{"id":32027,"date":"2019-06-30T14:00:06","date_gmt":"2019-06-30T14:00:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=32027"},"modified":"2021-08-12T06:58:10","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T06:58:10","slug":"non-lhai-mai-amata-eri-solo-bravo-a-fingere-di-amarla","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/non-lhai-mai-amata-eri-solo-bravo-a-fingere-di-amarla\/","title":{"rendered":"Non l'hai mai amata, eri solo bravo a far finta di amarla"},"content":{"rendered":"

Quando questa ragazza ti ha incontrato, ha pensato che tu fossi tutto ci\u00f2 che cercava in un uomo. <\/span><\/p>\n

Dopo tutti quei fallimenti, dopo tutti quei <\/span>uomini tossici and unhealthy relationships, there you were\u2014her reward for all the suffering she\u2019d been through, her perfect man.<\/span><\/p>\n

When she first met you, you acted like the guy of every girl\u2019s dreams. A man she could count on; a man who would be her rock and the wind to her wings. <\/span><\/p>\n

Un uomo che le dia le farfalle che desidera, ma anche la sicurezza di cui ha bisogno.<\/span><\/p>\n

La cosa migliore \u00e8 che tu l'amavi a tua volta. O almeno, ti comportavi come se lo facessi.<\/span><\/p>\n

You kept mentioning your future together, convincing her that she was the only woman you could see yourself growing old next to. Convincing her that you could never imagine yourself kissing another woman, let alone waking up next to someone who wasn\u2019t her.<\/span><\/p>\n

What else could a girl wish for? Well, I\u2019ll tell you what\u2014an honest guy who doesn\u2019t act like he is something he is not. A guy who isn\u2019t actually a narcissistic asshole who wears the mask of this perfect man just to get inside her heart, so he can break it later on.<\/span><\/p>\n

However, this is exactly what you turned out to be\u2014<\/span>a man who never loved her for real. A man who just pretended to love her while you actually couldn\u2019t care less about her. <\/b><\/p>\n

Un uomo che ha giocato con lei. Un uomo che l'ha manipolata facendole credere che i suoi sentimenti per lei fossero sinceri.<\/b><\/p>\n

Tu sei l'uomo che l'ha ferita pi\u00f9 di chiunque altro nella sua vita. Un uomo che l'ha abbandonata proprio quando lei pensava che tutto nella sua vita fosse finalmente andato al suo posto, proprio quando pensava che tutto fosse in perfetto ordine.<\/span><\/p>\n

Una mattina, di punto in bianco, sei uscito dalla sua vita. Le hai voltato le spalle e non sei pi\u00f9 tornato. <\/span><\/p>\n

Just like that, you crushed all of her dreams and hopes, and proved to her that you were just like all of her exes\u2014that you just wanted to take advantage of her kind heart, that you just wanted to use her and that you were only leading her on.<\/span><\/p>\n

Quindi, no, <\/b>non l'hai mai amata<\/b><\/a> because you don\u2019t break the hearts of the ones you love. You don\u2019t promise them the paradise, just to make their life a living hell. <\/b><\/p>\n

You don\u2019t make them believe that they\u2019ve reached the stars just so you could knock them off of their feet.<\/b><\/p>\n

You don\u2019t go around convincing them that you are a dream come true when you are nothing more than a real life nightmare. You don\u2019t leave them hanging when they need you the most, without caring how they will survive. <\/b><\/p>\n

You don\u2019t make them suffer, and you don\u2019t turn your back on them without a reason, proving to them that they never matter to you.<\/b><\/p>\n

When you love someone, you don\u2019t move on with your life, leaving them in the past, as if they never existed. You don\u2019t forget about them overnight, and you don\u2019t leave them wondering if everything between the two of you was nothing more than a big, fat lie. <\/b><\/p>\n

You don\u2019t use their emotions to boost your broken ego and you most certainly don\u2019t deceive them just to reach your goals.<\/b><\/p>\n

Tuttavia, questo \u00e8 esattamente ci\u00f2 che hai fatto a questa ragazza. Hai trattato il suo cuore vulnerabile come un giocattolo e l'hai gettato via come un pezzo di spazzatura una volta che hai finito di usarlo.<\/span><\/p>\n

Nevertheless, you didn\u2019t complete your mission because guess what\u2014you didn\u2019t break her, as much as you wanted to.<\/span><\/p>\n

Yes, the truth is that she is devastated now. The truth is that she\u2019s been spending sleepless nights, wondering if any of the things you told her were true.<\/span><\/p>\n

That she keeps on blaming herself for being such a fool who believed your empty promises and for falling for your mind games. That she can\u2019t believe how come she failed to see your true colors in time and how she could have allowed you to deceive her like that. <\/span><\/p>\n

La verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che \u00e8 ferita dal fatto di aver sprecato anni della sua vita per una bugia che non \u00e8 mai stata reale, per un uomo che non ha mai conosciuto e per un uomo che non \u00e8 mai esistito.<\/span><\/p>\n

However, all of this doesn\u2019t mean that she won\u2019t survive. Because one of these days, she will rise from the ashes of her crushed heart.<\/span><\/p>\n

One morning, she will wake up and she will realize that you don\u2019t deserve to have a place in her life and her heart anymore. That you were never good for anything besides pretending and that she is way better off without you. <\/span><\/p>\n

Che tutto questo non era altro che un <\/span>lezione dolorosa<\/span><\/a> che l'ha aiutata a diventare pi\u00f9 forte.<\/span><\/p>\n

One of these days, she will be happy again. And you? You will always remain the same piece of shit you\u2019ve always been.<\/span><\/p>\n

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When this girl met you, she thought that you were everything she\u2019d been searching for in a man. After all those failures, after all those toxic men and unhealthy relationships, there you were\u2014her reward for all the suffering she\u2019d been through, her perfect man. When she first met you, you acted like the guy of…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":39,"featured_media":32028,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29642],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-32027","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-guy-talk"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29642,"label":"guy talk"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/alma-black-1330012-unsplash-2.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Owen Scott","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/hase\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29642,"name":"guy talk","slug":"guy-talk","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29642,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Welcome to the land of juicy topics and lots of helpful tips on love and relationships. You can fully relax because fun and transparency are guaranteed. ","parent":29638,"count":69,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29642,"category_count":69,"category_description":"Welcome to the land of juicy topics and lots of helpful tips on love and relationships. You can fully relax because fun and transparency are guaranteed. ","cat_name":"guy talk","category_nicename":"guy-talk","category_parent":29638}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/32027","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/39"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=32027"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/32027\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/32028"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=32027"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=32027"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=32027"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}