{"id":32135,"date":"2020-02-04T08:56:33","date_gmt":"2020-02-04T08:56:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=32135"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:37:44","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:37:44","slug":"6-modi-per-fargli-rimpiangere-di-averla-data-per-scontata","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/6-modi-per-fargli-rimpiangere-di-averla-data-per-scontata\/","title":{"rendered":"6 modi per fargli rimpiangere di avervi dato per scontati"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>C'\u00e8 una cosa che i narcisisti, i giocatori e tutti gli altri manipolatori sanno fare molto bene: dare per scontate le persone.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s in their nature (most of the time) to think only about themselves and put their needs before others\u2019.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s in their nature to expect you to keep giving all of yourself to them without doing anything in return.<\/p>\n<p>The word reciprocity simply doesn\u2019t exist in their dictionary (at least not in a boy\u2019s dictionary). And contrary to them, women are the exact opposite.<\/p>\n<p>Daremmo loro tutto quello che abbiamo e anche di pi\u00f9, privando deliberatamente noi stessi della felicit\u00e0, per poi essere <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/7-cose-che-potete-fare-quando-inizia-a-darvi-per-scontati\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">dato per scontato<\/span><\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>And that is why it\u2019s time for you to take things into your own hands and make him regret not appreciating everything you\u2019ve done for him!<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s time for you to demand respect and make him regret not treating you the way you deserve and these 6 ways will help you achieve it.<\/p>\n<p><em><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\"><b>6 modi per fargli rimpiangere di averla data per scontata<\/b><\/span><\/em><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Riconoscere le sue stronzate<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-73800\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/angry-woman-yelling-at-man.jpg\" alt=\"donna arrabbiata che urla contro un uomo\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/angry-woman-yelling-at-man.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/angry-woman-yelling-at-man-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/angry-woman-yelling-at-man-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>When something pisses you off, just tell him! It\u2019s as simple as that.<\/p>\n<p>Non rimanete in silenzio e non ignorate le sue parole o azioni cattive, a prescindere da tutto. Le donne sono state in silenzio per troppo tempo e ora \u00e8 il momento di iniziare a parlare!<\/p>\n<p>Se sapete che il suo comportamento \u00e8 egoista e non \u00e8 corretto, diteglielo.<\/p>\n<p>Acknowledge his bullshit to his face so that he knows you\u2019re not a fool and you will not stay indifferent to his mistreatment. You owe yourself that much.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Smettete di fare cose carine per lui.<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-73801\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/worried-woman-in-deep-thoughts.jpg\" alt=\"donna preoccupata e pensierosa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/worried-woman-in-deep-thoughts.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/worried-woman-in-deep-thoughts-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/worried-woman-in-deep-thoughts-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/h2>\n<p>And for God\u2019s sake, stop going out of your way to make him happy when you see that he\u2019s not trying to do the same for you.<\/p>\n<p>Let him know that you\u2019re no longer the same person who used to give all of yourself only to appease him.<\/p>\n<p>When he sees that you\u2019ve changed, he\u2019ll realize that maybe it is because of him. Maybe you stopped doing things you were usually doing because you\u2019re sick of him not appreciating it.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s the only way for him to realize the mistake of his selfish nature.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Impostare le regole<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-73802\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/couple-arguing-in-living-room.jpg\" alt=\"coppia che discute in salotto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/couple-arguing-in-living-room.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/couple-arguing-in-living-room-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/couple-arguing-in-living-room-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>La cosa pi\u00f9 importante \u00e8 stabilire delle regole e rispettarle rigorosamente.<\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re not happy with how he\u2019s been treating you, set rules that will tell him you will no longer tolerate any of his bullshit.<\/p>\n<p>When he sees that you have boundaries and you will not buy any of his crap anymore, he will know that it\u2019s time to change or he will lose you.<\/p>\n<p>Proteggi te stessa e la tua felicit\u00e0 perch\u00e9 meriti di essere la sua priorit\u00e0 e non un'opzione. Meriti di essere trattata allo stesso modo in cui tratti gli altri.