{"id":32350,"date":"2020-07-08T08:39:27","date_gmt":"2020-07-08T08:39:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=32350"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:56:31","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:56:31","slug":"12-segni-di-una-donna-dispotica","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/12-segni-di-una-donna-dispotica\/","title":{"rendered":"12 segni di una donna dispotica"},"content":{"rendered":"

La vostra donna sta cercando di controllarvi? Siete o siete diventati una donna che controlla?<\/em><\/p>\n

Ogni donna \u00e8 diversa. Alcune di noi hanno una personalit\u00e0 eccessivamente emotiva, testarda, spericolata, confusa, gentile e cos\u00ec via. Ma ci sono anche donne che mostrano un comportamento controllante.<\/p>\n

Controllare il comportamento significa avere costantemente l'impulso di avere tutto sotto controllo, assicurandosi che tutto vada come immaginato.<\/p>\n

Le persone che controllano hanno un approccio specifico su come far s\u00ec che gli altri obbediscano e facciano ci\u00f2 che vogliono.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s really difficult to get along with them, and that is why conflicts become inevitable.<\/p>\n

But, there\u2019s one thing we should all be aware off:Il comportamento di controllo \u00e8 un disturbo. Non \u00e8 un comportamento acquisito. Si chiama Disturbo Ossessivo Compulsivo di Personalit\u00e0 (OCPD) e il trattamento di solito prevede una terapia parlata.<\/b><\/p>\n

Quindi, se pensate che la vostra donna abbia iniziato a controllarvi, non biasimatela.<\/p>\n

Non lo fa perch\u00e9 vuole farti sentire infelice.<\/p>\n

She is doing it because she\u2019s going through the stages of a personality disorder, and here are 12 signs confirming it.<\/p>\n

12 segni di una donna dispotica<\/b><\/p>\n

Vi isola dai vostri amici e dalla vostra famiglia<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Potrebbe lamentarsi del tempo trascorso con qualcuno della vostra famiglia o con i vostri amici (soprattutto se sono femmine).<\/p>\n

Lo fa perch\u00e9 sta inconsciamente cercando di eliminare tutto il vostro sostegno, in modo da rendervi deboli.<\/p>\n

When you\u2019re not that much surrounded by others, you become distant with them, and that way, it is easier to control your behavior.<\/p>\n

Per esempio, quando vi dice che dovete comportarvi in un certo modo o cambiare alcune cose, non avrete nessuno con cui parlarne per vedere le loro opinioni su ci\u00f2 che vi ha detto.<\/p>\n

Vi critica costantemente<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

Qualunque cosa facciate, lei trova sempre qualcosa che avete fatto di sbagliato.<\/p>\n

No matter how much you try, you will always miss something that she will use against you. But, don\u2019t get me wrong. Criticizing is good but to a certain degree.<\/p>\n

In questo contesto, la critica \u00e8 vista come una potente arma di manipolazione.<\/p>\n

Fa sentire l'altra persona sottovalutata e non accettata. Quindi, se la vostra donna vi critica costantemente per le cose pi\u00f9 piccole, sappiate che non \u00e8 sano.<\/p>\n

Porta a un enorme divario tra due persone ed \u00e8 un sicuro distruttore di una buona relazione.<\/p>\n

Ti minaccia<\/h2>\n

\"Donna<\/p>\n

She threatens that she will leave you if you don\u2019t change some things regarding your behavior.<\/p>\n

Also, she might threaten that she will harm herself if you leave her. It\u2019s a double-edged sword, and it is hard to think clearly in a situation like this.<\/p>\n

Threatening is another powerful weapon when it comes to controlling other people\u2019s behavior.<\/p>\n

It works on the principle: \u201cIf you don\u2019t do this, I will make you feel bad for not doing it.\u201d This also includes emotional manipulation like tears, playing the victim, etc.<\/p>\n

She makes you feel like you\u2019re not good enough<\/h2>\n

\"vista<\/p>\n

She is constantly pointing out your flaws, making you feel like you\u2019re not good enough, and you\u2019ll never be no matter what you do. No matter how hard you try to make things better, there will be another reason why you\u2019ll never be able to improve yourself.<\/p>\n

Non sostiene i vostri sogni e desideri perch\u00e9 ci\u00f2 significherebbe che avete altri interessi oltre a lei.<\/p>\n

Lo fa perch\u00e9 vuole tutta la vostra attenzione e vuole modellarvi secondo le sue preferenze.<\/p>\n

And that is only doable if you\u2019re constantly reminded that you need to work on yourself in order to be accepted.<\/p>\n

She doesn\u2019t reciprocate<\/h2>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t remember the last time she did something for you. It is always about her desires and wishes, and it is always about you doing something for her.<\/p>\n

