{"id":33093,"date":"2020-05-18T10:56:38","date_gmt":"2020-05-18T10:56:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=33093"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:27:22","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:27:22","slug":"non-preoccupatevi-di-sistemarvi-preoccupatevi-di-sistemarvi-per-luomo-sbagliato","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/non-preoccupatevi-di-sistemarvi-preoccupatevi-di-sistemarvi-per-luomo-sbagliato\/","title":{"rendered":"Non preoccupatevi di accontentarvi in ritardo, ma di accontentarvi dell'uomo sbagliato"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Spegnete tutte le voci che vi dicono che dovete avere una relazione per essere felici e completi.<\/p>\n<p>Spegnete tutte le voci che vi dicono che dovete sposarvi o andare a vivere con il vostro ragazzo prima dei 30 anni.<\/p>\n<p>Spegnete tutte le voci che vi dicono che il vostro orologio biologico sta ticchettando e che a un certo punto sar\u00e0 troppo tardi per avere figli e creare una famiglia.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Life is not a race, and it\u2019s not the 1970\u2019s anymore; you don\u2019t have to do anything.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>The rule is that there are no rules or boundaries when it comes to true love, and it\u2019s different for each and every one of us.<\/p>\n<p>Non c'\u00e8 una tempistica fissa per nessuna di queste cose. C'\u00e8 chi trova l'amore al liceo, chi dopo i 30 anni e chi dopo uno o pi\u00f9 matrimoni falliti.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-89111\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/wedding-couple-kissing.jpg\" alt=\"coppia di sposi che si bacia\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/wedding-couple-kissing.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/wedding-couple-kissing-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/wedding-couple-kissing-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Il vero amore bussa alle nostre porte a prescindere.<\/p>\n<p>Quindi, ogni volta che l'amore entra nella vostra vita, accoglietelo. Ma non accontentatevi mai di amori a met\u00e0, relazioni disordinate e persone tossiche.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s not true love. That\u2019s not settling down with somebody you love.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s settling for less than you deserve. That\u2019s settling for a life deprived of joy.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Scrollatevi di dosso la paura di rimanere sole. Preoccupatevi piuttosto di finire con l'uomo sbagliato.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Trust me\u2014that\u2019s ten times worse than ending up alone because nothing can ruin your life like the wrong man.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-89112\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/man-looking-at-sad-woman.jpg\" alt=\"uomo che guarda una donna triste\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/man-looking-at-sad-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/man-looking-at-sad-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/man-looking-at-sad-woman-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Se vi accontentate dell'uomo sbagliato, vi accontentate di continui litigi e di una mancanza di attenzioni e di affetto.<\/p>\n<p>You are sharing your roof with somebody who doesn\u2019t understand you.<\/p>\n<p>Once you settle for the wrong man, you are signing the papers that you accept a life in which he doesn\u2019t give you the respect you deserve.<\/p>\n<p>Non far\u00e0 altro che dare per scontati voi e tutti gli sforzi che fate.<\/p>\n<p>Quando ci si accontenta dell'uomo sbagliato, non si vive nel presente.<\/p>\n<p>Vivete nella speranza di un domani migliore, nella speranza che un giorno lui cambi e vi dia l'amore che meritate.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-89113\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/worried-young-woman-sitting-on-the-couch.jpg\" alt=\"giovane donna preoccupata seduta sul divano\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/worried-young-woman-sitting-on-the-couch.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/worried-young-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/worried-young-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Once you settle for the wrong man, you are settling for a life of waiting\u2014waiting for him to be the man you need; waiting for something that will never be.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Don\u2019t marry someone you are not completely, madly, passionately in love with either.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t settle for someone you don\u2019t really care for just because he is good for you or better than your ex.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t settle for someone because you just celebrated a milestone birthday and you think \u2018it\u2019s time\u2019 to put down some roots.<\/p>\n<p>Settling for anything less than true love is a mistake. Where all the feelings and investments aren\u2019t reciprocated, there is no love. There is no basis to build a life together.