{"id":32251,"date":"2020-07-06T12:01:12","date_gmt":"2020-07-06T12:01:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=32251"},"modified":"2022-02-26T12:10:02","modified_gmt":"2022-02-26T12:10:02","slug":"18-fastidiose-abitudini-delle-fidanzate-che-fanno-impazzire-i-ragazzi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/18-fastidiose-abitudini-delle-fidanzate-che-fanno-impazzire-i-ragazzi\/","title":{"rendered":"18 fastidiose abitudini delle fidanzate che fanno impazzire i ragazzi"},"content":{"rendered":"

I ragazzi amano le loro fidanzate. Lo amano davvero. Amano vedere il vostro sorriso quando si sforzano di farvi ridere.<\/p>\n

They love observing you because they can\u2019t get enough of you, and your inspiring energy is a true blessing.<\/p>\n

Amano passare il tempo con voi guardando film, vivendo avventure, essendo il vostro partner nel crimine e molto altro ancora.<\/p>\n

But, sometimes they can\u2019t help themselves but feel a little bit annoyed about some things you do, yet seldom they will tell you about it.<\/p>\n

They are aware that they themselves are far from being perfect, so no matter how much you drive them crazy, they will put up with it (just as you\u2019re putting up with them).<\/p>\n

La chiave per un relazione felice<\/a> \u00e8 migliorare costantemente per diventare la versione migliore di voi stessi.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

La prima cosa che dovete chiedervi \u00e8 se il vostro partner si \u00e8 mai allontanato all'improvviso e senza motivo apparente? Si \u00e8 mai comportato in modo strano con voi, rifiutandosi di dirvi il motivo?<\/p>\n

If yes, chances are you\u2019ve probably had one of those Momenti di fastidio della fidanzata<\/a> che ogni fidanzata ha sperimentato almeno una volta.<\/p>\n

But, there\u2019s no need to worry about it because everything can be fixed. After all, that is the point of a relationship \u2013 to build and rebuild over and over again until you reach ultimate happiness.<\/p>\n

So, if you don\u2019t want to have the label of an annoying girlfriend, avoid these 18 habits, and your man will boast to others what an amazing girlfriend he has.<\/p>\n

But, psst! (Don\u2019t tell him you\u2019ve discovered his little secret about annoying habits he doesn\u2019t want you to know about).<\/p>\n

Let him think that you\u2019re a goddess by nature, that you simply know how his brain functions and how to act accordingly.<\/p>\n

Parlare dei propri problemi relazionali con altre persone<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

If there\u2019s one thing that guys really hate, it is when their girlfriend shares their relationship issues with other people, and not only shares, yet pretends to be a real psychologist with her friends, analyzing every single detail of what happened.<\/p>\n

Proprio come gli altri ragazzi, il vostro uomo pensa che ci\u00f2 che accade tra voi due dovrebbe rimanere l\u00ec e non diventare l'argomento numero uno tra i vostri amici e familiari.<\/p>\n

Preferiscono affrontare i loro problemi in silenzio invece di discuterne con gli altri.<\/p>\n

When you keep talking while he\u2019s playing games<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Per i ragazzi, giocare \u00e8 come diventare un vero eroe che sta per salvare il mondo dai suoi problemi.<\/p>\n

If you keep talking while he\u2019s doing that, he will not be able to enjoy his role of being virtually tough and masculine.<\/p>\n

Of course, he won\u2019t say all of this to you so that he doesn\u2019t offend you.<\/p>\n

He will just nod and pretend that he\u2019s listening to you, but deep down in his soul, he will pray to God for a moment of silence.<\/p>\n

Quando lo si scalda e poi lo si lascia con un'erezione<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

Can you imagine the amount of catastrophe in his mind when you give him hope that you\u2019re going to have sex with him, and then change your mind about it, thus leaving him with a hard-on?<\/p>\n

