{"id":32544,"date":"2020-04-11T14:27:34","date_gmt":"2020-04-11T14:27:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=32544"},"modified":"2022-02-24T10:21:57","modified_gmt":"2022-02-24T10:21:57","slug":"cosa-fare-quando-non-si-riesce-a-smettere-di-pensare-a-lei","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/cosa-fare-quando-non-si-riesce-a-smettere-di-pensare-a-lei\/","title":{"rendered":"Cosa fare quando non si riesce a smettere di pensare a lei"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>A volte capita di incontrare una ragazza che ti lascia subito senza fiato.<\/p>\n<p>She won\u2019t be like any other girl you\u2019ve ever met\u2026 This one will be different.<\/p>\n<p>La vedrete, la incontrerete, vi avvicinerete a lei e sar\u00e0 speciale. Ci sar\u00e0 qualcosa in lei che irradier\u00e0 semplicemente positivit\u00e0 e bellezza, e vi ritroverete <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/11-cose-inconsce-che-gli-uomini-fanno-quando-si-innamorano-perdutamente-di-una-donna\/\">testa in gi\u00f9 <\/a>per lei.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Ogni volta che parla, sarete tutt'orecchi, perch\u00e9 ogni parola che esce dalla sua bocca suona come una melodia fatta apposta per le vostre orecchie. Quando entra in una stanza, sembra un angelo che \u00e8 stato messo su questa terra per rendere la vostra vita pi\u00f9 significativa e incantevole.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Il modo in cui i suoi capelli fluiscono in una leggera brezza \u00e8 cos\u00ec ipnotico e il suo sguardo \u00e8 di puro amore e gentilezza.<\/p>\n<p>She is one in a million. And you\u2019re a lucky son of a gun who gets to call her yours.<\/p>\n<p>You will spend an incredible amount of time together, and you won\u2019t be able to believe how you get to be so damn lucky\u2026 Until it stops.<\/p>\n<p>One day, things just won\u2019t work anymore between you two. You won\u2019t even know what hit you, but <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/questa-e-la-ragazza-che-imparerai-ad-apprezzare-solo-dopo-che-se-ne-sara-andata\/\">quando questa ragazza ti lascia<\/a>, it\u2019s like a punch in your gut that takes a hell of a long time to recover from.<\/p>\n<p>You will suddenly be left without this person who has been making your life so much more meaningful, and you won\u2019t know how to recover from this. She was your \u2018one\u2019.<\/p>\n<p>And now, you\u2019re left with nothing but memories of your time together, and you can\u2019t get her out of your head.<\/p>\n<p>You just can\u2019t stop <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/qualcuno-sta-pensando-a-voi-2\/\">pensando a lei<\/a> e riavvolgendo il tempo, cercando di capire cosa diavolo sia andato storto.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>To other people, she may seem like just a regular girl who looks really cute and has a charming personality, but to you, she was the most special girl you\u2019ve ever encountered\u2026 and no one really gets it. Not like you.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>She has left such a profound impact on your life, and it\u2019s not like any other break-up you\u2019ve dealt with before. You know that this one will be much more difficult to overcome.<\/p>\n<p>No matter what you do, how much you try, you can\u2019t stop thinking about her, and worse off\u2026 you know you can\u2019t win her back.<\/p>\n<p>Il vostro cuore \u00e8 completamente a pezzi e vorreste solo poter smettere di pensarci per almeno un giorno.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>This is a challenging time in your life, and nobody can take this away from you. You\u2019re going through a horrible loss, and you deserve to grieve properly. But before you do, it\u2019s important that you take the right steps while trying to heal from it.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Devi accettare questa nuova realt\u00e0 per quello che \u00e8, e provare, provare davvero a dimenticarla, perch\u00e9 pi\u00f9 a lungo la tieni in mente, pi\u00f9 sar\u00e0 difficile superarla.<\/p>\n<p>Ecco quindi alcune cose che, si spera, renderanno la transizione pi\u00f9 facile per voi, aiutandovi a superare questa situazione <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/leggete-questo-articolo-se-state-attraversando-una-rottura-dolorosa\/\">rottura dolorosa<\/a>e di farvi ritrovare la voglia di vivere.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Lasciate i suoi social media<br \/>\n<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78342 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/dark-photo-of-man-typing-on-his-phone-at-home-1.jpg\" alt=\"foto scura di un uomo che digita sul suo telefono in casa\" width=\"800\" height=\"548\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/dark-photo-of-man-typing-on-his-phone-at-home-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/dark-photo-of-man-typing-on-his-phone-at-home-1-300x206.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/dark-photo-of-man-typing-on-his-phone-at-home-1-768x526.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/h2>\n<p>You\u2019re trying to get this girl out of your head, and you\u2019re creeping on her social media? If so, you need to stop with that, like yesterday.<\/p>\n<p>L'unico modo per smettere di pensare a lei \u00e8 rimuoverla dai vostri account online, perch\u00e9 vedere il suo volto su tutti i social media render\u00e0 ancora pi\u00f9 difficile dimenticarla.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ll never get over someone you see every single day. So do yourself a favor, and if you\u2019re not going to delete her from your friends list (which is okay) than stop following her, and hide her activity. It\u2019s that simple.<\/p>\n<p>And that\u2019s your first healthy step toward regaining your normal routine and getting your mind off of this painful journey to healing.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Nel momento in cui il suo volto si affaccia nella vostra mente, spegnetelo con altri pensieri.