<\/p>\n<p>Non c'\u00e8 possibilit\u00e0 di un buon matrimonio.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-89114\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/sad-woman-taking-off-her-wedding-ring.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste che si toglie la fede nuziale\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/sad-woman-taking-off-her-wedding-ring.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/sad-woman-taking-off-her-wedding-ring-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/sad-woman-taking-off-her-wedding-ring-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>So, don\u2019t marry someone you are \u2018meh\u2019 about because he will be wrong for you\u2014just as a man who treats you like crap because there\u2019s no love coming from your side.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Don\u2019t settle for \u2018good enough\u2019. Wait for the one that is the best for you even though he might not be perfect. <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Don\u2019t settle for somebody who treats you poorly because there is a man out there who will treat you like a queen.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t allow society\u2019s expectations or your own expectations and fears to pressure you into settling for someone who isn\u2019t made for you, someone who clearly isn\u2019t your soulmate.<\/p>\n<p>Abbiamo tutti una vita da vivere e dobbiamo scegliere come viverla. Non dovremmo mai sprecarla accontentandoci di qualcosa di meno del vero amore.<\/p>\n<p>Scegliete quindi l'amore ricambiato, infinito e incondizionato.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-89115\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/happy-couple-hugging-on-the-rooftop.jpg\" alt=\"coppia felice che si abbraccia sul tetto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/happy-couple-hugging-on-the-rooftop.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/happy-couple-hugging-on-the-rooftop-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/happy-couple-hugging-on-the-rooftop-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Scegliete di essere abbastanza coraggiosi da aspettare qualcuno che porti calma e gioia nella vostra vita, qualcuno con cui vi sentiate al sicuro, qualcuno che si prenda cura di voi e vi tratti con gentilezza anche se siete pi\u00f9 che capaci di prendervi cura di voi stessi.<\/p>\n<p>Wait for the man and marry the man who you feel is the right one for you, and you just know that you wouldn\u2019t want to spend the rest of your life with anybody else.<\/p>\n<p>The best thing about it all is that your timing will be just right. You won\u2019t meet him too late or too soon.<\/p>\n<p>Incontrerete la vostra anima gemella proprio quando \u00e8 previsto che lo facciate.<\/p>\n<p>So mute those mean voices telling you to settle, pressuring you to hurry up into getting married, screaming that you have to do something you don\u2019t feel is right.<\/p>\n<p>Perch\u00e9 tutto ci\u00f2 che dovete fare \u00e8 essere felici, amare ed essere amati, e non lo sarete mai se vi ritrovate con il <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/7-segni-comuni-che-dicono-che-il-sig-m-e-sbagliato\/\">uomo sbagliato<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>So why wouldn\u2019t you settle down \u201ca bit later\u201d if it\u2019s with the right man?<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-89110\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/Don\u2019t-Worry-About-Settling-Down-Late-Worry-About-Settling-For-The-Wrong-Man-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Non preoccupatevi di accontentarvi in ritardo, ma di accontentarvi dell&#039;uomo sbagliato\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/Don\u2019t-Worry-About-Settling-Down-Late-Worry-About-Settling-For-The-Wrong-Man-pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/Don\u2019t-Worry-About-Settling-Down-Late-Worry-About-Settling-For-The-Wrong-Man-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Shut down all those voices telling you that you have to be in a relationship to be happy and complete. Shut down all those voices telling you that you have to get married or move in with your boyfriend before 30. Shut down all those voices telling you that your biological clock is ticking and&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":89116,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29645],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-33093","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-being-single"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29645,"label":"being single"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/Don\u2019t-Worry-About-Settling-Down-Late-Worry-About-Settling-For-The-Wrong-Man.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29645,"name":"being single","slug":"being-single","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29645,"taxonomy":"category","description":"How to rock being single? 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