{"id":32728,"date":"2020-09-13T10:22:10","date_gmt":"2020-09-13T10:22:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=32728"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:11:19","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:11:19","slug":"non-tornare-mai-dalla-persona-che-ti-ha-distrutto","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/non-tornare-mai-dalla-persona-che-ti-ha-distrutto\/","title":{"rendered":"Non tornate mai dalla persona che vi ha rotto"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Lo so, perch\u00e9 dovresti ascoltarmi, vero?<\/p>\n<p>But even if you don\u2019t, you know deep down that your move is one big mistake.<\/p>\n<p>Sapete che le cose cambieranno per qualche giorno o poco pi\u00f9, e non appena abbasserete la guardia, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/sono-felice-e-tu-sei-ancora-lo-stesso-pezzo-di-merda\/\"> sar\u00e0 lo stesso pezzo di merda <\/a> \u00e8 sempre stato cos\u00ec.<\/p>\n<p><b>People don\u2019t change that easily\u2014especially the ones who think there is nothing wrong with them.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Nel profondo sapete che \u00e8 una persona di cui non potete fidarvi.<\/b> Ha fallito e ti ha deluso.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ve cried by his side so many times, begging him to change. You\u2019ve come close to a breakdown because you couldn\u2019t take it anymore, and he swore on his life he would change.<\/p>\n<p>In quei momenti, avrebbe detto tutto quello che volevate sentire. Avrebbe fatto di tutto per calmare la situazione, per calmarvi, per poter continuare a fare quello che voleva. Che bastardo subdolo!<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-119492 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/a-sad-couple-sitting-on-a-two-seater-after-an-argument.jpg\" alt=\"una coppia triste seduta su un biposto dopo una discussione\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/a-sad-couple-sitting-on-a-two-seater-after-an-argument.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/a-sad-couple-sitting-on-a-two-seater-after-an-argument-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/a-sad-couple-sitting-on-a-two-seater-after-an-argument-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/a-sad-couple-sitting-on-a-two-seater-after-an-argument-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/a-sad-couple-sitting-on-a-two-seater-after-an-argument-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/a-sad-couple-sitting-on-a-two-seater-after-an-argument-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/a-sad-couple-sitting-on-a-two-seater-after-an-argument-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/a-sad-couple-sitting-on-a-two-seater-after-an-argument-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>Anche se tornassi da lui, pensi davvero che potresti aprirti cos\u00ec facilmente con lui? <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Potete sforzarvi di provarci, ma il vostro subconscio costruir\u00e0 intorno a voi muri altissimi, che nemmeno voi saprete che ci sono.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Even if you decide to make a huge mistake and let him crawl back to you, you won\u2019t share anything with him.<\/p>\n<p>You won\u2019t tell him your secrets and your deepest emotions. You\u2019ll keep your fears and your happiness to yourself.<\/p>\n<p>Why? You know why. He never listened to you in the first place. He never cared for what you had to say. That\u2019s him, the man of your dreams\u2014a man to whom you so desperately kept <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/leggete-questo-se-state-pensando-di-dargli-una-seconda-possibilita\/\"> dare una seconda possibilit\u00e0 <\/a> .<\/p>\n<p><i> Ora ditemi, se li meritava? <\/i><\/p>\n<p><b>He is a man you can\u2019t rely on. <\/b> Every time you needed help, every time you needed support, where was he? I\u2019ll tell you where he was. He went out with friends.<\/p>\n<p>He had more important business to attend to. He was always all over the place but never in the right place &#8211; never in your arms.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-119493 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/the-sad-brunette-lies-in-bed-and-suffers.jpg\" alt=\"la brunetta triste giace a letto e soffre\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/the-sad-brunette-lies-in-bed-and-suffers.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/the-sad-brunette-lies-in-bed-and-suffers-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/the-sad-brunette-lies-in-bed-and-suffers-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/the-sad-brunette-lies-in-bed-and-suffers-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/the-sad-brunette-lies-in-bed-and-suffers-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/the-sad-brunette-lies-in-bed-and-suffers-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/the-sad-brunette-lies-in-bed-and-suffers-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/the-sad-brunette-lies-in-bed-and-suffers-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ogni volta che eri triste, eri lasciato solo a combattere i tuoi demoni da solo. E tu <i> dovrebbe <\/i> deal with your troubles all by yourself, but you shouldn\u2019t be <i> davvero <\/i> da soli.<\/p>\n<p>Avrebbe dovuto essere l\u00ec per te. Avrebbe dovuto essere l\u00ec per asciugare le tue lacrime e abbracciarti quando piangevi.<\/p>\n<p><b>Do you remember how it felt to sit by this person, your eyes exploding with tears and your hands shaking in frustration and anger? Do you remember how low you fell, and he wasn\u2019t there to help you get up?<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Never go back to the person who wanted you all to himself but at the same time, didn\u2019t care about you. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s how possessive and jealous people act. He wanted you all for himself, but he never dealt with you. He never gave you enough attention, and he would be jealous if you looked for it somewhere else.<\/p>\n<p>He forbade you to hang out with your friends because he couldn\u2019t handle the idea of you not being available to him all the time.