{"id":33086,"date":"2020-02-18T11:30:54","date_gmt":"2020-02-18T11:30:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=33086"},"modified":"2022-02-07T03:53:52","modified_gmt":"2022-02-07T03:53:52","slug":"se-piaccio-alla-mia-cotta-ecco-come-saperlo-con-certezza","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/se-piaccio-alla-mia-cotta-ecco-come-saperlo-con-certezza\/","title":{"rendered":"Piaccio alla mia cotta? Ecco come saperlo con certezza!"},"content":{"rendered":"

Piaccio alla mia cotta? <\/i> This is the most mind-boggling question a girl can ask herself when she\u2019s testa in gi\u00f9 <\/a> for a guy who she\u2019s not even sure notices her.<\/p>\n

Di solito, quando il vostro migliore amico <\/a> asks if you think their crush likes them back, you\u2019re quick to put on your detective hat and are all hands on deck trying to get to the bottom of it.<\/p>\n

E tu sei davvero molto bravo a decifrare tutti questi segnali!<\/p>\n

When feelings aren\u2019t involved and you can make a clear assessment as a third party with no emotional connection to the situation, it\u2019s not that difficult figuring out if your bestie is clearly on someone\u2019s mind.<\/p>\n

She\u2019s very close to you, and if you\u2019ve ever been around the man she has this huge crush on, you\u2019ve most probably noticed signs that would point out to his affection toward her or lack thereof.<\/p>\n

\"due<\/p>\n

But when it\u2019s you, things are a bit trickier than that!<\/b><\/p>\n

Quando si ha una cotta per qualcuno, la testa non \u00e8 esattamente il miglior giudice del carattere.<\/p>\n

Your emotions are a little heightened, your mood is a bit more elevated, and you\u2019re no longer sure whether you can trust your instincts!<\/p>\n

What if you make a fool of yourself? What if this person doesn\u2019t even know you exist\u2026 yet there you are, picturing the dress you\u2019ll be wearing on your wedding day.<\/i><\/p>\n

It\u2019s just so frustrating not knowing.<\/p>\n

Crushes are not something that just stop happening as you get older – unfortunately for all of us.<\/p>\n

There\u2019s no stopping your brain from obsessively tormenting yourself with feelings of attraction toward certain people but not quite sure if you should, or even potrebbe, <\/i> avvicinarsi a loro.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

You feel like you\u2019re back in ninth grade, pining over an eleventh grader, wishing he\u2019d finally notice you, and ask you to go out with him during recess to make out behind the bleachers. That was the dream way back when\u2026<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Ma ora vi sentite infantili a rivivere la stessa identica cosa, dieci (o pi\u00f9) anni dopo.<\/p>\n

Guess what? Crushing on a guy doesn\u2019t make you childish. It doesn\u2019t mean you\u2019re stuck in some kind of a rut nor should it be something you\u2019re embarrassed about!<\/p>\n

Girl\u2026 I\u2019m in my late twenties, and I can\u2019t tell you how many crushes I\u2019ve had in between relationships. And it kills me now just as much as it did all those years ago.<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t help what you feel, so take it easy on yourself.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

The good thing is, you\u2019re a little bit older now, probably much wiser and more mature. Your instincts are sharper, and you\u2019re more capable of making a good call.<\/b><\/p>\n

Experience is the mother of all teachers. And if you feel like there\u2019s a chance your crush ti ricambia <\/a> , you\u2019re most probably right.<\/p>\n

But just to be sure, I\u2019ve assembled some clear signs that indicate that he\u2019s crushing on you as well.<\/p>\n

So if you\u2019re falling hard for someone and desperately want to know whether the guy likes you back, keep reading to find out!<\/p>\n

If he showcases any of these signs, you\u2019re in luck because it means that he obviously likes you back!<\/p>\n

Piaccio alla mia cotta? 9 chiari segni che gli piaccio!<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Mostra un chiaro interesse per la vostra vita privata!<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

In ogni nuova relazione, la parte pi\u00f9 emozionante \u00e8 la fase della luna di miele!<\/p>\n

The time when you\u2019re just getting to know each other, asking each other all those important and not-so-important questions about anything and everything regarding each other!<\/p>\n

The most trivial fact about your guy will seem so exciting and riveting because you\u2019re on cloud nine, so it\u2019s not that hard being fascinated by this new person you\u2019re obsessed with.<\/p>\n

Il che mi porta al punto successivo.<\/p>\n

If the guy you\u2019re crushing on asks you about your life, he always finds something interesting to reply to whatever you say, and he seems deeply interested in the most mundane things about you\u2026 you might just be in luck.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s one thing to ask something out of pure politeness, but when the person is still interested and has a bunch of additional questions, they\u2019re likely interested in you in more than just a friendly manner \u2013 yay!<\/p>\n

