentire e lo sostiene con le sue azioni. Vi apprezza per quello che siete e non cerca mai di cambiarvi.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

That is what a real man does. Anything else, don\u2019t bother wasting your time on.<\/p>\n

Se dovete interrogarvi sullo stato della vostra relazione, non c'\u00e8 nessuna relazione, ma solo un uomo che sceglie i giorni in cui ha voglia di approfittare del vostro amore gentile.<\/p>\n

Learn to see through this and don\u2019t indulge him ever again. It will crush his ego and feed your soul.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

When you stop caring, he suddenly starts to care more. When you pull back a little, he tries to pull you back in. When you ignore his texts, he triple texts you. And when you finally give in and give him the attention he craves so badly, he suddenly pulls all the way back and…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":31938,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-31937","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/jonathan-borba-1323102-unsplash.jpg",800,536,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31937","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=31937"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31937\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/31938"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=31937"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=31937"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=31937"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}