{"id":32197,"date":"2020-04-05T14:17:20","date_gmt":"2020-04-05T14:17:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=32197"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:18:29","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:18:29","slug":"7-segni-che-non-sta-giocando-a-fare-il-duro-sta-solo-giocando-con-te","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/7-segni-che-non-sta-giocando-a-fare-il-duro-sta-solo-giocando-con-te\/","title":{"rendered":"7 segni che non sta facendo il duro, ma sta solo giocando con te"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>La maggior parte di noi \u00e8 piuttosto guardinga all'inizio di una nuova relazione e questo \u00e8 qualcosa di completamente naturale sia per gli uomini che per le donne.<\/p>\n<p>Non \u00e8 insolito che un <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/7-adorable-signs-hes-afraid-to-fall-for-you\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"> ragazzo da temere <\/a> di essere ferito o che un ragazzo sia troppo cauto con la ragazza che gli piace finch\u00e9 non \u00e8 sicuro che lei sia degna di essere accolta completamente.<\/p>\n<p>Tuttavia, c'\u00e8 un'enorme differenza tra un ragazzo che \u00e8 davvero pazzo di voi ma ha paura di mostrare le sue vere emozioni per non farsi spezzare il cuore e un ragazzo che vi sta solo prendendo in giro.<\/p>\n<p>Anche se questa differenza \u00e8 a volte vaga e difficile da determinare, ci sono alcuni segnali che possono aiutarvi a capire che un ragazzo non sta facendo il difficile, ma sta giocando con voi.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Ti tratta come una seconda scelta<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-85545\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/sad-woman-sitting-apart-from-boyfriend.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste seduta lontano dal fidanzato\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/sad-woman-sitting-apart-from-boyfriend.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/sad-woman-sitting-apart-from-boyfriend-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/sad-woman-sitting-apart-from-boyfriend-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><br \/>\nOr even worse\u2014like his last resort. Whether you like to admit it or not, the truth is that you are nowhere near this guy\u2019s priority list.<\/p>\n<p>Everything is more important than you\u2014his job, his hobbies and his friends.<\/p>\n<p>I am not saying that he should forget all about his old life just because he\u2019s started seeing you but if a guy only calls you when everyone else backs out on him or when he needs something from you, he is definitely playing you.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">He isn&#8217;t consistent<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-85546\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/serious-man-looking-at-woman-in-the-park.jpg\" alt=\"uomo serio che guarda una donna nel parco\" width=\"800\" height=\"535\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/serious-man-looking-at-woman-in-the-park.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/serious-man-looking-at-woman-in-the-park-300x201.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/serious-man-looking-at-woman-in-the-park-768x514.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>There are days when this man acts like a real Mr. Perfect\u2014days when he constantly calls you and when he is around all the time.<\/p>\n<p>However, there are also some periods when he simply vanishes; times when you can\u2019t get a text back, let alone something more from him.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c8 pi\u00f9 che ovvio che <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/if-he-cant-be-consistent-he-is-not-worth-your-commitment\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">this man isn\u2019t consistent<\/a> sul modo in cui ti tratta. Sta giocando a questi giochi di caldo e freddo e questa \u00e8 l'ultima cosa di cui avete bisogno.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Ti sei sempre adattato a lui<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-85547\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/couple-arguing-in-the-cafe.jpg\" alt=\"coppia che litiga nel caff\u00e8\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/couple-arguing-in-the-cafe.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/couple-arguing-in-the-cafe-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/couple-arguing-in-the-cafe-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Voi due uscite solo quando lui ne ha voglia.<\/p>\n<p>Siete voi a dovervi sempre adattare ai suoi impegni e a mettere in pausa la vostra vita, in attesa che questo ragazzo sia disponibile.<\/p>\n<p>Non cancella mai i suoi piani per stare con voi, mentre si aspetta che lo facciate voi.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Ti chiama solo a tarda notte<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-85548\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/young-man-talking-on-phone.jpg\" alt=\"giovane uomo che parla al telefono\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/young-man-talking-on-phone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/young-man-talking-on-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/young-man-talking-on-phone-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Se ci pensate bene, quest'uomo non vi invita mai a fare una passeggiata o ad andare a pranzo fuori.