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78335 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/man-holding-his-head-outdoors.jpg\" alt=\"uomo che si tiene la testa all&#039;aperto\" width=\"800\" height=\"531\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/man-holding-his-head-outdoors.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/man-holding-his-head-outdoors-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/man-holding-his-head-outdoors-768x510.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>This takes a lot of self-control and willpower, but it\u2019s imperative if you truly want to stop thinking about her.<\/p>\n<p>Ogni volta che vi viene in mente, decidete di pensare a qualcosa di completamente diverso.<\/p>\n<p>Cercate di capire cosa cucinare per cena quel giorno o di pianificare nella vostra testa di andare a trovare i vostri genitori quel fine settimana.<\/p>\n<p>Try to think of some fun activity you could preoccupy yourself with, and without even realizing it, you\u2019ll actually be planning a weekend hangout, and your mind will be free of her.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s no easy task, and it\u2019s even more difficult when you have all of these feelings for her\u2026 but if you give it a real go, it could help you for real.<\/p>\n<p>Also, don\u2019t think about the exact same thing every time she pops into your mind.<\/p>\n<p>That way, you\u2019ll instantly be reminded of her again. Instead, think of a different thing that can in no way be associated with her.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Tenetevi occupati nella vostra vita sociale<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78334 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/group-of-friends-laughing-outside.jpg\" alt=\"gruppo di amici che ride all&#039;aperto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/group-of-friends-laughing-outside.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/group-of-friends-laughing-outside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/group-of-friends-laughing-outside-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s hard getting over someone when you\u2019re cooped up all alone in your apartment, with just your thoughts and memories.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re not making it any easier on yourself by ostracizing yourself from the world.<\/p>\n<p>Piuttosto, organizzatevi con i vostri amici per passare una serata divertente. Pianificate un'attivit\u00e0 che sia divertente, fisica e completa e che lasci poco tempo per pensare ad altro.<\/p>\n<p>When your friends invite you somewhere, don\u2019t think about it, and just go.<\/p>\n<p>Il fatto di desiderarla da solo a casa non ti porter\u00e0 da nessuna parte, quindi alzati da quel divano e passa del tempo di qualit\u00e0 con i tuoi amici che sicuramente vorranno aiutarti in questo processo.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s hard getting yourself to do it, but once you do, you\u2019ll be so happy you did.<\/p>\n<p>Promise! It\u2019s always hardest at the beginning, but once you start getting your groove back, you\u2019ll see that you have a pretty good life, pretty amazing friends, and things will start to look up.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Trovatevi qualcuno di nuovo a cui pensare<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78339 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/group-of-friends-cheering-drinks-at-bar.jpg\" alt=\"gruppo di amici che applaudono i drink al bar\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/group-of-friends-cheering-drinks-at-bar.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/group-of-friends-cheering-drinks-at-bar-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/group-of-friends-cheering-drinks-at-bar-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>As you\u2019re out there, getting your groove back with your friends out on the town, you will inevitably meet a bunch of new girls who might draw some interest from you.<\/p>\n<p>Non c'\u00e8 niente di male a passare dei bei momenti flirtanti con una ragazza attraente che sembra anche molto interessata a voi.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s just innocent fun, and you have every right and reason to indulge yourself!<\/p>\n<p>So if it happens that you\u2019ve come across someone you\u2019re a least a little attracted to\u2026 give it a shot, and see where it goes.<\/p>\n<p>Forse anche questa ragazza non vuole altro che una serata divertente e tu puoi permetterle di aiutarti a toglierti dalla testa la tua ex.<\/p>\n<p>Who knows, you just might meet someone new who will captivate you and truly get you to stop thinking about the ex, but even if that\u2019s not the case, you\u2019ll get some fun in the sun with a cute girl, and it will most definitely help improve your mood\u2026 if you catch my drift.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Concentrarsi su altri interessi<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78340 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/man-puts-hands-on-barbel-in-the-gym.jpg\" alt=\"l&#039;uomo mette le mani sul barbo in palestra\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/man-puts-hands-on-barbel-in-the-gym.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/man-puts-hands-on-barbel-in-the-gym-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/man-puts-hands-on-barbel-in-the-gym-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Sicuramente avete degli hobby o altre cose da fare nel tempo libero, giusto?<\/p>\n<p>Maybe you go to the gym, play in a band or even volunteer at a children\u2019s shelter!<\/p>\n<p>Qualunque cosa sia, dedicategli ancora pi\u00f9 tempo! Concentrarsi su altre cose della vita che vi portano gioia vi aiuter\u00e0 a uscire dalla depressione e a vedere di nuovo la bellezza del mondo.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t let the thought of her take away other things that make you happy in life! The more time you spend doing positive things that you\u2019re passionate about, the less time you\u2019ll have to think about her.