It\u2019s like you\u2019ve just cut off his two hands and left him bleeding until you come back again (but, then it will be too late). Just don\u2019t do that (if you want to spare him the trouble and agony he has to go through).<\/p>\n

Men hate when you\u2019re not giving them some space for themselves<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Yup. They really hate when you\u2019re constantly around them, forcing them to do things with you when they are not in the mood.<\/p>\n

They hate when you don\u2019t understand their necessit\u00e0 di spazio<\/a> e di avere tempo per se stessi, anche se questo significa fissare il soffitto (s\u00ec, i ragazzi a volte si comportano in modo piuttosto strano).<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t think that their need for some time to themselves means they don\u2019t enjoy spending time with you.<\/p>\n

They do enjoy spending every second with you, and they will enjoy it even more once you give them what they want\u2014and that is some space.<\/p>\n

When you\u2019re chronically late<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re late once, it\u2019s not that big deal. If you\u2019re ate twice, it\u2019s also not that big of a deal.<\/p>\n

But, if you\u2019re constantly late wherever you two are going, it will annoy the fuck out of him.<\/p>\n

Guys simply don\u2019t understand your urge to look perfect for every possible occasion, and no matter how hard you tried to explain to him the reason for your being late, they will never understand it.<\/p>\n

They don\u2019t understand the issues you might have with your mascara or powder, so whatever you say to them, your reason in their eyes will be invalid.<\/p>\n

Quando si disturba la loro zona di tranquillit\u00e0<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

When they have finally found their Zen and inner peace, all of a sudden you come to them, babbling about that annoying colleague from your work you can\u2019t stand.<\/p>\n

Or you start talking about your ashy skin and that expensive product that didn\u2019t solve shit. Do not disturb their quiet zone no matter what (you can thank me later).<\/p>\n

Quando si presta troppa attenzione ad altri uomini e si trascura lui<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t matter if the other men are just your friends or colleagues. In his eyes, they are a potential threat that he needs to exterminate.<\/p>\n

So, when you pay too much attention to them and neglect your man\u2019s existence, he will freak the fuck out.<\/p>\n

He will become confused and annoyed because he can\u2019t stand it, but he also can\u2019t do shit about it.<\/p>\n

Always make sure to include your guy in the discussion as well, and pay attention to his body language to see if he\u2019s on the verge of freaking out.<\/p>\n

When you ask him that worn question: \u201cDo I look fat?\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Just stop doing that. There\u2019s nothing more annoying to any guy out there than to be asked that worn question whether you look fat.<\/p>\n

And every single one of them will tell you: Of course, you don\u2019t look fat, darling!<\/p>\n

Now let\u2019s get some things straight. If you have a mirror in front of you and your vision serves you well, why would you ask such a thing in the first place?<\/p>\n

Ancora peggio, perch\u00e9 chiedere al vostro uomo una cosa del genere (quando sapete gi\u00e0 la sua risposta)?<\/p>\n

Just don\u2019t do that. Be your own judge, and believe what you see because that is the only way to improvement.<\/p>\n

Che importa se avete qualche chilo di troppo? Se vi danno fastidio, rimboccatevi le maniche, sudate in palestra e vedrete i risultati. Ma non chiedeteglielo.<\/p>\n

Quando si usa il sesso come arma<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

I know that it\u2019s in every woman\u2019s blood to use her assets to her advantage, but if you do that in terms of sex, he won\u2019t be that pleased.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t blackmail him that he ain\u2019t going to get near you if he doesn\u2019t fix that washing machine or doesn\u2019t do other household chores that you strictly ordered.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t use sex as a weapon because it might turn against you.<\/p>\n

When you don\u2019t understand the things he\u2019s interested in<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

If he\u2019s into some weird hobbies that you find a waste of time and no matter how tried, you simply cannot understand why he would occupy himself with such bullshit, do not judge him.<\/p>\n

If you do, he will feel annoyed and will blame you for sabotaging his happiness. Just let him do what he has to, and you\u2019ll save the both of you lots of irritation.<\/p>\n

