{"id":32719,"date":"2020-02-13T09:38:02","date_gmt":"2020-02-13T09:38:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=32719"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:59:06","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:59:06","slug":"9-cattive-abitudini-di-messaggistica-che-gli-faranno-perdere-interesse","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/9-cattive-abitudini-di-messaggistica-che-gli-faranno-perdere-interesse\/","title":{"rendered":"9 cattive abitudini di messaggistica che gli faranno perdere interesse"},"content":{"rendered":"<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Gli mandate pi\u00f9 messaggi di quanti lui ne mandi a voi<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-80637\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/smiling-girl-texting-in-jaccuzzi.jpg\" alt=\"\/relationship\/9-bad-texting-habits-that-will-make-hose-interest\/\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/smiling-girl-texting-in-jaccuzzi.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/smiling-girl-texting-in-jaccuzzi-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/smiling-girl-texting-in-jaccuzzi-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I messaggi sono come una relazione. Richiedono reciprocit\u00e0. Quando uno si fa in quattro e l'altro partecipa a malapena, \u00e8 un pessimo segno.<\/p>\n<p>Mandargli pi\u00f9 messaggi del dovuto puzza di disperazione.<\/p>\n<p>He will see that you are already crazy about him, and he will think that he can have you whenever he wants\u2014which will naturally make him less interested.<\/p>\n<p>Riducete il livello. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/se-gli-manchero-se-lo-lascio-solo-e-qualcosa-che-vale-la-pena-di-scoprire\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Lasciategli spazio per sentire la vostra mancanza<\/a> e venire a cercarvi. \u00c8 sempre un'opzione migliore.<\/p>\n<p>You should meet each other halfway. If he can\u2019t do that with text, imagine how lousy he would be in a relationship?<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Avete scarsi spunti di conversazione<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-80638\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/attractive-young-woman-looking-at-phone.jpg\" alt=\"giovane donna attraente che guarda il telefono\" width=\"800\" height=\"541\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/attractive-young-woman-looking-at-phone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/attractive-young-woman-looking-at-phone-300x203.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/attractive-young-woman-looking-at-phone-768x519.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Se si inizia una conversazione con una nota negativa, le cose non potranno che andare a rotoli.<\/p>\n<p>Parlare del tempo, della routine quotidiana e di ci\u00f2 che si \u00e8 mangiato a colazione puzza di noia.<\/p>\n<p>During the initial phases of a relationship, it\u2019s important not to fall into a web of boring conversations that will lead you nowhere.<\/p>\n<p>Think outside the box. Comment on something you previously talked about, mention some shared interests or start by saying how much fun you had at the concert (or anywhere else), and that it\u2019s too bad he missed it. Be creative.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Le vostre risposte mettono fine agli sms<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-80639\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/woman-typing-a-message-on-the-phone.jpg\" alt=\"donna che scrive un messaggio al telefono\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/woman-typing-a-message-on-the-phone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/woman-typing-a-message-on-the-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/woman-typing-a-message-on-the-phone-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If you are giving short effortless replies like an emoji or a one-word answer such as \u201cYeah.\u201d, \u201cSure\u201d, \u201cMaybe.\u201d, \u201cAha\u201d, don\u2019t expect to get a text back and be prepared that your conversation will not last long.<\/p>\n<p>He probably feels like you really don\u2019t want to participate in this conversation and that you are brushing him off.<\/p>\n<p>Evitate queste situazioni e impegnatevi se volete che la vostra sessione di messaggi duri pi\u00f9 a lungo.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Inviate un messaggio di follow-up<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-80640\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/worried-woman-looking-at-phone.jpg\" alt=\"donna preoccupata che guarda il telefono\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/worried-woman-looking-at-phone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/worried-woman-looking-at-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/worried-woman-looking-at-phone-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Non \u00e8 mai una buona idea. Prima di tutto, vi fa sembrare disperate e bisognose di attenzioni, il che \u00e8 gi\u00e0 di per s\u00e9 scoraggiante.<\/p>\n<p>In secondo luogo, si riducono le possibilit\u00e0 di ottenere una risposta.<\/p>\n<p>Potrebbe essere al lavoro, addormentato o impegnato in altro modo, e se vede che gli avete inviato un messaggio di follow-up, potrebbe decidere di non rispondere perch\u00e9 siete insistenti, mentre se si trattasse di un solo testo, risponderebbe non appena lo vede.<\/p>\n<p>Lastly and most importantly, if a man doesn\u2019t want to reply there is nothing you can do. If for some reason he hasn\u2019t replied to the first text, he won\u2019t reply to a follow-up text either.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">You don\u2019t take compliments very well<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-80641\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/young-worried-woman-looking-at-phone.jpg\" alt=\"giovane donna preoccupata che guarda il telefono\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/young-worried-woman-looking-at-phone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/young-worried-woman-looking-at-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/young-worried-woman-looking-at-phone-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If he tells you you are beautiful, smart, cute, interesting, funny, attractive and you go into debates of why that isn\u2019t true and that you are far from it&#8230; you are sending the wrong message.<\/p>\n<p>Right from the start, you are telling him that you don\u2019t think too highly of yourself and that you lack confidence.