{"id":32215,"date":"2020-05-06T08:41:58","date_gmt":"2020-05-06T08:41:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=32215"},"modified":"2022-02-27T02:38:51","modified_gmt":"2022-02-27T02:38:51","slug":"13-modi-per-amare-se-stessi-dopo-essersi-liberati-da-una-relazione-tossica","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/13-modi-per-amare-se-stessi-dopo-essersi-liberati-da-una-relazione-tossica\/","title":{"rendered":"13 modi per amare se stessi dopo essersi liberati da una relazione tossica"},"content":{"rendered":"

Armatevi di positivit\u00e0.<\/h2>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

You\u2019re going into war – a war with yourself, a fight for your survival. Staying positive is the hardest thing dopo aver vissuto una relazione tossica<\/a>.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve been emotionally neglected and abused for a long time so that it in a way became your surrounding.<\/p>\n

Negativity was all around you, and now that you\u2019ve broken free, you still feel beaten and destroyed.<\/p>\n

Cosa fare dopo una relazione tossica<\/a> \u00e8 creare una zona priva di negativit\u00e0. Dovete dimostrare a voi stessi che vi rispettate e vi amate scegliendo una prospettiva positiva nella vostra vita.<\/p>\n

Essere single \u00e8 ci\u00f2 di cui hai bisogno in questo momento.<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t go looking for someone to heal you.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t look for love when you are not ready to love someone yourself. Staying single at this point when you\u2019re hurting is essential.<\/p>\n

Rimanere soli con i propri pensieri e la propria lotta interiore \u00e8 qualcosa che si deve affrontare da soli.<\/p>\n

If you start a new relationship, it won\u2019t help you heal\u2014you can only destroy the person who is truly falling in love with you.<\/p>\n

Rimanete soli e diventate amici di voi stessi. Ascoltate voi stessi, i vostri bisogni e le vostre aspirazioni. Assecondatele tutte.<\/p>\n

Nutritevi e date una possibilit\u00e0 alla vostra vita da single.<\/p>\n

Cancellate ogni ricordo della loro esistenza nella vostra vita.<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Delete every photo of him you have and every text he\u2019s ever sent you.<\/p>\n

Block him on all social media, so you won\u2019t be tempted to check out his profile on your bad days.<\/p>\n

You have a mind of your own; you have a voice of your own. Don\u2019t let his toxicity mess with you, even through memories.<\/p>\n

Never take back what you\u2019ve said or what you think.<\/h2>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

In the moments of anger and when you felt abandoned, you\u2019ve realized you were abused emotionally.<\/p>\n

In those moments, you were angry, and you\u2019ve accepted what was happening to you and what kind of a person he is.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve said things, bad things, but after the critical moment passes, don\u2019t take those words back.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t justify his behavior when your head cools off. It\u2019s as bad as it was. It\u2019s you who is taking a different view on the situation.<\/p>\n

Questa volta, pensate solo a voi stessi.<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

You’ve been imprisoned. You\u2019ve danced to the music he was playing. Only his wishes mattered, and you were completely ignored.<\/p>\n

Now that he\u2019s gone, go crazy. Humor your every need and wish. Eat what you want, go where you want. In other words, spoil yourself – you deserve it.<\/p>\n

Seek beauty because it\u2019s around you.<\/h2>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

When your world is falling apart, when you\u2019re in a bad place, it\u2019s easy to miss the fact that the world surrounding you is a beautiful place.<\/p>\n

Le persone si lasciano facilmente trasportare dai propri problemi e non vedono ci\u00f2 che le circonda.<\/p>\n

Quando ne avete la possibilit\u00e0, uscite all'aperto. Fate una passeggiata o sedetevi in veranda ad aspettare il tramonto.<\/p>\n

Godetevi le bellezze che la natura ha da offrirvi. Guarir\u00e0 il vostro spirito e vi restituir\u00e0 l'energia necessaria per rimettervi in sesto.<\/p>\n

Seppellite i vostri difetti nel passato.<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Quando si rompe con qualcuno, l'autostima si azzera.<\/p>\n

You feel worthless and rejected. So you question why you\u2019re rejected. Is there something wrong with you?<\/p>\n

So you start looking for flaws. Actually, all you see are flaws and reasons why you\u2019re not good enough.<\/p>\n

Rifiutate e seppellite quei pensieri tossici nel profondo del vostro passato.<\/p>\n

Invece di commiserarvi, pensate a quanta forza avete dovuto avere per lasciare la relazione tossica che stavate vivendo.<\/p>\n

A lot of women stay because they don\u2019t see the way out.<\/p>\n

Lei \u00e8 uno dei pochi che ha avuto il coraggio di fare il terrificante passo verso l'ignoto.<\/p>\n

Che cos'\u00e8 l'amore per se stessi?<\/h2>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

Ognuno definisce l'amore per se stesso in modo diverso. E a prescindere dalla vostra risposta, dovete fare una cosa.<\/p>\n

You have to convince yourself that you\u2019re so much stronger than the negative thoughts haunting you.<\/p>\n

You won\u2019t be able to move on with your life and continue your journey to healing if you\u2019re still holding on to the insecurity and to what happened to you in the toxic relationship.<\/p>\n

Perdonare se stessi.<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Perdonarsi per aver commesso un terribile errore.<\/p>\n

Perdonate voi stessi per non aver riconosciuto tutti i segnali che vi avvertivano di uscire da quella relazione.<\/p>\n

Perdonare se stessi <\/a> per essere rimasto al suo fianco molto pi\u00f9 a lungo di quanto avresti dovuto.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t have to forgive him for hurting you. You have to forgive yourself for letting him hurt you.<\/p>\n

Tracciate i vostri confini.<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

If you set them low, you\u2019re going to get hurt again.<\/p>\n

If you set them high, you\u2019re going to protect yourself. So basically, it\u2019s up to you whether you\u2019re going to live through the same story once again.<\/p>\n

Dimenticate il passato.<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

You\u2019re going to have weak moments when you wish things could have ended differently, but don\u2019t let that make you do something you\u2019ll regret later.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re going to remember the old times and all the happy moments.<\/p>\n

Because no matter how toxic the relationship was, you had moments which you\u2019ll remember, happy moments when he wasn\u2019t such an asshole.<\/p>\n

Make a list of people you\u2019ve neglected or hurt.<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Throughout your toxic relationship, you\u2019ve probably hurt a few people you love.<\/p>\n

You\u2018ve probably excluded them from your life either because they were telling you the truth about the man you\u2019re dating or because the man you dated distanced you from them.<\/p>\n

Anyhow, what you did isn\u2019t fair or friendly to anyone, no matter if you were forced to do it or you did it on your own initiative.<\/p>\n

Look for the people you\u2019ve hurt and apologize. Those who truly love you will forgive you in a second and pick up where the two of you left off.<\/p>\n

Datevi un po' di tempo.<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Despite the fact that you\u2019ve broken free from a toxic relationship, you still need some time to mourn your loss.<\/p>\n

Even when your relationship fails and it was a horrible experience, you\u2019ve engaged your emotions, and you’ve invested in it to make it work.<\/p>\n

E tutto il vostro duro lavoro \u00e8 andato sprecato. Prendetevi un po' di tempo per voi stessi e lasciatevi andare alla tristezza e alla solitudine.<\/p>\n

Question your existence. Question your faith in God because even when you\u2019re doing everything right, you can\u2019t seem to find happiness.<\/p>\n

Siate arrabbiati e sfogatevi!<\/p>\n

Never keep it inside because that toxic poison will come out at the moment when you least expect it and destroy you when you\u2019re the happiest.<\/p>\n

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