Si aspetta tutto da te, ma non \u00e8 disposta a riservarti lo stesso trattamento.<\/p>\n

Reciprocity is the key to a happy relationship, and if your woman is depriving you of your right to receive what you\u2019ve given, know that you\u2019re in a controlling, unhealthy environment in which she forces you to think that you don\u2019t deserve the same treatment you\u2019re giving others.<\/p>\n

Ti fa sentire in colpa per tutto<\/h2>\n

\"ritratto<\/p>\n

When something bad happens, you\u2019re guilty. She accuses you of being guilty for every major and minor occurrence without any valid proof.<\/p>\n

Una donna dispotica lo fa per mantenere il potere su di voi, perch\u00e9 se vi sentite in colpa, sarete sempre in uno stato di allerta che vi spinger\u00e0 a migliorare.<\/p>\n

Il senso di colpa \u00e8 usato come strumento che vi costringer\u00e0 a fare qualsiasi cosa pur di liberarvi di quella sensazione.<\/p>\n

The feeling of guilt entraps you, and it forces you to become a completely different person, doing things you normally wouldn\u2019t only to wash away your sins.<\/p>\n

Ti fa sentire in debito con lei<\/h2>\n

\"vista<\/p>\n

Regalandovi alcune cose o facendo qualcosa per voi, una donna che controlla a volte crea un senso di aspettativa.<\/p>\n

Potrebbe comprarti qualcosa che hai sempre desiderato o nutrirti con il suo amore e il suo affetto per poi usarlo contro di te.<\/p>\n

She might make you feel in debt to her for everything she\u2019s done for you because her ulterior motives were related to controlling or this just becomes her weapon when she starts craving your attention.<\/p>\n

Pretende di conoscere anche il pi\u00f9 piccolo dettaglio di ogni cosa.<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Chiede sempre che le si dica dove si sta andando e quanto tempo si rester\u00e0.<\/p>\n

Chiede anche i pi\u00f9 piccoli dettagli sul luogo in cui siete andati o sulle persone con cui siete andati.<\/p>\n

Sometimes, she even spies on you by checking your social networks when you leave your phone in the vicinity or demands that you show her what you\u2019ve been posting. And if you refuse to do so, she will start doubting even more.<\/p>\n

She does this because she feels insecure and doesn\u2019t trust anyone around you.<\/p>\n

Per questo motivo ha l'esigenza di sapere tutto e di avere il controllo su tutto.<\/p>\n

Vi priva della vostra libert\u00e0 perch\u00e9 lei stessa si sente in trappola.<\/p>\n

\u00c8 eccessivamente gelosa<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t matter if you\u2019ve exchanged a few messages with your female colleague at work or with your female friend.<\/p>\n

Diventa immediatamente eccessivamente geloso<\/a> for no apparent reason, and she demands that you convince her you are not hiding anything, and you\u2019ve got nothing with these women.<\/p>\n

Her jealousy makes her go crazy. You also might have witnessed the act of her jealousy in public where she was pushing you to admit to her you did something that you didn\u2019t.<\/p>\n

Ogni interazione con la specie femminile \u00e8 una potenziale minaccia ai suoi occhi e lei reagisce immediatamente.<\/p>\n

She doesn\u2019t respect your opinions and the need for alone time<\/h2>\n

\"Foto<\/p>\n

Whatever you say to her, you are simply not right. She doesn\u2019t respect your opinions on certain matters because she believes only in herself and needs to have everything under control.<\/p>\n

You try to convince her that sometimes she\u2019s just not right about something, but all of your efforts always end up in vain.<\/p>\n

Also, you are never \u201callowed\u201d to have alone time because she sees it as you being unwilling to spend time with her (even if you\u2019ve spent a lot of time with her beforehand).<\/p>\n

She doesn\u2019t respect your bisogno di stare da soli<\/a>, and when you tell her that you need to be alone, she starts suspecting that something\u2019s wrong.<\/p>\n

Ti prende in giro solo per prenderti in giro<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

A volte lei ti stuzzica<\/a> about your appearance or about something you\u2019ve done.<\/p>\n

But, she doesn\u2019t do it in a playful way. Her teasing is directed to making you mad and guilty of doing something.<\/p>\n

The aim of this is to trigger your brain to think that you\u2019re not good enough and to start looking for solutions.<\/p>\n

She\u2019s making you doubt yourself<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Sognate una carriera da cantante o qualcosa di non cos\u00ec ordinario, e lei non fa mai uno sforzo per sostenervi.<\/p>\n

She\u2019s making you doubt your skills again, reminding you that you\u2019re not qualified for a certain position or activity.<\/p>\n

Cos\u00ec facendo, controlla i vostri desideri e le vostre aspirazioni, controllando anche il vostro futuro.<\/p>\n

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