{"id":32709,"date":"2020-05-13T09:10:48","date_gmt":"2020-05-13T09:10:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=32709"},"modified":"2021-08-11T08:59:58","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T08:59:58","slug":"5-modi-in-cui-e-cambiata-dopo-una-relazione-emotivamente-offensiva","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/5-modi-in-cui-e-cambiata-dopo-una-relazione-emotivamente-offensiva\/","title":{"rendered":"5 modi in cui \u00e8 cambiata dopo una relazione emotivamente offensiva"},"content":{"rendered":"

Lasciare una relazione abusiva \u00e8 una delle cose pi\u00f9 difficili per ogni vittima. \u00c8 un passo enorme che richiede molto coraggio e forza.<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, sadly, your troubles usually don\u2019t end the moment you leave your abuser.<\/p>\n

La verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che una relazione tossica come questa spesso lascia cicatrici nella persona che ha subito l'abuso.<\/p>\n

That is exactly what happened to this girl\u2014her emotionally abusive relationship changed her in more ways than she could count.<\/p>\n

1. Ha problemi di fiducia<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Every woman who has been through any type of abuse, including emotional, can\u2019t avoid having strong trust issues when she finally breaks free from an abusive relationship.<\/p>\n

However, something like this is completely normal\u2014the person she loved the most and the person she was ready to trust with her life was the one who made her life a living hell.<\/p>\n

Quindi, cosa pu\u00f2 aspettarsi esattamente dagli altri?<\/p>\n

This was the man who swore he loved her, the man she thought was the one she\u2019d spend the rest of her life with and he ended up betraying her like this.<\/p>\n

Naturalmente, pensa che tutti gli altri siano come lui. \u00c8 convinta che ogni ragazzo che incontra abbia l'intenzione di ferirla e di spezzarle il cuore ancora una volta.<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, this doesn\u2019t just go for the men she meets\u2014she feels the same way about almost all people in her life.<\/p>\n

Everything this girl\u2019s been through made her think that there doesn\u2019t exist a person in this world she can count on.<\/p>\n

Besides, the worst part is that she doesn\u2019t believe herself anymore. She made the wrong choice once so that has to mean that her judgment-making skills are non-existent.<\/p>\n

Questa ragazza non crede pi\u00f9 al proprio intuito o al proprio istinto e mette in discussione ogni decisione che prende, pensando che sia quella sbagliata.<\/p>\n

2. La sua visione dell'amore \u00e8 distorta<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

After all that has happened, this girl isn\u2019t sure what true love is anymore. Everything she believed in and all the things she thought represented love turned out to be wrong.<\/p>\n

This girl is convinced that she wouldn\u2019t recognize the guy meant for her even if he showed up right in front of her.<\/p>\n

She is scared that she\u2019ll continue with these unhealthy relationship patterns forever and that she\u2019ll never manage to reprogram her brain into seeing love the right way again.<\/p>\n

3. \u00c8 diventata guardinga<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Come tutte le vittime di abusi, anche questa ragazza \u00e8 diventata troppo prudente quando si tratta di far entrare nuove persone nella sua vita.<\/p>\n

She\u2019s been through hell and she knew that she had to find a way to protect her vulnerable heart from getting crushed all over again.<\/p>\n

L'unico modo per farlo era costruire spesse mura intorno a s\u00e9 e agire senza cuore verso tutti.<\/p>\n

L'unico modo per farlo era diventare guardinghi<\/a> e di non permettere mai pi\u00f9 a nessuno di vedere le sue vulnerabilit\u00e0.<\/p>\n

And that was exactly what she did\u2014she became a closed person who didn\u2019t open her heart to love.<\/p>\n

Una ragazza che si \u00e8 condannata a una vita di solitudine per paura di essere ferita di nuovo.<\/p>\n

4. She isn\u2019t sure if she\u2019ll find love ever again<\/h2>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

Un'altra cosa che \u00e8 cambiata in questa ragazza \u00e8 il fatto che ha rinunciato all'amore <\/a>.<\/p>\n

Prima che quest'uomo tossico entrasse nella sua vita, pensava all'amore come a una favola ed era fermamente convinta che il suo \"vissero felici e contenti\" sarebbe arrivato prima o poi.<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, after all the insults and humiliations she\u2019s been through, deep down she began thinking that she wasn\u2019t meant to be loved.<\/p>\n

Dopo tanti anni in cui il suo abusatore l'ha convinta di essere lei quella non amabile, ha iniziato a credergli.<\/p>\n

This girl stopped believing in love and in soulmates. Instead, she became sarcastic about it, convinced that she\u2019d never find anyone who would treat her better than her ex did.<\/p>\n

5. But she is stronger than she\u2019s ever been<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

However, despite all the bad things her emotionally abusive relationship caused, there was also one good thing it brought her\u2014she became stronger than ever.<\/p>\n

She saw that there was nothing she couldn\u2019t take and that she would always survive, whatever life put in front of her.<\/p>\n

Questa ragazza \u00e8 diventata l'eroina di se stessa. Ha capito che pu\u00f2 farcela da sola e che \u00e8 una persona completa anche senza un uomo al suo fianco.<\/p>\n

And one thing is for sure\u2014this relationship made her become a girl who doesn\u2019t settle for less.<\/p>\n

Una ragazza che sa cosa si merita e una ragazza che ama se stessa pi\u00f9 di chiunque altro al mondo.<\/p>\n

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Walking away from an abusive relationship is one of the toughest things for every victim. It is a huge step which takes a lot of courage and strength. Nevertheless, sadly, your troubles usually don\u2019t end the moment you leave your abuser. The truth is that a toxic relationship like this often leaves scars on the…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":93369,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29632],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-32709","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-abuse-and-trauma"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29632,"label":"abuse & trauma"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/5-Ways-She-Changed-After-An-Emotionally-Abusive-Relationship.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29632,"name":"abuse & trauma","slug":"abuse-and-trauma","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29632,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn the signs of emotional and physical abuse and how to protect yourself from toxic patterns in relationships with your partner, friends or family.","parent":22911,"count":138,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29632,"category_count":138,"category_description":"Learn the signs of emotional and physical abuse and how to protect yourself from toxic patterns in relationships with your partner, friends or family.","cat_name":"abuse & trauma","category_nicename":"abuse-and-trauma","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/32709","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/21"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=32709"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/32709\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/93369"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=32709"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=32709"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=32709"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}