{"id":3231,"date":"2019-08-03T13:45:40","date_gmt":"2019-08-03T13:45:40","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=3231"},"modified":"2021-08-24T13:22:09","modified_gmt":"2021-08-24T13:22:09","slug":"9-cose-per-cui-non-scusarsi-mai","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/9-cose-per-cui-non-scusarsi-mai\/","title":{"rendered":"9 cose per le quali non dovreste MAI, mai, scusarvi"},"content":{"rendered":"

Maybe it feels like everybody is waiting for you to make a mistake and everybody wants you to apologize, but you don\u2019t have to. You don\u2019t have to say sorry for the things you do because you don\u2019t owe it to anybody. It\u2019s your life and you shouldn\u2019t live it in fear of other people\u2019s judgments.<\/p>\n

Se avete voglia di fare qualcosa, la fate e vi sentite bene, perch\u00e9 vi scusate continuamente? Ecco le nove cose per cui non dovreste mai e poi mai scusarvi:<\/p>\n

Amare qualcuno<\/h2>\n

Being in love is a wonderful thing even though it might not be a mutual feeling. Just because you love somebody wrong or you love somebody who doesn\u2019t love you back, you shouldn\u2019t be ashamed of it.<\/p>\n

You should never apologize for loving no matter who you love. It\u2019s your right and even if it was forbidden, it\u2019s your heart that chooses, not you, so there is nothing else to do about it but own it.<\/p>\n

Saying \u2018no\u2019<\/h2>\n

You don\u2019t have to make excuses or explain yourself. \u2018No\u2019 is a complete sentence and it doesn\u2019t require a justification. What you fail to realize is that you say \u2018no\u2019 to millions of other things by simply saying \u2018yes\u2019 to one thing. You\u2019re doing it without even knowing.<\/p>\n

So, why should you apologize for openly saying you don\u2019t want to do something? It\u2019s unnecessary and you need to stop. It\u2019s your life and you get to chose what you want to do. If you don\u2019t feel like doing something, then don\u2019t. It doesn\u2019t get simpler than this.<\/p>\n

Vedi anche:<\/strong> Here Is To All Girls Who Dare To Say \u2018NO\u2019<\/p>\n

Seguire i propri sogni<\/h2>\n

You only have this one life and you\u2019re the only one responsible for how you\u2019re going to live it. You will be the only one to blame once you\u2019re old and wrinkled for not living it the fullest<\/a> and you\u2019ll only be able to point fingers towards your mirror at the one who\u2019s responsible.<\/p>\n

So, if you know all this, why do you feel guilty? The things you\u2019re apologizing for now will be the things you\u2019ll thank yourself for in future. Keep this in mind.<\/p>\n

Taking \u2018me\u2019 time<\/h2>\n

You need time to refill your batteries and sometimes, being around people can just be overwhelming. It\u2019s OK to take some \u2018me\u2019 time. It\u2019s more than OK\u2014it\u2019s a necessity. You don\u2019t have to apologize for it. You will never need to apologize for taking \u2018me\u2019 time.<\/p>\n

Vedi anche:<\/strong> Perch\u00e9 ogni donna ha bisogno di curare se stessa e come farlo!<\/a><\/p>\n

\"Donna<\/p>\n

Le vostre priorit\u00e0<\/h2>\n

Just because somebody isn\u2019t your #1 priority doesn\u2019t mean you have done something to be blamed for. There are more important things in life and you\u2019ve already lined them up from the most to the least important and that\u2019s perfect.<\/p>\n

The only thing you struggle with is your feeling of guilt. Well, if it doesn\u2019t matter to you and if it\u2019s not on the top of your list or if it\u2019s not even worthy of being on your priority list, why do you keep apologizing?<\/p>\n

It\u2019s your life\u2014you get to chose your priorities. Everybody else who doesn\u2019t approve may just move along and find somebody else to brainwash. You have your priorities straight and you should never apologize for it.<\/p>\n

Porre fine a una relazione tossica<\/h2>\n

Many people stay in toxic relationships for god-awful reasons. You should be proud to be smart and brave enough to leave your toxic relationship. You should reward yourself for that magnificent move\u2014not apologize.<\/p>\n

Le vostre imperfezioni<\/h2>\n

If you read the sentence: \u201cAll your imperfections make a perfect human being.\u201d would it make any sense to you? There are so many imperfect people out there and nobody even cares. Nessuno si accorge dei vostri difetti al posto vostro. <\/a>And if they are, then they\u2019re probably just being assholes. You should never apologize for the things that make you, you.<\/p>\n

Mantenere la propria posizione<\/h2>\n

To dim your voice when you actually have a point is the worst thing you could do in this world. Just because somebody else disagrees doesn’t mean you\u2019re wrong. Hell, don\u2019t get intimidated when somebody gets angry and don\u2019t apologize. Instead, stand your ground. You\u2019ll feel better once everything is over and you\u2019re right.<\/p>\n

Dire la verit\u00e0<\/h2>\n

If somebody can\u2019t handle the truth, should you lie? Nope! You should never apologize for being honest and telling how things are. Even if it hurts somebody, even if it makes you lose a few people in your life\u2014do it. There is nothing to be afraid or ashamed of, and there is most definitely nothing to apologize for. Wouldn\u2019t you want to know the truth no matter how much it hurts rather than being comforted with lies?<\/p>\n

It\u2019s your life you\u2019re living and nobody else’s. You don\u2019t need anybody to tell you this. So, instead of dimming your voice and being a little scarred bird, why don\u2019t you decide to own your thoughts, feelings, and actions. Those who care won\u2019t mind and those who mind don\u2019t care.\"\"<\/em><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Maybe it feels like everybody is waiting for you to make a mistake and everybody wants you to apologize, but you don\u2019t have to. You don\u2019t have to say sorry for the things you do because you don\u2019t owe it to anybody. It\u2019s your life and you shouldn\u2019t live it in fear of other people\u2019s…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":37667,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29637],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3231","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-life-hacks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29637,"label":"life hacks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/shutterstock_207378523.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29637,"name":"life hacks","slug":"life-hacks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29637,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When life gives you lemons - make lemonade, and allow these life hacks to remind you of your strength, potential, and the right to be happy.","parent":22911,"count":281,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29637,"category_count":281,"category_description":"When life gives you lemons - make lemonade, and allow these life hacks to remind you of your strength, potential, and the right to be happy.","cat_name":"life hacks","category_nicename":"life-hacks","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3231","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/20"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3231"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3231\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/37667"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3231"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3231"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3231"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}