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Let him know that you\u2019re perfectly fine without him<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-73803\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/calm-woman-sitting-on-the-couch.jpg\" alt=\"donna tranquilla seduta sul divano\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/calm-woman-sitting-on-the-couch.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/calm-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/calm-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You need to make sure that he knows he\u2019s not the center of the universe and your world doesn\u2019t revolve around him.<\/p>\n<p>Letting him know that you\u2019re perfectly fine without him will make him realize that you have other priorities as well.<\/p>\n<p>Divertirsi senza di lui \u00e8 la cosa migliore che possiate fare per voi stesse in questo momento. Quindi, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/non-sprecare-il-suo-tempo-se-stai-cercando-qualcosa-di-temporaneo\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">don\u2019t waste your time<\/span><\/a> capire cosa fare per fargli smettere di darti per scontata.<\/p>\n<p>Vivi la tua vita adesso! E lui inizier\u00e0 a temere che, se continuer\u00e0 a trattarvi cos\u00ec, potrebbe perdere la cosa migliore che abbia mai avuto.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Avere sempre dignit\u00e0<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-73804\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/woman-with-dignity-standing.jpg\" alt=\"donna con dignit\u00e0 in piedi \" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/woman-with-dignity-standing.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/woman-with-dignity-standing-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/woman-with-dignity-standing-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Non inseguitelo mai e poi mai. Qualunque cosa accada, sappiate che non \u00e8 colpa vostra e che non siete voi a dovervi dare da fare per implorare le sue attenzioni o, peggio ancora, a pensare di dover cambiare.<\/p>\n<p>The only thing you should be doing is holding your head up high and not giving a damn about him until he starts giving you signs that he\u2019s determined to change himself.<\/p>\n<p>Camminate con orgoglio, parlate con orgoglio e rifiutate di ricevere qualcosa di diverso da ci\u00f2 che meritate.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Let him know that if he doesn\u2019t appreciate what he has, somebody else will<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-73805\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/upset-woman-with-man-sitting-on-sofa.jpg\" alt=\"donna turbata con uomo seduto sul divano\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/upset-woman-with-man-sitting-on-sofa.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/upset-woman-with-man-sitting-on-sofa-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/upset-woman-with-man-sitting-on-sofa-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Give him some time to prove to you that he\u2019s willing to make an effort and work on his treatment toward you.<\/p>\n<p>And if he still doesn\u2019t do anything about it, then let him know if he\u2019s not ready to appreciate what he has, somebody else surely will.<\/p>\n<p><em>If he\u2019s not answering your calls, DO NOT call him again!<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>If he\u2019s not being there for you when you need him most, DO NOT be there for him!<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>If he\u2019s not making an effort, DO NOT wait a second longer.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Non dovete mai permettervi di fargli credere che ballerete al suo ritmo a prescindere da tutto.<\/p>\n<p>Non dovete mai accontentarvi della mediocrit\u00e0, perch\u00e9 meritate la grandezza. Non dimenticatelo mai.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-73798\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/6-Ways-To-Make-Him-Regret-Taking-You-For-Granted-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"6 modi per fargli rimpiangere di avervi dato per scontati\" width=\"735\" height=\"1102\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/6-Ways-To-Make-Him-Regret-Taking-You-For-Granted-pinterest.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/6-Ways-To-Make-Him-Regret-Taking-You-For-Granted-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/6-Ways-To-Make-Him-Regret-Taking-You-For-Granted-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 735px) 100vw, 735px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>There is one sure thing that narcissists, players and all of the other manipulators are really good at and that is taking people for granted. It\u2019s in their nature (most of the time) to think only about themselves and put their needs before others\u2019. It\u2019s in their nature to expect you to keep giving all&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":73806,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-32135","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/6-Ways-To-Make-Him-Regret-Taking-You-For-Granted.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. 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