{"id":31969,"date":"2019-08-29T14:33:37","date_gmt":"2019-08-29T14:33:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=31969"},"modified":"2022-06-16T13:27:57","modified_gmt":"2022-06-16T13:27:57","slug":"il-fatto-che-abbia-bisogno-di-essere-amata-non-la-rende-bisognosa-di-affetto","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/il-fatto-che-abbia-bisogno-di-essere-amata-non-la-rende-bisognosa-di-affetto\/","title":{"rendered":"Il fatto che abbia bisogno di essere amata non la rende bisognosa di affetto"},"content":{"rendered":"

Gli appuntamenti moderni vi hanno insegnato che qualsiasi segno di sentimento equivale a una mancanza di forza emotiva. Vi ha insegnato a comportarvi in modo indifferente, anche quando questo \u00e8 lontano dalla verit\u00e0, perch\u00e9 questo \u00e8 l'unico modo per vincere il gioco delle relazioni e l'unico modo per non ottenere la vostra <\/span>cuore spezzato<\/span><\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n

Vi ha insegnato che quelli che dimostrano di tenerci sono i perdenti e che quelli che amano di pi\u00f9 finiscono sempre per essere feriti. <\/span><\/p>\n

It has taught you there is nothing wrong with being in loveless relationships and that craving a deep connection is a sign of weakness, a sign that you need someone to complete you and that you can\u2019t make it on your own.  <\/span><\/p>\n

Beh, lasciatemi dire una cosa<\/span>\u2014<\/span>questa \u00e8 una bugia. <\/span>Non c'\u00e8 nulla di sbagliato nel volere l'amore nella propria vita e nel mostrare quell'amore quando lo si sente.<\/b><\/p>\n

Invece di chiamarla debolezza, \u00e8 in realt\u00e0 un segno di grande forza. \u00c8 segno che una persona ha la capacit\u00e0 di affrontare le proprie emozioni pi\u00f9 profonde, invece di reprimerle o cercare di fuggire da esse.<\/span><\/p>\n

E questo \u00e8 esattamente ci\u00f2 che questa ragazza \u00e8<\/span>\u2014<\/span>strong. No, it doesn\u2019t mean that she is scared of being on her own<\/span>\u2014<\/span>she simply isn\u2019t ready to give up her single life for some random dude who won\u2019t give her the love she longs for.<\/span><\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t mean she is clingy just because she wants commitment and devotion. She isn\u2019t a fool for believing in love after everything she\u2019s been through and she isn\u2019t a hopeless romantic for wishing for a happy ending. <\/b><\/p>\n

She isn\u2019t desperate for wanting intimacy on a deeper level than just sexual and it doesn\u2019t mean she will chase you to be with her just because she refuses to settle for someone who only invests halfway<\/b>.<\/b><\/p>\n

You see, this girl just needs to be loved and she isn\u2019t ashamed to admit it. She wants to get the same amount of love and devotion she\u2019s been giving to everyone and the same amount of effort she\u2019s been putting in. <\/b><\/p>\n

Tuttavia, nulla di tutto ci\u00f2 la rende bisognosa.<\/b><\/p>\n

It\u2019s just that she doesn\u2019t want a man who is incapable of loving, a man who isn\u2019t ready to go all the way in and a man who will love her with only half of his heart. She doesn\u2019t need a man who will waste her time, a man who is looking for something temporary or a man who wants to play games.<\/span><\/p>\n

Un uomo che le far\u00e0 credere che le briciole del suo affetto e delle sue attenzioni sono pi\u00f9 che sufficienti. Un uomo che le faccia provare vergogna per essersi sentita emotivamente trascurata, non amata e non desiderata.<\/span><\/p>\n

She doesn\u2019t want a man who won\u2019t give a damn about the connection between the two of them or a man who will act guarded or emotionally unavailable. A man who won\u2019t love her back the way she needs and deserves to be loved.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ha invece bisogno di qualcuno che sia pronto a dedicarsi completamente a questa relazione, senza trattenere alcuna parte di s\u00e9. <\/span>Un ragazzo che segua il suo cuore, senza calcolare quale debba essere la sua prossima mossa e senza fingere di essere un omone troppo duro per mostrare qualsiasi segno di sentimento. <\/b><\/p>\n

She needs a man who won\u2019t be scared of being emotionally naked in front of her, a man who will mostrarle il suo lato vulnerabile<\/a> and a man who\u2019ll never act heartless.<\/b><\/p>\n

Un uomo che sia sempre chiaro sui suoi sentimenti, senza inviare segnali contrastanti. <\/span><\/p>\n

A man who will text her good morning and send a goodnight text every single day, a man who won\u2019t forget their anniversary or her birthday, a man who isn\u2019t scared of being romantic, a man who won\u2019t be ashamed to hold her hand in public, no matter how old they are\u2026 <\/span><\/p>\n

Ha bisogno di un <\/span>uomo vero<\/span><\/a> who knows how to love and isn\u2019t afraid of showing it.<\/span><\/p>\n

So, if you can\u2019t be this man, please walk away in time because she won\u2019t waste years of her life trying to change you. This girls knows exactly what she wants and deserves and she is more than willing to remain single until she gets it.<\/span><\/p>\n

S\u00ec, si potrebbe dire che \u00e8 all'antica, bisognosa o addirittura disperata d'amore.<\/b>\u2014<\/b>\u00e8 un tuo diritto. Tuttavia, ricordate che non avere una ragazza come lei \u00e8 una perdita anche per voi.<\/b><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Modern dating has taught you that any signs of feelings is equal to a lack of emotional strength. It has taught you to act indifferent, even when that is far from the truth because that is the only way to win the relationship game and the only way not to get your heart broken. It…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":56,"featured_media":31975,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29639],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-31969","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-women"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29639,"label":"understanding women"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/tnk-photo-636082-unsplash-1.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Katie Burns","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/katie\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29639,"name":"understanding women","slug":"understanding-women","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29639,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Women are not that complicated once you learn to understand them, seduce them and treat them the way they deserve. Here you'll learn all that and much more.","parent":29638,"count":336,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29639,"category_count":336,"category_description":"Women are not that complicated once you learn to understand them, seduce them and treat them the way they deserve. Here you'll learn all that and much more.","cat_name":"understanding women","category_nicename":"understanding-women","category_parent":29638}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31969","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/56"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=31969"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31969\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/31975"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=31969"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=31969"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=31969"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}