{"id":32227,"date":"2019-02-06T08:59:38","date_gmt":"2019-02-06T08:59:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=32227"},"modified":"2022-03-09T13:42:28","modified_gmt":"2022-03-09T13:42:28","slug":"leggete-questo-articolo-se-siete-stati-rifiutati-e-vi-fa-male-da-morire","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/leggete-questo-articolo-se-siete-stati-rifiutati-e-vi-fa-male-da-morire\/","title":{"rendered":"Leggete questo articolo se siete stati rifiutati e vi fa male da morire"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>If you hardly had any sleep last night because you spent the whole night looking inside yourself for the main culprit for your getting rejected\u2026Hi! Nice to meet you. I\u2019ve been there and please&#8230; join the club.<\/p>\n<p>There are a lot of us out there, and don\u2019t even for a second start to think that you are alone. Rejection does that to you. It fills you with loneliness. It makes you believe that the other person pushed you away because you are not good enough.<\/p>\n<p>Cos\u00ec, continuate a pensare che avreste potuto fare o dire qualcosa di diverso per cambiare il risultato. Che se foste stati solo un po' meno simili a voi, ora sarebbe tutto diverso.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t drown in your thoughts. You haven\u2019t made a mistake. You were always supposed to stay true to yourself.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s time you silence that negativity and see the real truth about rejection&#8230;someone failed to see what you are made of and all your potential, and them leaving you is an <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/10-motivi-per-cui-essere-single-e-un-dono\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">dono assoluto<\/span><\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><b>La verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che la vita ha in serbo per voi cose migliori della persona che ha scelto di andarsene. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>E se siete completamente onesti con voi stessi, non siete mai stati veramente felici con loro. Vi siete solo sentiti vicini alla felicit\u00e0 e vi siete aggrappati all'idea che loro fossero la persona giusta per voi.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s not the end of the world even if it feels like that. Your heart gets broken and every crack hurts like hell. You just can\u2019t make peace with what happened so easily.<\/p>\n<p>Va pi\u00f9 che bene. Nulla accade da un giorno all'altro. Avete bisogno di tempo, ma riuscirete a trovare il coraggio di affrontare tutte le cose che vi spaventano e che vi ostacolano.<\/p>\n<p><b>You will open your eyes and see that there was nothing wrong with you. The only wrong here is the person you invested in so selflessly who didn\u2019t know how to reciprocate.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>The only wrong here is the person who underestimated you and took you for granted. The person who showed clearly that they don&#8217;t respect you, and they don\u2019t deserve a place in your life.<\/p>\n<p>The behavior of that person towards you burdened you with a subconscious belief that you are not worthy of love and respect. That\u2019s why you started picking at your flaws and belittling yourself.<\/p>\n<p>Stop. Don\u2019t do that. Your self-worth has nothing to do with getting rejected, and it has everything to do with yourself. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/convalidare-sapere-sentire-reale\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Convalidare se stessi<\/span><\/a> because what matters is how you see yourself, not how others see you. Trust me\u2014half of the time they aren\u2019t really paying attention because all they care about is themselves.<\/p>\n<p>Respect who you are and what you\u2019ve accomplished so far in life. Love yourself. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/trattatevi-come-una-persona-che-amate\/\">Trattatevi bene<\/a>, in modo che qualcun altro sappia come trattarvi.<\/p>\n<p>In fin dei conti, siamo noi a dare l'esempio. Siamo solo noi a determinare ci\u00f2 che ci meritiamo, quindi siate gentili con voi stessi e non permettete mai a nessuno di trattarvi male.<\/p>\n<p><b>Rejection isn\u2019t something that determines your value<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u2014<\/span><b>it&#8217;s just the sign that you deserve more. That you\u2019ve got options in life, so you can start writing a better story than you were in<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u2014<\/span><b>una storia che non finisce mai, ma che inizia e dura nella felicit\u00e0. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>You see, you learn from your pain. We all do. It\u2019s what makes us grow and evolve. It\u2019s what makes us discover ourselves and what we are made of.<\/p>\n<p>Quindi, accettate il rifiuto come una parte della vita che vi ha spinto fuori dalla vostra zona di comfort e che ha iniziato a formare la persona pi\u00f9 forte, pi\u00f9 saggia e amante di se stessa che dovete ancora diventare.<\/p>\n<p>Accoglietela come un'opportunit\u00e0 di amore vero, perch\u00e9 la persona con cui dovreste finire far\u00e0 del suo meglio per tenervi nella sua vita e si innamorer\u00e0 di ogni piccola virt\u00f9 e difetto che siete.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>If you hardly had any sleep last night because you spent the whole night looking inside yourself for the main culprit for your getting rejected\u2026Hi! Nice to meet you. I\u2019ve been there and please&#8230; join the club. There are a lot of us out there, and don\u2019t even for a second start to think that&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":32228,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29628],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-32227","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dealing-with-breakup"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29628,"label":"dealing with breakup"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/samantha-sophia-363796-unsplash.jpg",800,531,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"April Callaghan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/april\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29628,"name":"dealing with breakup","slug":"dealing-with-breakup","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29628,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Breakups are painful but worry not; you don't need to go through all of it alone. 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