{"id":3296,"date":"2017-08-07T12:25:08","date_gmt":"2017-08-07T12:25:08","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=3296"},"modified":"2022-02-25T11:24:16","modified_gmt":"2022-02-25T11:24:16","slug":"scegliere-la-cosa-migliore","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/scegliere-la-cosa-migliore\/","title":{"rendered":"Ecco perch\u00e9 scegliere lei \u00e8 stata la cosa migliore che tu abbia fatto per me"},"content":{"rendered":"

It completely sucks when you keep choosing somebody who\u2019d never chosen you.<\/strong> It sucks when you think \u2018this is it\u2019 and it turns out it isn\u2019t. This keeps happening to me. I keep misreading people and I keep giving them roles in my life they can\u2019t or they won\u2019t play.<\/p>\n

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Quando hai preferito lei a me, mi sono arrabbiata tantissimo.<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n

Continuavo a incolparla per averti portato via da me. La cosa brutta \u00e8 che non sei mai stata veramente mia, vero? Ti ho solo preso in prestito da qualcuno per un po'. Non saresti mai stata mia per sempre.<\/p>\n

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When you chose her over me, I kept wondering what she has that I don\u2019t.<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n

The answer is nothing. She was just a fresh person in your life and that\u2019s the only difference. She wasn\u2019t better or prettier. She wasn\u2019t smarter or funnier. There was nothing she did better than me, and yet, she was my replacement.<\/p>\n

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Quando hai preferito lei a me, ti ha fatto molto male.<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n

It\u2019s not just a phrase or a girly thing\u2014it\u2019s a human thing in fact. Rejection hurts. Knowing that somebody else has what was mine hurts. Knowing she gets to do the things I wanted to do with you, knowing she gets to visit places with you that I wanted, made me feel so jealous.<\/p>\n

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\"Giovane<\/p>\n

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Quando hai preferito lei a me, ho pensato che un traditore resta un traditore.<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n

I know she\u2019s not your last choice. I know there will be another girl after her and another and another. There is nothing wrong with girls that you choose\u2014you\u2019re a good sellout\u2014but there is everything wrong with you.<\/p>\n

You keep replacing girls like worn out socks and each of us thinks she\u2019s different and this time you\u2019re going to settle. But you won\u2019t. Because you\u2019re not that type. You\u2019re all in until you get a girl and once you get her, you\u2019re all out.<\/p>\n

Vedi anche:<\/strong> Segni che non \u00e8 pronto a impegnarsi (ma voi non volete vederlo)<\/a><\/p>\n

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When you chose her over me, I hoped you\u2019ll treat her better.<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n

I sincerely wished for her a less broken heart than mine. I hoped you wouldn\u2019t emotionally abuse her and that she wouldn\u2019t stay emotionally damaged after you. I hoped she\u2019d see your intention better than I did. I sincerely wished for her to be saved by somebody and I kind\u2019ve hoped she\u2019d do to you things you\u2019re doing to all your girls.<\/p>\n

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Quando hai scelto lei, mi sono sentito sollevato.<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n

Avevo il cuore spezzato, ma I was relieved that you\u2019d left<\/a>. I knew there is no more you and me and I knew there is no getting back together. I realized that all this trauma could\u2019ve been easily escaped by one single step\u2014walking away.<\/p>\n

If you hadn\u2019t walked away, I could\u2019ve never done it.<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n

I would\u2019ve rimanere per sempre in questa misera relazione <\/a>where I was constantly dragged down. I\u2019d stay with somebody who\u2019d never appreciated my efforts and who\u2019d never loved me the way I deserved it. If you hadn\u2019t walked away, I would\u2019ve never known what a toxic relationship is and how it feels good to break free from it.<\/strong><\/p>\n

If you hadn\u2019t chosen her, we\u2019d be still together and I\u2019d still be going through the hell only you dared to put me through. That\u2019s why choosing her was the best thing you have ever done for me.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ciao, adios, I\u2019m done.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

It completely sucks when you keep choosing somebody who\u2019d never chosen you. It sucks when you think \u2018this is it\u2019 and it turns out it isn\u2019t. This keeps happening to me. I keep misreading people and I keep giving them roles in my life they can\u2019t or they won\u2019t play.   When you chose her…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":3297,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3296","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/colin-maynard-269472.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3296","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3296"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3296\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/3297"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3296"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3296"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3296"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}