{"id":33064,"date":"2019-02-18T09:10:50","date_gmt":"2019-02-18T09:10:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=33064"},"modified":"2021-08-12T09:59:12","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T09:59:12","slug":"se-avessi-visto-il-suo-valore-in-tempo-forse-sarebbe-ancora-li","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/se-avessi-visto-il-suo-valore-in-tempo-forse-sarebbe-ancora-li\/","title":{"rendered":"Se si vedesse il suo valore in tempo, forse sarebbe ancora l\u00ec"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Dopo tutto quello che hai fatto a questa ragazza, hai ancora l'audacia di chiederti come ti sei meritato che ti lasciasse, cos\u00ec, all'improvviso?<\/p>\n<p>After all the shit you\u2019ve put her through and after making her existence a living hell for years, you are still convinced that you have the right to blame her for dumping you?<\/p>\n<p>You still have the courage to call her and show up at the places you could meet her, thinking that her decision wasn\u2019t serious and that she\u2019d change her mind the moment she heard your voice or saw your face.<\/p>\n<p>Hai ancora il coraggio di provare a tornare strisciando da lei, aspettandoti un'altra possibilit\u00e0 e pretendendo che ti riprenda un'altra volta, come se non fosse successo nulla?<\/p>\n<p>Aspettarsi che lei creda al tuo <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/basta-con-le-parole-dolci-e-le-promesse-vuote-voglio-onesta-e-impegno\/\">promesse vuote<\/a> e di sprecare altri anni con l'uomo che non ha mai meritato di averla.<\/p>\n<p>Se lo fai, devo dirti che devi essere pazzo perch\u00e9 l'ultima cosa che questa ragazza ha intenzione di fare \u00e8 tornare da te.<\/p>\n<p>L'ultima cosa che pensa di fare \u00e8 darti un'altra opportunit\u00e0 di ferirla e di spezzarle di nuovo il cuore.<\/p>\n<p><strong>No, she doesn\u2019t regret the choice she made and she most certainly doesn\u2019t feel guilty for walking away from you. She doesn\u2019t question her decision, wondering if she did the right thing.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>E sapete perch\u00e9 \u00e8 cos\u00ec?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Because she didn\u2019t actually leave you\u2014you were the one who let her go, thinking you could play with her until you got bored. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>The one who chased her away and the one who never gave her a reason to stay, convinced that she\u2019d put up with you for as long as she breathed.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Se ci penso bene, non hai mai apprezzato o amato abbastanza questa ragazza. Non l'hai mai messa al primo posto e non le hai mai dato il posto che meritava nella tua vita.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00ec, so che siete convinti che questa volta fareste tutto in modo diverso.<\/p>\n<p>That you want her to believe you that you\u2019ve learned your lesson and that you are ready to turn over a new page of your life, as a changed man.<\/p>\n<p>Well, guess what? This girl grew tired of all of your false promises and this time, she isn\u2019t coming back and you couldn\u2019t be more wrong if you believe that she is.<\/p>\n<p>Probabilmente fareste di tutto per avere un'altra possibilit\u00e0 di sistemare le cose.<\/p>\n<p>To show her you\u2019ve realized your mistakes and that you\u2019ve changed to this enlightened man who is finally ready to take responsibility for his actions.<\/p>\n<p>I am sure that now that you\u2019ve <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/mi-hai-perso-e-non-tornero-indietro\/\">perso<\/a> lei, vedi questa ragazza era pi\u00f9 che sufficiente.<\/p>\n<p>Now you finally realize everything people around you kept telling you\u2014that she was one of a kind and that you\u2019d never find a girl similar to her.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00ec, finalmente lo capisci. Finalmente capisci tutti i sacrifici che stava facendo per la vostra relazione e tutti gli sforzi che ha fatto per far funzionare le cose tra voi due.<\/p>\n<p>Ciononostante, nessuna di queste realizzazioni ha un senso ora. \u00c8 bello se sei davvero rinsavito, ma \u00e8 anche completamente inutile e privo di senso quando si tratta di questa ragazza.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Because she isn\u2019t coming back. And there is nothing you can do about it.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>However, there is something even worse than this\u2014<strong>you are the one who is sentenced to spending the rest of your life dreaming about a girl you had but whose true value you didn\u2019t see.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Quello che si \u00e8 reso infelice e quello che ha perso una ragazza che non incontrer\u00e0 mai pi\u00f9.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t get me wrong\u2014I am in no way trying to sympathize with you\u2019re here.<\/p>\n<p>Instead, I\u2019m pretty glad that all of this is happening to you because repenting for what you did is exactly what you deserve to go through.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-33067 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/PINTEREST-2019-02-18T100848.526-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Se si vedesse il suo valore in tempo, forse sarebbe ancora l\u00ec\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/PINTEREST-2019-02-18T100848.526-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/PINTEREST-2019-02-18T100848.526-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/PINTEREST-2019-02-18T100848.526.jpg 467w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>After everything you\u2019ve done to this girl, you still have the audacity to wonder how you deserved her leaving you, just like that, out of the blue? After all the shit you\u2019ve put her through and after making her existence a living hell for years, you are still convinced that you have the right to&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":33065,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-33064","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/adult-blur-bonnet-246804.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/33064","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=33064"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/33064\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/33065"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=33064"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=33064"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=33064"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}