Continuate a parlare con loro, rispondendo in modo dettagliato, e chiedete loro qualcosa in cambio.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re probably going to end up realizing you love opening up to each other, and what do you know\u2026 you\u2019ll be setting up a date before you know it!<\/p>\n

He always somehow ends up in the circle you\u2019re in!<\/h2>\n

\"amici<\/p>\n

Potreste avere amici in comune o almeno conoscere alcune delle stesse persone, quindi a volte riuscite a vedere questa persona senza dovervi sforzare troppo.<\/p>\n

But lately\u2026 you\u2019ve been noticing that he\u2019s everywhere around you. You meet up with your friends for brunch in your local caf\u00e9, and he just happens to be there with his buddies.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re out on the town, in this new place, and who arrives an hour later? Your crush!<\/p>\n

It\u2019s like he somehow knows where you\u2019ll be and makes sure he\u2019s there because he just can\u2019t seem to stay away\u2026<\/p>\n

And do you know why that is? Because he likes you so much that he actually goes to the trouble of finding out where you\u2019ll be hanging out that day, just so that he could see you (if nothing else).<\/p>\n

He probably gets his info from mutual friends or acquaintances, so it\u2019s no coincidence running into him everywhere.<\/p>\n

Il ragazzo sta davvero cercando di farsi notare da voi, quindi incontratelo a met\u00e0 strada!<\/p>\n

La prossima volta che lo vedete in giro dove siete voi, avvicinatelo. Fate un'osservazione spiritosa sul fatto che continuate a incrociarvi nel modo pi\u00f9 casuale possibile e partite da l\u00ec.<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll be thrilled you\u2019ve approached him, which will disarm him, and you\u2019ll end up chatting it up!<\/p>\n

He seems to know things you\u2019ve never told him about yourself!<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

This is a no-brainer. He has obviously done his research on you! And let\u2019s not kid ourselves by saying we don\u2019t do that\u2026 because we sure as hell do!<\/p>\n

Who doesn\u2019t google the person they like? Who doesn\u2019t type their name into the Facebook search engine to see what will come up?<\/p>\n

We\u2019re all guilty of this, so let\u2019s just be upfront with ourselves.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t judge the guy for seeming to know some details about you. He\u2019s not a serial killer. He\u2019s probably either searched for you on social networks or asked a mutual friend about you.<\/p>\n

Either way, the guy clearly likes you! You know you wouldn\u2019t google someone you don\u2019t give a shit about sooo\u2026 there you have it!<\/p>\n

Il loro equipaggio si comporta sempre in modo un po' sciocco con voi due!<\/h2>\n

\"amici<\/p>\n

\u00c8 probabile che i vostri amici si siano accorti della tensione sessuale <\/a> between you two, even if you haven\u2019t! These things are as clear as day to outside observers.<\/p>\n

So if you\u2019ve noticed their friends acting all weird when you\u2019re all together, they probably know there\u2019s some serious tension there, and they\u2019re just waiting for both of you to act on it.<\/p>\n

They will tease you, make playful jokes, or even make sure to leave you and your crush alone, just to see if you\u2019ll finally admit what you\u2019re both clearly feeling!<\/p>\n

If this is the case, trust them! If his friends are giving you all the signs he likes you, take their word for it. They know him better than anyone and clearly think you\u2019re good for him.<\/p>\n

Use this unique situation, and show them you mean business. You obviously have his friends\u2019 seal of approval, so now it\u2019s just a matter of doing something about it!<\/p>\n

Ball\u2019s in your court. You have all the signs you need here. All you need to do is make them a reality.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re texting, he never takes long to reply!<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Quando ti piace qualcuno, davvero , davvero <\/i> like them\u2026 you don\u2019t take their time for granted.<\/p>\n

When you\u2019re texting, he\u2019s so prompt and quick to reply. You never have to wonder if there\u2019s something else out there occupying his attention because he almost always replies instantly!<\/p>\n

This person is probably so eager to talk to you, that they light up as soon as they see your name on their screen. It\u2019s also not uncommon that they even initiate most of your conversations!<\/p>\n

Tutti questi semplici gesti indicano che la vostra cotta vi piace davvero!<\/p>\n

You know that when you don\u2019t feel like replying, you\u2019ll take ages, and probably reply with one word, but this is totally different!<\/p>\n

You just can\u2019t seem to drop your phones when you\u2019re texting, and there is always something to talk about.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve got yourself somebody who really, really enjoys talking to you. Congrats!<\/p>\n

Ti tocca sempre in modo innocente!<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

