{"id":3285,"date":"2020-09-07T10:59:10","date_gmt":"2020-09-07T10:59:10","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=3285"},"modified":"2022-02-21T19:34:47","modified_gmt":"2022-02-21T19:34:47","slug":"ragazza-senza-atteggiamento-desiderio-di-atteggiamento-ragazza","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/ragazza-senza-atteggiamento-desiderio-di-atteggiamento-ragazza\/","title":{"rendered":"Dalla ragazza senza attitudine alla ragazza con attitudine (I Wish I Could Be You)"},"content":{"rendered":"

They say that girls with attitude are sassy and nobody loves to be around them. I disagree. Because if you don\u2019t have an attitude and you have a soft heart, this world will chew you up and spit you out like you are nothing. I know, I\u2019ve been there. If you don\u2019t stand up for yourself, nobody will, and it takes a lot of guts to save yourself. I wish I could do it.<\/p>\n

Vorrei essere abbastanza coraggiosa da farmi valere.<\/p>\n

I want to have the power to speak up and to say what I think without the fear that somebody might disagree. I honestly want for myself to be independent and not to bow down before anybody. See, after the argument is over, I believe I\u2019d feel so much better if I didn\u2019t come home and play in my head the things I could\u2019ve said but didn\u2019t<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Voglio avere un ritorno quando ho ancora la possibilit\u00e0 di parlare. Voglio essere vivace in tutto ci\u00f2 che faccio, non solo nella mia testa.<\/p>\n

I wish I wouldn\u2019t cry all the time.<\/p>\n

People are so scary sometimes. I feel like they\u2019ll do something to me if I speak up. Whenever they hurt me, I end up crying. No matter who they are or what\u2019s their role in my life, I cry all the time because of the things they say to me.<\/p>\n

And I don\u2019t want to cry. I want to be angry, prove them wrong, and make them regret mistreating me. Actually, I want to be fierce and scary and make them scared of me\u2014make them think again the next time they want to treat me badly.<\/p>\n

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Vorrei poter ignorare le persone.<\/p>\n

It would be so amazing if I could just not hear what they say to me or if their opinions would mean nothing to me. I\u2019d really love to be able to ignore their expectations, their commands, and their wishes for me.<\/p>\n

It would be so amazing if I could decide for myself and if their ideas and words wouldn\u2019t cloud my judgments. Honestly, I\u2019m tired of trying to please everybody because the second I\u2019m good to one person, I\u2019m a disaster to another.<\/p>\n

Vorrei essere il mio #1.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I\u2019m nobody\u2019s priority and that\u2019s OK. But what\u2019s not OK is that I\u2019m not even my own #1. Everybody comes before me, and I let it be like that for years. I don\u2019t stand up for myself\u2014I just say, \u201cwhatever\u201d, thinking that better days will come.<\/p>\n

The sick part is I\u2019ve been like this for far too long. I want to invest my time in me, doing things I love, and enjoying the time I have the way I want it. But it\u2019s so hard, sometimes I think it\u2019s the hardest thing there is.<\/p>\n

Vorrei poter dire \"vaffanculo\" alle persone.<\/p>\n

There are so many mean people out there. There are people that just want to hurt you, bring you down in order to make them feel better, you know? There are people who\u2019ll run you over just so they can succeed.<\/p>\n

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The worst part is, once they\u2019re at the very bottom again, they come to you asking for help or a favor. The worst part is I don\u2019t say \u2018no\u2019. I always give them another chance when instead, I should slam my door in their faces. But I can\u2019t\u2014that\u2019s how I ended up walking through my life with so many toxic people. It would be so much easier if I could just cross them out of my life.<\/p>\n

I think I wouldn\u2019t struggle with anxiety or with fear of the outer world. I would be a much more fun girl and I\u2019d feel so much better. I know that it\u2019s all in my head and I just need to decide. I know I have to do everything alone, but I\u2019m stuck.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s better to be a girl with an attitude than a girl without an attitude. It\u2019s better to watch out for yourself instead of constantly waiting for somebody to save you. I know I have a girl with an attitude inside myself\u2014I just need to let her come to the surface. When that day comes, I\u2019ll be so proud of myself.<\/strong><\/p>\n

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