{"id":33099,"date":"2020-02-18T11:11:20","date_gmt":"2020-02-18T11:11:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=33099"},"modified":"2022-06-29T15:13:26","modified_gmt":"2022-06-29T15:13:26","slug":"alla-donna-che-ama-ma-non-viene-ricambiata","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/alla-donna-che-ama-ma-non-viene-ricambiata\/","title":{"rendered":"Alla donna che ama ma non viene ricambiata"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em><strong>I tuoi occhi erano pieni di fuoco. Il vostro cuore batteva con tutta la sua forza. Irradiavi energia positiva. Eri cos\u00ec felice.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Ma quando ora ti guardo negli occhi, vedo solo i resti del fuoco che era glorioso. Quando metto la mano sul tuo cuore, riesco a malapena a sentirlo battere.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Quando ti vedo, vedo la nuvola nera sopra la tua testa, che ti segue ovunque tu vada. <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Quando ti vedo ora, cerco di trovare quella donna felice, ma purtroppo non c'\u00e8 pi\u00f9.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/ogni-ragazza-ha-perso-un-uomo-narcisista\/\">Ha perso completamente se stessa per un uomo<\/a> who doesn\u2019t give a damn about her. She gave him all of her love. She made sacrifices for him, and she put him first.<\/p>\n<p>But he didn\u2019t give her any of his love. He refused to sacrifice for her, and he never, ever put her first.<\/p>\n<p>The life she lives right now is not a life. It is surviving from day to day. She faces inner battles every day, but she can\u2019t give up on him.<\/p>\n<p>E sa che restare con lui non la aiuter\u00e0 mai a ottenere l'amore di cui ha bisogno. L'amore che lei, invece, dona in modo cos\u00ec disinteressato.<\/p>\n<p>Era cos\u00ec felice finch\u00e9 non ha incontrato lui. \u00c8 stato il suo primo amore, il suo primo bacio, l'uomo a cui ha dato tutta se stessa.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-75383\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/man-carrying-woman.jpg\" alt=\"uomo che trasporta la donna\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/man-carrying-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/man-carrying-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/man-carrying-woman-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Era convinta che lui fosse la cosa migliore che potesse mai capitarle. Ma la dura verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che in realt\u00e0 lui era la cosa peggiore che potesse mai capitarle.<\/p>\n<p>E lei lo sa. Continua a lottare per lui, sperando che si svegli e si renda conto di ci\u00f2 che ha fatto per tutto il tempo.<\/p>\n<p>Cerca in tutti i modi di attirare l'attenzione di lui, ma non ci riesce mai.<\/p>\n<p>Si preoccupa per lui. Ascolta ci\u00f2 che lui ha da dire. Segue tutte le regole. E l'unica cosa che vuole in cambio \u00e8 un po' di amore. Ma non lo ottiene mai.<\/p>\n<p>Le uniche cose che riceve sono <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/chiamare-per-nome-in-una-relazione\/\">chiamata per nome<\/a>, trascuratezza, urla e mancanza di rispetto.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/8-things-that-happen-when-you-give-up-on-love\/\">But she doesn\u2019t give up.<\/a> Trattiene tutte le lacrime nei suoi occhi, anche se in essi c'\u00e8 un fiume di lacrime.<\/p>\n<p>She doesn\u2019t want to cry in front of him. She doesn\u2019t want him to see the mix of her tears and her mascara. She will be ugly then, and she only wants to be beautiful for him.<\/p>\n<p>Cos\u00ec raccoglie i pezzi del suo cuore spezzato e ancora una volta va a piangere per addormentarsi. Continua a chiedere a Dio perch\u00e9 l'amore debba essere cos\u00ec difficile.<\/p>\n<p>Vuole disperatamente delle risposte, ma non le ottiene mai.<\/p>\n<p>But what she doesn\u2019t see is that the answer is next to her. The empty space where he should be sleeping is reason enough for her to leave.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-75385\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/sad-young-woman-sitting-on-bed.jpg\" alt=\"giovane donna triste seduta sul letto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/sad-young-woman-sitting-on-bed.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/sad-young-woman-sitting-on-bed-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/sad-young-woman-sitting-on-bed-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>She looks at it, touches it, and feels his smell\u2014the smell of a man who used to hold her in his arms.<\/p>\n<p>L'uomo che ha detto che la amer\u00e0 sempre, ma che ha rinunciato a lei al primo ostacolo.<\/p>\n<p>The man who made love to her the whole night, passionately, sensually and in ways she didn\u2019t know existed.<\/p>\n<p>L'uomo che l'ha inseguita, promettendole il mondo intero ma facendole rimpiangere di averlo fatto entrare nella sua vita poco dopo.<\/p>\n<p>That same man looks at her now coldly. He doesn\u2019t care that she has dark bags under her eyes.<\/p>\n<p>He doesn\u2019t care that she suffers every night, lying next to him and not being able to touch him. Because every time she does that, he says he is tired.<br \/>\nShe is desperate because he gives the attention she craves so much to women who don\u2019t deserve it. She is alive, but she dies every day.<\/p>\n<p>Muore perch\u00e9 voleva tutto, ma non ha ottenuto nulla. Muore perch\u00e9 restare con lui fa male, ma non \u00e8 abbastanza forte per andarsene.<\/p>\n<p>E continuer\u00e0 a restare finch\u00e9 non capir\u00e0 che l'uomo a cui ha dato tutto non la ricambier\u00e0 mai. Solo quando capir\u00e0 che stare con lui \u00e8 vano, se ne andr\u00e0.<\/p>\n<p><strong>E l'unica volta che si volter\u00e0 indietro sar\u00e0 per vedere quanta strada ha fatto.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-75379\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/To-The-Woman-Who-Loves-But-Isn\u2019t-Loved-Back-pinterest-2.jpg\" alt=\"Alla donna che ama ma non viene ricambiata\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/To-The-Woman-Who-Loves-But-Isn\u2019t-Loved-Back-pinterest-2.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/To-The-Woman-Who-Loves-But-Isn\u2019t-Loved-Back-pinterest-2-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-75378\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/To-The-Woman-Who-Loves-But-Isn\u2019t-Loved-Back-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Alla donna che ama ma non viene ricambiata\" width=\"735\" height=\"1102\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/To-The-Woman-Who-Loves-But-Isn\u2019t-Loved-Back-pinterest.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/To-The-Woman-Who-Loves-But-Isn\u2019t-Loved-Back-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/To-The-Woman-Who-Loves-But-Isn\u2019t-Loved-Back-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 735px) 100vw, 735px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Your eyes used to be full of fire. Your heart used to beat with all of its force. You used to radiate with positive energy. You used to be so happy. But when I look into your eyes now, I can only see the remains of the fire that was glorious. When I put my&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":41,"featured_media":75387,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29653],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-33099","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-letters"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29653,"label":"letters"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/To-The-Woman-Who-Loves-But-Isn\u2019t-Loved-Back.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Martha Sullivan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/martha-sullivan\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29653,"name":"letters","slug":"letters","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29653,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. 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