{"id":32100,"date":"2020-05-01T08:51:22","date_gmt":"2020-05-01T08:51:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=32100"},"modified":"2022-01-09T17:07:44","modified_gmt":"2022-01-09T17:07:44","slug":"non-ho-bisogno-di-perfezione-ma-solo-di-un-uomo-adulto-con-la-sua-merda-insieme","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/non-ho-bisogno-di-perfezione-ma-solo-di-un-uomo-adulto-con-la-sua-merda-insieme\/","title":{"rendered":"Non ho bisogno di perfezione, ma solo di un uomo adulto con le sue cose in ordine"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>All of this talking about the characteristics of a real man, things they should do or not do to make us happy, all of these guides and signs on how to find the real one or how you can change him to start treating you right\u2026<\/p>\n<p>All this time, I\u2019ve been in pursuit of finding the right one for me. To find someone who will exhibit certain traits that will fit my definition of a real man.<\/p>\n<p>After a few failures, I\u2019ve realized that there\u2019s no point in seeking perfection because it simply doesn\u2019t exist.<\/p>\n<p>Mi ci sono voluti alcuni colpi di cuore, inondazioni di lacrime ed enormi quantit\u00e0 di dolore per capire che, per quanto alti fossero i miei standard, avrei comunque finito per essere distrutta e delusa.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve become sick of all of those narcissistic boys, their selfishness and sweet nothings.<\/p>\n<p><b>I\u2019ve realized that I don\u2019t need perfection, just a grown-ass man with his shit together.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t need a boy with a perfect body and face, flawless, with a perfect mind. All I need is a grown-ass man who will stick to his words and promises.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-108559\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-wearing-suit.jpg\" alt=\"uomo in giacca e cravatta\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1067\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-wearing-suit.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-wearing-suit-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-wearing-suit-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-wearing-suit-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-wearing-suit-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m not looking for someone to take me to the moon or the stars. I\u2019m looking for someone who will be willing to gaze at them with me on long, hot, summer nights.<\/p>\n<p>And I don\u2019t think I\u2019m asking for much.<\/p>\n<p>My previous disappointments with men have actually taught me not to expect much of them and that is why I wholeheartedly and solemnly swear that I don\u2019t and will never look for perfection.<\/p>\n<p><b>Tutto ci\u00f2 di cui ho bisogno \u00e8 un uomo che sappia cosa vuole, che combatta per ottenerlo e che sappia apprezzare ci\u00f2 che ha.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t need a boy who wants one thing today and a different thing the next. I don\u2019t need someone whose main priority is their self-centered, egotistical nature.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/tutto-cio-di-cui-hai-bisogno-e-un-uomo-dal-cuore-grande\/\">Ho bisogno di un uomo<\/a> che sa cosa vuole, che vuole <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/per-quanto-io-cerchi-di-oppormi-ti-amo-ancora\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">combattere duramente<\/a> e che sapr\u00e0 apprezzare ci\u00f2 che ha.<\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t need someone who will <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/sta-facendo-dei-giochi-mentali-o-ha-perso-interesse-10-modi-per-scoprirlo-2\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">fare giochi mentali<\/a> con me o che mi faccia sentire meno degna.  Ho bisogno di un uomo che si prenda cura del mio cuore e della mia anima, proprio come io mi prender\u00f2 cura del suo.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-108560\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-drinking-coffee-and-watching-through-the-window.jpg\" alt=\"uomo che beve un caff\u00e8 e osserva dalla finestra\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-drinking-coffee-and-watching-through-the-window.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-drinking-coffee-and-watching-through-the-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-drinking-coffee-and-watching-through-the-window-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-drinking-coffee-and-watching-through-the-window-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-drinking-coffee-and-watching-through-the-window-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-drinking-coffee-and-watching-through-the-window-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-drinking-coffee-and-watching-through-the-window-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-drinking-coffee-and-watching-through-the-window-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Tutto ci\u00f2 che voglio \u00e8 la reciprocit\u00e0 reciproca. Tutto ci\u00f2 che voglio \u00e8 la reciprocit\u00e0 reciproca del dare e del ricevere. Nient'altro.<\/p>\n<p><b>Ho bisogno di un uomo che non mi dia per scontata, che continui a lottare per me anche dopo avermi conquistata.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Ho bisogno di un uomo che non si arrenda al primo ostacolo. L'amore non \u00e8 un gioco, come pensano i ragazzi.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t go out of your way to fight hard to win someone only to take them for granted afterward. You fight hard to win their love and you keep fighting to maintain it.<\/p>\n<p>And that\u2019s the kind of man I\u2019m looking for.<\/p>\n<p>I need a man who will understand the seriousness of other people\u2019s feelings and this complex thing called love.<\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t need someone who will fight for me only to fulfill his egotistical purposes.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-108561\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-in-suit-drinking-coffee.jpg\" alt=\"uomo in giacca e cravatta che beve caff\u00e8\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-in-suit-drinking-coffee.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-in-suit-drinking-coffee-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-in-suit-drinking-coffee-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-in-suit-drinking-coffee-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-in-suit-drinking-coffee-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-in-suit-drinking-coffee-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-in-suit-drinking-coffee-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-in-suit-drinking-coffee-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I need honesty, respect, and selflessness. I need to know that I\u2019m not just another brick in the wall that will be replaced with another one when it becomes worn.<\/p>\n<p><b>I don\u2019t need to be treated like a queen. I just need a man who will be there for me no matter what.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t expect to be showered with honey, milk and gold. I don\u2019t expect any of the luxuries that we\u2019re bombarded with today.<\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t need them because I believe in modesty and the beauty of little things. I don\u2019t need someone who will buy me three hundred roses to persuade me of his love.<\/p>\n<p>Ho bisogno di un uomo che dica le cose come stanno davvero. E che mi dimostri il suo amore semplicemente essendomi accanto, qualunque cosa accada.<\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t need any of those expensive gifts from shops.<\/p>\n<p>All I need is a grown-ass man who is devoted to the core because that\u2019s the biggest gift you could give to someone you really love.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-108543\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/I-Dont-Need-Perfection-Just-A-Grown-Ass-Man-With-His-Shit-Together-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Non ho bisogno di perfezione, ma solo di un uomo adulto con le sue cose in ordine\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/I-Dont-Need-Perfection-Just-A-Grown-Ass-Man-With-His-Shit-Together-pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/I-Dont-Need-Perfection-Just-A-Grown-Ass-Man-With-His-Shit-Together-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/I-Dont-Need-Perfection-Just-A-Grown-Ass-Man-With-His-Shit-Together-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>All of this talking about the characteristics of a real man, things they should do or not do to make us happy, all of these guides and signs on how to find the real one or how you can change him to start treating you right\u2026 All this time, I\u2019ve been in pursuit of finding&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":108558,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-32100","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/I-Dont-Need-Perfection-Just-A-Grown-Ass-Man-With-His-Shit-Together-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/32100","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=32100"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/32100\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/108558"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=32100"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=32100"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=32100"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}