<\/p>\n<p>E sai perch\u00e9 ti chiamava sempre quando eri fuori senza di lui? <b>He didn\u2019t trust you at all. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ve discarded people who cared about you because of him. Was he really worth it? Was his fake love worth rejecting people who honestly cared about you?<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-119494 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/a-depressed-brunette-looks-out-the-window.jpg\" alt=\"una bruna depressa guarda fuori dalla finestra\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/a-depressed-brunette-looks-out-the-window.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/a-depressed-brunette-looks-out-the-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/a-depressed-brunette-looks-out-the-window-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/a-depressed-brunette-looks-out-the-window-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/a-depressed-brunette-looks-out-the-window-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/a-depressed-brunette-looks-out-the-window-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/a-depressed-brunette-looks-out-the-window-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/a-depressed-brunette-looks-out-the-window-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b><i>Do you know how many people you\u2019ve unknowingly hurt just to keep the relationship which was on its last breaths alive?<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ve rejected people who love you because of some self-centered jerk who took your love for granted. An idiot who never appreciated you nor everything you did for him.<\/p>\n<p>Just think about how much energy, time and, love you\u2019ve wasted on someone who didn\u2019t deserve it.<\/p>\n<p>When you let your mind wander again, and when it wanders back to him, just remember that you\u2019ve settled for way less than you deserve. Remember the pain of neglect you faced every day.<\/p>\n<p>Remember every difficult situation you\u2019ve faced alone because he chose not to be there &#8211; he chose something else as more important than you. Just remember\u2026<\/p>\n<p><b>Never go back to the person who swears he\u2019ll change. <\/b> Never believe his words because words don&#8217;t mean anything.<\/p>\n<p>Voi pi\u00f9 di tutti dovreste saperlo. Lei \u00e8 il testimone del fatto che le parole possono essere pronunciate facilmente, ma le azioni non sono cos\u00ec facili da fare.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-119495 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/an-attractive-woman-reaps-the-square.jpg\" alt=\"una donna attraente raccoglie la piazza\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/an-attractive-woman-reaps-the-square.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/an-attractive-woman-reaps-the-square-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/an-attractive-woman-reaps-the-square-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/an-attractive-woman-reaps-the-square-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/an-attractive-woman-reaps-the-square-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/an-attractive-woman-reaps-the-square-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/an-attractive-woman-reaps-the-square-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/an-attractive-woman-reaps-the-square-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Credere nelle azioni. Credere in qualcosa di cos\u00ec strano per lui, qualcosa che non ha mai fatto, e non tornare mai da lui.<\/p>\n<p><b>Don\u2019t go back to the person who broke you because he\u2019s the last person who can fix you.<\/b> You\u2019ll hold a grudge against him for the rest of your life.<\/p>\n<p>Deep down, you\u2019re going to blame him for not trusting anyone, for being extra cautious when it comes to love. Maybe you won\u2019t be aware of it, but you\u2019ll never act the same again.<\/p>\n<p><b>He broke you. He can\u2019t\u2014and has no right to try to\u2014fix you.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Ormai appartiene al vostro passato. \u00c8 un vero esempio di tutto ci\u00f2 che non si dovrebbe mai fare. Fidatevi di me, avete prove concrete alle spalle.<\/p>\n<p>You have examples and more importantly, you have unhealed wounds on your heart &#8211; wounds he gave you<\/p>\n<p>He is everything you don\u2019t deserve. Please, never go back to him.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-119496 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Never-Go-Back-To-The-Person-Who-Broke-You-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Non tornate mai dalla persona che vi ha rotto\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Never-Go-Back-To-The-Person-Who-Broke-You-Pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Never-Go-Back-To-The-Person-Who-Broke-You-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Never-Go-Back-To-The-Person-Who-Broke-You-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Never-Go-Back-To-The-Person-Who-Broke-You-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Never-Go-Back-To-The-Person-Who-Broke-You-Pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I know, why you should listen to me right? But even if you don\u2019t, you know deep down that your move is one big mistake. You know that things are going to change for a few days or so, and as soon as you let your guard down, he will be the same piece of&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":119491,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29617],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-32728","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-heartbreak"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29617,"label":"heartbreak"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Never-Go-Back-To-The-Person-Who-Broke-You-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29617,"name":"heartbreak","slug":"heartbreak","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29617,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. 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