<\/p>\n<p>Invece, sembra che pensi a te solo a tarda notte e che, in qualche modo, vi ritroviate sempre a casa sua o a casa tua.<\/p>\n<p>Odio dover essere io a dirtelo, ma se questo \u00e8 un dato di fatto, \u00e8 evidente che non sei nient'altro che il suo bottino.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">He doesn\u2019t want to label things<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-85549\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/couple-in-argue-sitting-on-the-couch-1.jpg\" alt=\"coppia in lite seduta sul divano\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/couple-in-argue-sitting-on-the-couch-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/couple-in-argue-sitting-on-the-couch-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/couple-in-argue-sitting-on-the-couch-1-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You need to understand one thing\u2014when a man cares for you enough, he will treat you seriously from the start.<\/p>\n<p>He won\u2019t have trouble committing to you or giving your relationship a title.<\/p>\n<p>Quest'uomo sar\u00e0 pi\u00f9 che orgoglioso di chiamarvi la sua ragazza e di tenervi per mano davanti al mondo.<\/p>\n<p>Tutto il resto sono vuote scuse. Tuttavia, siete bloccati in questo <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/prima-di-intraprendere-una-relazione-senza-laboratorio-sappiate-queste-5-cose\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"> relazione senza etichetta <\/a> con questo ragazzo ed \u00e8 lui che si rifiuta di definire le cose tra voi due.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">He doesn\u2019t involve you in his life<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-85550\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/sad-woman-sitting-apart-from-boyfriend-who-is-typing.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste seduta lontano dal fidanzato che sta scrivendo a macchina\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/sad-woman-sitting-apart-from-boyfriend-who-is-typing.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/sad-woman-sitting-apart-from-boyfriend-who-is-typing-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/sad-woman-sitting-apart-from-boyfriend-who-is-typing-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>The truth is that you know very little about this man we\u2019re talking about, except for some basic information.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t know anything about his dreams, hopes and fears and you\u2019ve never met his friends or family.<\/p>\n<p>I know you think he is mysterious and closed but the harsh truth is that this guy doesn\u2019t want to build any other intimacy besides sexual.<\/p>\n<p>He isn\u2019t interested in forming a meaningful connection with you and that is the cause of his behavior.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">N\u00e9 gli interessa il tuo<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-85551\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/angry-man-doesnt-want-to-talk-with-woman.jpg\" alt=\"uomo arrabbiato non vuole parlare con la donna\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/angry-man-doesnt-want-to-talk-with-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/angry-man-doesnt-want-to-talk-with-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/angry-man-doesnt-want-to-talk-with-woman-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Non solo, ma il ragazzo di cui stiamo parlando non mostra mai alcun interesse per la vostra vita.<\/p>\n<p>He doesn\u2019t care how your day was nor is he ever in the mood for hanging out with the people around you.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-85544\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/7-Signs-He-Isn\u2019t-Playing-Hard-To-Get-He-Is-Just-Playing-With-You-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"7 segni che non sta facendo il duro, ma sta solo giocando con te\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/7-Signs-He-Isn\u2019t-Playing-Hard-To-Get-He-Is-Just-Playing-With-You-pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/7-Signs-He-Isn\u2019t-Playing-Hard-To-Get-He-Is-Just-Playing-With-You-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Most of us are pretty much guarded at the beginning of a new relationship and that is something completely natural for both men and women. It is not unusual for a guy to be afraid of being hurt or for a guy to be too careful around the girl he likes until he is sure&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":85552,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29648],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-32197","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-tips"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29648,"label":"dating tips"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/7-Signs-He-Isn\u2019t-Playing-Hard-To-Get-He-Is-Just-Playing-With-You.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29648,"name":"dating tips","slug":"dating-tips","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29648,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. 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