{"id":32965,"date":"2019-02-15T10:29:32","date_gmt":"2019-02-15T10:29:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=32965"},"modified":"2021-11-10T10:22:57","modified_gmt":"2021-11-10T10:22:57","slug":"8-regole-per-diventare-unottima-spalla-per-aiutare-la-vostra-amica-a-rimorchiare","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/8-regole-per-diventare-unottima-spalla-per-aiutare-la-vostra-amica-a-rimorchiare\/","title":{"rendered":"8 regole per diventare una donna alata da urlo (per aiutare la tua migliore amica a rimorchiare)"},"content":{"rendered":"

Avete sentito parlare dei gregari, vero?<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not even remotely unusual that guys help each other out when they see a cute girl and want to approach her. It\u2019s the basics of good friendship.<\/p>\n

So naturally, why wouldn\u2019t women be great wingwomen, too?<\/p>\n

We have each other\u2019s backs and we are there in every possible situation. Why would it be strange for us to take the seat next to the pilot and help her land the guy of her dreams.<\/p>\n

Questo, tra l'altro, \u00e8 ci\u00f2 che migliori amici<\/a> are for. \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n

Non tutte sono brave a flirtare e ad approcciare gli uomini, quindi a volte alcune di noi hanno bisogno di una mano e altre sono pronte ad aiutarle.<\/p>\n

L'utilit\u00e0 di essere una wingwoman<\/h2>\n

Bisogna essere responsabili e intelligenti per poter compiere questo atto nobile e altruistico.<\/p>\n

You have to keep in mind not to come off too strong and steal the spotlight but at the same time, you have to be interesting enough to entertain the guy\u2019s friend.<\/p>\n

The whole point is to have your girl\u2019s back and remove the friend from your girl\u2019s conversation in a subtle and cute way.<\/p>\n

If the friend is hot, it\u2019s definitely a plus.<\/p>\n

Come diventare la migliore spalla?<\/strong><\/p>\n

1. Esercitarsi con lei<\/h2>\n

Se necessario, fatelo un milione di volte. Ricreate una scena al bar e fate pratica con lei per lasciare la migliore impressione possibile.<\/p>\n

Do this especially if your friend is a bit shy and usually doesn\u2019t approach strangers on your night out.<\/p>\n

Pretend you are a hot stranger and she\u2019s picking you up. Don\u2019t go easy on her, be ruthless if you need to.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s how you\u2019ll prepare her for the worst if it accidentally happens but also choose moments when to be gentle, too. You don\u2019t want to destroy her self-esteem.<\/p>\n

Inoltre, assicuratevi di darle un feedback sulle cose che pensate avrebbe potuto fare meglio. Datele consigli su ci\u00f2 che avreste fatto in modo diverso, ecc.<\/p>\n

2. Scegliere per lei (se necessario)<\/h2>\n

If she\u2019s too scared to look, if she\u2019s insecure, choose a guy for her (but follow the rules of the codice della ragazza<\/a>). <\/p>\n

You know that this night out is not about you and you don’t need to get nervous about making the first move. Your feelings are not on the line.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t have to care what he thinks about you because you are not the one who is interested in him but still, try to leave a good impression.<\/p>\n

Fategli domande generali, chiedetegli che tipo di musica gli piace, cosa fa per vivere, ecc.<\/p>\n

Raccogliete alcune informazioni generali su di lui che le presenterete e lasciate che sia lei a decidere se le piace o meno.<\/p>\n

3. Non siete un organizzatore di incontri<\/h2>\n

There is no need for you to plan their date. You are not a matchmaker in this situation and the things you would like don\u2019t matter.<\/p>\n

Only she matters and the things she wants to do. Do not force the hook-up, those situations usually don\u2019t even end up well.<\/p>\n

Siate presenti alla vostra ragazza come sostegno e aiuto immediato. Fate in modo che possa contare su di voi in ogni momento. Siete la sua rete di sicurezza.<\/p>\n

Remember, you are there for her to help her get what she wants\u2014a one-night stand, his number, a lover, a soulmate, you name it!<\/p>\n

4. Fare il furbo se necessario<\/h2>\n

Se, per qualsiasi motivo, le cose sfuggono di mano, intervenite per salvare la situazione.<\/p>\n

Se notate che la conversazione sta andando a rotoli o che \u00e8 rimasta bloccata in una situazione imbarazzante, andate a salvarla.<\/p>\n

Per aiutarla, mettetevi in imbarazzo anche peggio di lei, in modo da indirizzare l'attenzione indesiderata su di voi. Siate pronti a fare un passo avanti per la squadra!<\/p>\n

Do whatever it takes. Basically, your job is to make her look like a rock star. You don\u2019t matter.<\/p>\n

5. Parlare con lei<\/h2>\n

Before going out, think of the stories you will share with the guy she\u2019s into. Avoid embarrassing stories and choose the ones that make her look awesome because let\u2019s face it, she is.<\/p>\n

Assicuratevi di sottolineare tutte le sue qualit\u00e0 e lasciatelo a bocca aperta.<\/p>\n

6. Divertire l'amico<\/h2>\n

Lasciate loro un po' di tempo da soli, soprattutto se vedete che la vostra ragazza ha la situazione sotto controllo, ma tenetela comunque d'occhio nel caso in cui abbia bisogno del vostro aiuto.<\/p>\n

While you\u2019re letting her control the situation, amuse the friend.<\/p>\n

Be selfless and spend as much time as possible with him, even if you don\u2019t like him. If you do, well\u2026 that\u2019s a win-win situation but take my advice and don\u2019t count on that.<\/p>\n

7. Non flirtare<\/h2>\n

As I\u2019ve already said a couple of times, it\u2019s not about you. You are there for her just as support.<\/p>\n

So in order to help her the best you can, turn off your sexy charm and pretend you\u2019re not there. You don\u2019t want to distract him and get his attention.<\/p>\n

Se parlate con lui per primo, comportatevi in modo amichevole e caloroso, ma allo stesso tempo distante. Non attiratelo accidentalmente.<\/p>\n

8. Pianificare la via di fuga<\/h2>\n

Before you go out, carefully go through all the possible scenarios in the bar, including the one where things don\u2019t go exactly as you planned.<\/p>\n

What if he turns out to be a creeper or if he\u2019s just weird? You have to have an escape plan.<\/p>\n

For these situations, come up with a safe word or a gesture that will signal you to run and save her. Or if you just see that she\u2019s uncomfortable and she wants to bounce, go to the rescue and do your thing.<\/p>\n

Sii la sua spalla. Sii la migliore amica di cui ha bisogno.<\/p>\n

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