<\/p>\n<p>Remember that old saying: \u201cLove yourself so somebody else could love you too\u201d? Well, it\u2019s true.<\/p>\n<p>So the next time he calls you \u2018sweet\u2019 or \u2018super smart\u2019 just say \u201cThank you.\u201d You can also return the compliment and say what you like about him. Trust me\u2014you will have much better results.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Condividete troppo<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-80642\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/happy-woman-texting-on-the-street.jpg\" alt=\"donna felice che messaggia per strada\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/happy-woman-texting-on-the-street.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/happy-woman-texting-on-the-street-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/happy-woman-texting-on-the-street-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Mandare un messaggio a qualcuno che si sta appena conoscendo parlando di cose brutte e dolorose che vi sono successe in passato o di problemi che avete in questo momento non \u00e8 una buona cosa.<\/p>\n<p>You can\u2019t burden somebody you hardly know with all of your life issues. There will be time for serious stuff. Start off with casual topics.<\/p>\n<p>Divertitevi a conoscervi.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Si esagera con il linguaggio del testo<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-80643\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/woman-sitting-outdoor-and-texting.jpg\" alt=\"donna seduta all&#039;aperto che scrive messaggi\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/woman-sitting-outdoor-and-texting.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/woman-sitting-outdoor-and-texting-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/woman-sitting-outdoor-and-texting-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Quando si inizia una relazione con una persona, il modo pi\u00f9 rapido per conoscerla \u00e8 attraverso i messaggi.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t let them think that you are stuck in your teens or even uninterested in continuing your communication by not sending.<\/p>\n<p>Watch your grammar\u2014at least the basic stuff. You don\u2019t want to give an impression that you are less intelligent than you actually are.<\/p>\n<p>Mantenete la vostra abilit\u00e0 nel mandare messaggi.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Gli mandi un messaggio anche se sai che \u00e8 occupato<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-80644\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/young-bussines-man-looking-at-phone.jpg\" alt=\"giovane uomo d&#039;affari che guarda il telefono\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/young-bussines-man-looking-at-phone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/young-bussines-man-looking-at-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/young-bussines-man-looking-at-phone-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>In genere, uomini e donne hanno abitudini diverse in fatto di SMS.<\/p>\n<p>For the average man, it\u2019s ok if he hears from his girlfriend or potential girlfriend once or twice a day while most women need more texts through the same time period.<\/p>\n<p>Just because he doesn\u2019t text you every 5 seconds doesn\u2019t mean that he lost interest.<\/p>\n<p>Significa solo che \u00e8 un uomo e che ha una vita propria\".<\/p>\n<p>Se vi ha detto che \u00e8 al lavoro, in giro con gli amici, a pranzo, a dormire o a fare qualsiasi cosa, lasciatelo stare.<\/p>\n<p>Lasciategli un po' di spazio per sentire la vostra mancanza e lasciate che sia lui a contattarvi per primo.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Giocare duro per ottenere<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-80645\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/pretty-woman-sitting-in-sofa-and-typing.jpg\" alt=\"bella donna seduta sul divano a scrivere\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/pretty-woman-sitting-in-sofa-and-typing.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/pretty-woman-sitting-in-sofa-and-typing-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/pretty-woman-sitting-in-sofa-and-typing-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Questo \u00e8 l'opposto dell'eccesso di testo di cui abbiamo parlato all'inizio.<\/p>\n<p>Playing hard to get means that you are playing those same games you don\u2019t want anybody to play with you.<\/p>\n<p>Potrebbe sembrare che non siate davvero interessati a lui o che lo stiate prendendo in giro.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t have to respond to every text the second you receive it, but replying after six hours or a day just isn\u2019t nice.<\/p>\n<p>La chiave \u00e8 trovare l'equilibrio e incontrarsi a met\u00e0 strada.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/hai-una-chimica-testuale-con-lui-ecco-come-capirlo\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"> Chimica testuale <\/a> is important, and it can really bring the two of you closer\u2014assuming that none of you is playing games.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-80635\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/9-Bad-Texting-Habits-That-Will-Make-Him-Lose-Interest-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"9 cattive abitudini di messaggistica che gli faranno perdere interesse\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/9-Bad-Texting-Habits-That-Will-Make-Him-Lose-Interest-pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/9-Bad-Texting-Habits-That-Will-Make-Him-Lose-Interest-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You text him more often than he texts you Texts are like a relationship. They demand reciprocity. When one is going out of one\u2019s way and the other is barely participating, it\u2019s a really bad sign. Texting him more than you should, will reek of desperation. He will see that you are already crazy about&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":80646,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29648],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-32719","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-tips"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29648,"label":"dating tips"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/9-Bad-Texting-Habits-That-Will-Make-Him-Lose-Interest.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29648,"name":"dating tips","slug":"dating-tips","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29648,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. 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