When you\u2019re pushing him to do something he doesn\u2019t like<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re dragging him to try that vegan restaurant your aunt suggested and you know for a fact that he is a strict meat eater, he won\u2019t be happy.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re forcing him to accompany you while you go shopping for a lipstick or something else that reminds him of the word \u2018feminine\u2019, he won\u2019t be happy.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t push him to do things he doesn\u2019t like, and he\u2019ll be thankful to you.<\/p>\n

Quando ti aspetti che ti legga nel pensiero<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

If you don\u2019t say to him what you really mean and what you really want, do not expect him to fulfill your expectations.<\/p>\n

Molte fidanzate commettono questo errore dando per scontato che i loro partner conoscano i loro ruoli e si comportino di conseguenza.<\/p>\n

Ma la verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che non hanno la pi\u00f9 pallida idea di quello che dovrebbero fare e voi dovete semplicemente dirglielo.<\/p>\n

Quando si appare troppo bisognosi o troppo indipendenti<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re being troppo bisognoso<\/a>, he will get scared of it because it\u2019s not sexy. But, if you\u2019re being too independent, he will also get scared of you because it\u2019s too intimidating.<\/p>\n

S\u00ec, \u00e8 davvero difficile trovare la melodia perfetta per farli divertire.<\/p>\n

So, the best thing you can do is to be moderate. Don\u2019t be too needy or too independent. Ask him from time to time for his help, and do what you can by yourself.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s the only recipe for a happy relationship.<\/p>\n

Quando gli rubi il cibo<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

If you say to him that you\u2019re not hungry and then when he orders food for himself you immediately devour the whole plate because you can\u2019t control yourself (or you didn\u2019t know that you\u2019re hungry), it really gets on his nerves.<\/p>\n

He might act like he really doesn\u2019t mind you doing that, and he finds it cute instead, but the truth is that you\u2019re annoyed the fuck out of him because you didn\u2019t order your own food, and you\u2019ve eaten all of his.<\/p>\n

And now he\u2019ll have to order more of it (but this time for himself, or maybe not?).<\/p>\n

When you can\u2019t take your eyes off your smartphone<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

When he\u2019s trying to talk to you, when you\u2019re eating or when you\u2019re driving and you simply cannot take your eyes off your smartphone no matter what, he will be appalled.<\/p>\n

is really frustrating when you can\u2019t be with the person at a certain moment because she\u2019s busy looking for the latest anti-pimple cream or anti-cellulite cream.<\/p>\n

When you say, \u201cFine!\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

I guess you can\u2019t even imagine what kind of scenarios are going through his brain when you say the word \u2018Fine\u2019.<\/p>\n

But, let me try to demonstrate it to you. When you say the word \u2018Fine\u2019, his world collapses.<\/p>\n

He knows that he fucked something up; he knows you won\u2019t tell him; and he knows he will have to spend another three days contemplating it, waiting for your passive aggressiveness to stop.<\/p>\n

But, lucky you, he will be comforted by the fact that he\u2019s not the only guy who is going through this.<\/p>\n

Quando si serba rancore per troppo tempo<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Gi\u00e0. Odia davvero quando fa di tutto per convincervi a lasciar perdere qualcosa e a smettere di essere arrabbiati con lui, e voi continuate a serbare rancore a prescindere da ci\u00f2 che dice.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s killing him inside out, so try to spare him his misery sometimes, and don\u2019t leave him desperate for too long.<\/p>\n

Quando si pongono domande che intrappolano<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Men fear questions in which you ask them their opinions on your friends\u2019 appearances, some sensitive questions regarding your health, and similar.<\/p>\n

Their brain automatically stops functioning, and the only thing they think about is whether they\u2019re going to fuck things up or say what you want to hear.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t pose entrapping questions (if you don\u2019t want to drive them completely crazy). Try to keep it simple because, after all, men are quite simple beings.<\/p>\n

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