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Stabilite nuovi obiettivi per voi stessi<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78332 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/man-with-jacket-looking-around.jpg\" alt=\"uomo con giacca che si guarda intorno\" width=\"800\" height=\"532\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/man-with-jacket-looking-around.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/man-with-jacket-looking-around-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/man-with-jacket-looking-around-768x511.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>This is really about keeping your mind busy at all times, so that you don\u2019t have any time to dedicate to anything negative or discouraging.<\/p>\n<p>Forse questo \u00e8 il momento migliore per pensare al proprio futuro e a ci\u00f2 che si vuole ancora realizzare.<\/p>\n<p>It doesn\u2019t have to be anything big. Just a little project that will occupy your time and leave as little time as possible to be thinking about her.<\/p>\n<p>It can be fitness-related, work-related or even a project around the house that you\u2019ve been wanting to do for a while now.<\/p>\n<p>Dipingete le pareti di un nuovo colore, acquistate una camera da letto nuova di zecca o rinnovate il giardino di casa.<\/p>\n<p>Whatever it is, make sure it\u2019s something that will bring a positive change into your life and make it better one way or another.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Sfogatevi con i vostri amici<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78331 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/male-friends-laughing-and-sitting-on-the-hill.jpg\" alt=\"amici maschi che ridono e siedono sulla collina\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/male-friends-laughing-and-sitting-on-the-hill.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/male-friends-laughing-and-sitting-on-the-hill-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/male-friends-laughing-and-sitting-on-the-hill-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Cosa sono <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/friendship\/se-sei-confuso-su-chi-siano-i-tuoi-veri-amici-leggi-questo\/\">amici veri<\/a> for, if not for being your support system when you\u2019re going through a difficult time?<\/p>\n<p>Be honest with them. Admit that you just can\u2019t stop thinking about her, and you desperately need help in ridding your mind of the painful memories of your time together.<\/p>\n<p>I vostri amici saranno felici che vi sentiate abbastanza a vostro agio da confidare loro questo argomento cos\u00ec delicato e toccante, e si impegneranno al massimo per aiutarvi a superarlo.<\/p>\n<p>Inoltre, il solo fatto di parlarne sar\u00e0 un tale sollievo. Quando si hanno amici sinceri che vogliono veramente <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/se-la-ami-sii-presente-per-lei\/\">essere presente per voi<\/a>, it\u2019s such a reassuring feeling being able to confide in them and let them help you carry this burden.<\/p>\n<p>Let it all out, and until it feels better, don\u2019t stop. You\u2019re only human, and never feel weak about having feelings and going through dark periods.<\/p>\n<p>We all go through this; there\u2019s no shame in it. Only a real man is capable of bearing his soul and keeping it real with himself. So be proud of yourself, and let your friends be there for you.<\/p>\n<p>Sarete molto pi\u00f9 felici di avere intorno a voi un vero e proprio sistema di supporto.<\/p>\n<p>Vi aiuter\u00e0 sicuramente a smettere di pensare a lei e a connettervi con i vostri amici a un livello ancora pi\u00f9 profondo.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78329 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/What-To-Do-When-You-Just-Can\u2019t-Stop-Thinking-About-Her-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Cosa fare quando non si riesce a smettere di pensare a lei \" width=\"724\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/What-To-Do-When-You-Just-Can\u2019t-Stop-Thinking-About-Her-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/What-To-Do-When-You-Just-Can\u2019t-Stop-Thinking-About-Her-Pinterest-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/What-To-Do-When-You-Just-Can\u2019t-Stop-Thinking-About-Her-Pinterest-768x1086.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/What-To-Do-When-You-Just-Can\u2019t-Stop-Thinking-About-Her-Pinterest-1086x1536.jpg 1086w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/What-To-Do-When-You-Just-Can\u2019t-Stop-Thinking-About-Her-Pinterest-1448x2048.jpg 1448w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/What-To-Do-When-You-Just-Can\u2019t-Stop-Thinking-About-Her-Pinterest.jpg 1587w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Sometimes, you will meet a girl and she will instantly take your breath away. She won\u2019t be like any other girl you\u2019ve ever met\u2026 This one will be different. You will see her, meet her, get close to her, and she will be special. There will be something about her that simply radiates positivity and&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":39,"featured_media":78330,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29641],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-32544","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-tips-for-him"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29641,"label":"dating tips for him"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/What-To-Do-When-You-Just-Can\u2019t-Stop-Thinking-About-Her.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Owen Scott","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/hase\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29641,"name":"dating tips for him","slug":"dating-tips-for-him","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29641,"taxonomy":"category","description":"These are not just any dating tips. 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