And no, I\u2019m not talking about anything of sexual nature here. It\u2019s much more delicate and pure than that at this point.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m talking about two people who are clearly so drawn to each other, but neither is ready to make the first move.<\/p>\n

Potreste essere seduti l'uno accanto all'altro e la sua gamba toccher\u00e0 la vostra, senza che nessuno di voi ci faccia caso o si muova.<\/p>\n

You could say \u2018Hi\u2019 to each other with a high-five, and your hands will linger on one another\u2019s for a few extra seconds.<\/p>\n

He will notice your hair all over your face, so he\u2019ll gently brush it to the side\u2026 those kinds of things.<\/p>\n

If he finds any (cute!) excuse to touch you\u2026 girl, he LIKES you like hell! Don\u2019t even wait, just kiss him as soon as possible because he most probably has been thinking about it for days!<\/p>\n

Trova sempre un motivo per contattarti!<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Quando si ha una cotta per qualcuno, l'unica cosa che si pensa \u00e8 parlargli, in qualsiasi modo possibile.<\/p>\n

So you keep finding excuses to contact them, however silly they may be. I t doesn\u2019t matter\u2026 seeing their name on your screen literally makes your entire day.<\/p>\n

Fa ti ha mandato un messaggio<\/a> out of the blue to ask for some random advice (that you KNOW he easily could\u2019ve asked his buddies)?<\/p>\n

Does he tag you in funny memes quite often? Does he make sure it\u2019s never too long between your conversations? If so, he clearly wants to keep in contact with you.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s making sure that the feeling is mutual and is probably trying to develop a habit of talking on a regular basis, hoping you\u2019ll catch the drift and start contacting him as well.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s probably quite creative when getting in touch with you\u2026 be that a funny\/interesting article that he thought you\u2019d find fascinating, a funny text that will instantly make you laugh or a meme that is part of an inner joke you two perhaps share.<\/p>\n

Tutto ci\u00f2 indica che non riesce a toglierti dalla testa.<\/p>\n

Il suo linguaggio del corpo lo rivela!<\/h2>\n

\"bella<\/p>\n

With words, it\u2019s very easy to say what we wish to say and keep to ourselves what we wish to remain private. But when it comes to linguaggio del corpo <\/a> , there\u2019s only so much you can control.<\/p>\n

Our body gives away what our mouths are hesitant to say. Our body language is a very clear indicator of how we\u2019re feeling and should be taken seriously.<\/p>\n

Next time you\u2019re talking to your crush, observe the way his body behaves. He is most probably giving out subtle signs that he\u2019s not even aware of.<\/p>\n

Is his body naturally leaning toward you as he\u2019s speaking? Is he gazing into your eyes, keeping full eye contact, without looking away? Are his hands all over the place when he\u2019s talking to you?<\/p>\n

All these point out to his clear fixation on you as he\u2019s speaking, as if you\u2019re the only one whose opinion he\u2019s interested in, no matter how many people there are around you.<\/p>\n

If his body appears very open, inviting, and pointed directly at you, and you have his full attention, he\u2019s probably interested in you.<\/p>\n

Ci rivolgiamo a coloro con cui desideriamo comunicare e la cui attenzione \u00e8 importante per noi.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t look away, and keep him engaged. Let him see that you\u2019re just as interested, and let it grow into whatever it\u2019s supposed to be!<\/p>\n

Il suo umore \u00e8 sempre allegro quando c'\u00e8 lei!<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve never seen him downcast or in a bad mood. He always seems to be genuinely happy and bright, and you feel so relaxed in his company.<\/p>\n

Questo perch\u00e9 nel momento in cui vi vede, il suo umore si illumina immediatamente! \u00c8 cos\u00ec che reagiscono le persone a cui teniamo quando ci vedono.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s like an adrenaline rush\u2026 you can be in a really shitty mood, having had the worst day, but the moment you see your crush, it all goes away!<\/p>\n

People we really care about can have that effect on us. I\u2019m sure you\u2019ve experienced it yourself. It\u2019s the most peculiar thing\u2026 but you just can\u2019t be in a bad mood when you see the one you really care about.<\/p>\n

Especially if it\u2019s a crush, since it\u2019s not even guaranteed that you\u2019ll see him, so whenever the opportunity arises, you appreciate it double the amount!<\/p>\n

Se senti che il suo umore si illumina davvero con te, potresti essere tu quella persona per lui.<\/p>\n

Ask your friends to pay attention next time you\u2019re all together, and if they notice it too, you\u2019re good to go!<\/p>\n

You make him happy just by being there, and if that\u2019s not a clear sign the guy is crushing on you, I don\u2019t know what is!<\/p>\n

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