{"id":32300,"date":"2019-02-07T08:44:10","date_gmt":"2019-02-07T08:44:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=32300"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:16:21","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:16:21","slug":"anche-se-fosse-lultimo-uomo-rimasto-in-piedi-non-tornare-da-lui","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/anche-se-fosse-lultimo-uomo-rimasto-in-piedi-non-tornare-da-lui\/","title":{"rendered":"Anche se \u00e8 stato l'ultimo uomo rimasto in piedi, non tornate da lui"},"content":{"rendered":"

I know you\u2019re asking yourself where everything went wrong. I know you\u2019re faced with your past, and you have no idea which wrong move you made. I know you\u2019re asking yourself and God: \u201cHow did this happen?\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

I know you\u2019re tired of putting a fake smile on your face. You\u2019re tired of pretending everything is fine. You\u2019re so fed up with giving automatic answers to the question: \u201cHow are you doing?\u201d \u201cYes, I\u2019m fine, I\u2019m great!\u201d you say, thinking and wishing for all the questions to finally stop.<\/p>\n

So che quando tornate a casa, quando le vostre giornate diventano meno turbolente e quando date alla vostra mente un po' di spazio per vagare, essa vaga direttamente verso di lui!<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

I understand how much pain you carry in your heart. I know how many scars a hurt person can hide. You keep your pain all to yourself. You\u2019re hurting, you\u2019re falling apart<\/span><\/a>e nessuno lo vede.<\/p>\n

Please, resist your urges to contact him. Please swear at yourself when your hands reach for the phone to check his social media. Curse, shout, go outside\u2014do literally anything you can think off, but don\u2019t crack under the pressure.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s just emptiness talking from the inside. It\u2019s loneliness. It\u2019s that feeling of being unwanted. And every time it happens, you come running back to the last thing you were sure of\u2014you come running back to him.<\/p>\n

Although you know he is not the same person anymore, although you know he is not worthy of you nor is he good enough to be wandering around your mind, you can\u2019t let him go.<\/p>\n

Deep inside, you\u2019re hoping he\u2019ll change. You\u2019re hoping he wants to become the person you fell in love with once again, but he doesn\u2019t. He still blames you. He is still sticking to his story. He needs someone to release his anger and frustration on.<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll never apologize. He\u2019ll never change.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

I don\u2019t blame you for hoping he\u2019ll come around. He wasn\u2019t such an asshole the whole time. There were moments when he was kind and sweet, when he showed you how much he cared, when he held you in his hand like you were a fragile flower, protecting you from everything, keeping you safe from the world.<\/p>\n

There is a story I once read, and in that story, there was a sweet little boy who found a fox. That fox was scared of him, that fox was from the wilderness. That fox needed to be sure that once the boy tamed her, he won\u2019t leave her. And there was something that the fox said to the Little Prince that got me thinking of you:<\/p>\n

\u201cTo me, you are still nothing more than a little boy who is just like a hundred thousand other little boys. And I have no need of you. And you, on your part, have no need of me. To you, I am nothing more than a fox like a hundred thousand other foxes. But if you tame me, then we shall need each other. To me, you will be unique in all the world. To you, I shall be unique in all the world.\u201d – Antoine de Saint-Exup\u00e9ry, The Little Prince<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Avrebbe dovuto fare lo stesso. Lui che ti ha addomesticato, di cui ti sei fidata. Avresti dovuto essere la sua persona unica, qualcuno che non avrebbe mai ferito e lasciato andare.<\/p>\n

He never kept the promise he made. He didn\u2019t protect you from the pain. He caused you pain. And slowly your relationship became one-sided.<\/p>\n

He didn\u2019t give a damn about you, and you were still picking up the mess after him, hoping he\u2019ll see how much pain he\u2019s causing you. You were swallowing the tears, hoping he\u2019ll come around.<\/p>\n

E di tanto in tanto, porta quel lato dolce di lui e viene a bussare alla tua porta. E ogni tanto lo accogli, ti fidi di lui e lui ti ferisce di nuovo.<\/p>\n

This time, don\u2019t go back to him. Don\u2019t allow yourself to be hurt and broken again. I know you\u2019re still carrying the weight of it on your shoulders, but it\u2019s only a matter of time before you\u2019re going to crack under pressure and break beyond repair.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

This time you have to stay strong. You mustn’t let yourself yield. He is your weak spot. He is your kryptonite. Don\u2019t let him destroy you for good because he\u2019s going to.<\/p>\n

Keep fighting your internal battles. Let your heart and your head argue, and help the reason prevail. It\u2019s the best you can do. It\u2019s your last chance for happiness.<\/p>\n

Please, if he was the last man standing, don\u2019t go back to him.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

You\u2019ve already come so far. Don\u2019t destroy everything you\u2019ve built so far. Please, don\u2019t go back to him.<\/p>\n

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