{"id":32609,"date":"2019-02-12T09:41:42","date_gmt":"2019-02-12T09:41:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=32609"},"modified":"2022-02-27T12:46:21","modified_gmt":"2022-02-27T12:46:21","slug":"nel-momento-in-cui-me-ne-andro-e-smettero-di-lottare-consideratemi-sparito-per-sempre","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/nel-momento-in-cui-me-ne-andro-e-smettero-di-lottare-consideratemi-sparito-per-sempre\/","title":{"rendered":"Nel momento in cui me ne andr\u00f2 e smetter\u00f2 di lottare, consideratemi sparito per sempre"},"content":{"rendered":"

Sono sempre stata quella che ha combattuto per noi. Sono sempre stata quella che comprava la pace nella nostra casa, pagandola con le mie lacrime. Sono sempre stata quella che diceva che non valeva la pena litigare per le piccole cose.<\/p>\n

But when a lot of small things happen often, they become a really big problem you can\u2019t solve just like that. When you put up with something for such a long time, in one moment you decide lasciare andare<\/a> of everything. And it doesn\u2019t happen because you get tired of fighting but because the other side doesn\u2019t fight at all.<\/p>\n

Ed \u00e8 proprio questo che mi sta uccidendo lentamente. Mi uccide vedere che sono l'unica a lottare, l'unica a cercare di migliorare le cose. Anche se ho una relazione con te, mi sento la donna pi\u00f9 sola del mondo.<\/p>\n

I feel like I am the only one who is actually doing something to save what we have and that you don\u2019t give a damn what will happen. You are so indifferent and it hurts more than anything.<\/p>\n

It hurts so much telling someone about your dreams and hopes while that person doesn\u2019t even listen to you. It hurts to give your love to a man who doesn\u2019t reciprocate in the same way. It hurts to sleep next to him, asking God to make him hug you, but the only thing he does is make more space between the two of you.<\/p>\n

Fa male avere una relazione ma non vivere quello che vivono le altre donne innamorate. Sai, fa male.<\/p>\n

And I just want you to know that I won\u2019t be able to continue doing this for much longer. Because this is not love anymore, it is just a bad compromise. The one in which you get all you want and where I only get the crumbs from your table.<\/p>\n

And that is not fair. That is not love. That is abuse. And I can\u2019t take it anymore. No matter how much I love you and how much I care about you, I won\u2019t be the one fighting for us.<\/p>\n

Giuro che rinuncer\u00f2 a te, proprio come tu hai rinunciato a noi molto tempo fa. Me ne andr\u00f2 e l'unico motivo per cui mi guarder\u00f2 indietro sar\u00e0 per vedere quanta strada ho fatto.<\/p>\n

And that will happen sooner than you think. I will leave you when you least expect it. And I will never look back. You will be shocked, I know. You still don\u2019t think that I am strong enough to leave you and that you are the only man for me.<\/p>\n

Listen, even if you were the only one left standing on this earth, I wouldn\u2019t be with you. What you are giving me is not what I need. If you think that it takes so little for love, then be satisfied with someone who will take you for granted, who will neglect you and gaslight you.<\/p>\n

Because that is what you have been doing to me for all these years. And it is time to let go of everything that has been breaking me. It is finally time to accept that staying with you would hurt me more than leaving. It is time to say, \u201cGoodbye,\u201d once and for all. So, when you see me smettete di litigare<\/a>, consideratemi sparito.<\/p>\n

And once I leave, there won\u2019t be a way for you to bring me back. Once I leave you, you won\u2019t be able to tell me your sweet lies that you love me and that you want us to work.<\/p>\n

You won\u2019t have a chance to blind me with your kisses and hugs. Once I leave, I will burn all the bridges between us.<\/p>\n

Lo far\u00f2 con tanta soddisfazione perch\u00e9 ho sofferto a lungo, desiderando l'amore che tu non mi hai mai dato. E questa volta voglio che tu senta quello che io ho provato per tanto tempo.<\/p>\n

Questa volta voglio che tu assaggi la tua stessa medicina. Forse, ma forse, solo allora capirai cosa mi hai fatto.<\/p>\n

E se sei la met\u00e0 dell'uomo che ti presenti, mi lascerai in pace e non ti immischierai mai pi\u00f9 nella mia vita.<\/p>\n

Dai, anche tu sai che merito un uomo migliore di te.<\/p>\n

\"Nel<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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