{"id":33111,"date":"2020-02-18T11:44:19","date_gmt":"2020-02-18T11:44:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=33111"},"modified":"2022-02-22T11:57:31","modified_gmt":"2022-02-22T11:57:31","slug":"se-fa-queste-6-cose-e-un-bombardiere-damore","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/se-fa-queste-6-cose-e-un-bombardiere-damore\/","title":{"rendered":"Se fa queste 6 cose, \u00e8 un attentatore d'amore"},"content":{"rendered":"

Per tutti coloro che non hanno idea di cosa sia il love bombing e da dove derivi, il love bombing \u00e8 in realt\u00e0 antico quanto l'amore stesso.<\/p>\n

Dal momento in cui \u00e8 nato l'amore, \u00e8 nato anche il bombardamento d'amore.<\/p>\n

From the moment someone \u2018decided\u2019 to love another person, someone else also came up with the concept of love bombing\u2014the moment when manipulation was born.<\/p>\n

Questo \u00e8 fondamentalmente il bombardamento d'amore.<\/p>\n

Cosa fanno i bombardieri d'amore?<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

They won\u2019t stop until they have you. They will chase you, plan big, romantic surprises, and make gestures you won\u2019t be able to resist.<\/p>\n

Realizzeranno ogni vostro desiderio e vi faranno sentire la persona pi\u00f9 importante del loro mondo.<\/p>\n

Dopo che vi hanno conquistato e credete di essere l'obiettivo di un love bomber, non avete alcuna possibilit\u00e0 di contrastare il loro fascino; in un certo senso si dimenticheranno della vostra esistenza.<\/p>\n

Subito dopo avervi attirato in una relazione e aver abbattuto i vostri muri difensivi, mostreranno i loro veri colori.<\/p>\n

Heads-up\u2014it\u2019s their manipulative and controlling behavior.<\/p>\n

Che cos'\u00e8 il love bombing?<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

As the phrase itself suggests, love bombing is a tactic which manipulators use to keep you under their control\u2014they use love as a bomb to keep you manipulated.<\/p>\n

I loro bersagli preferiti sono le persone che sono state ferite in passato, quelle che sono state tradite da quello che pensavano fosse amore, quelle che sono state lasciate a pezzi e insicure.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s easy to make them victims of love bombing because they are the ones easiest to control.<\/p>\n

Sentire ogni giorno quanto qualcuno vi ama pu\u00f2 creare dipendenza, soprattutto se in passato vi \u00e8 mancato il rispetto e l'amore.<\/p>\n

When you get it, you easily get hooked. It\u2019s like a drug. When you get one hit, you need to get another.<\/p>\n

L'obiettivo principale del love bombing<\/h2>\n

\"donna
\nThe ultimate goal for every love bomber is to overwhelm his victim with affection at the beginning of their relationship, so they don\u2019t change their mind about him later on when he shows his real face.<\/p>\n

He wants to keep his victim\u2019s hopes alive that he is going to change back to his old self\u2014a sweet and compassionate man ready to turn the world upside down for the person he loves.<\/p>\n

Uomini di questo tipo ingannano deliberatamente le loro vittime affinch\u00e9 tollerino il loro comportamento tossico nelle fasi pi\u00f9 avanzate della loro relazione.<\/p>\n

Signs you\u2019re with a love bomber and not a real and honest man<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/h2>\n

Creer\u00e0 un forte legame fin dall'inizio.<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

He will tell you everything about himself before you even get home from the first date. He will let you in on all aspects of his life. Isn\u2019t this kind of alarming?<\/p>\n

He will emphasize how important you are to him and that he feels an unbreakable connection between the two of you, like you\u2019ve known each other your whole lives.<\/p>\n

Vi assicurer\u00e0 di avervi raccontato cose di s\u00e9 che non aveva mai detto a nessun altro prima.<\/p>\n

Logicamente, vi sentirete al sicuro con lui e, dato che vi ha raccontato tutto di s\u00e9, ricambierete il favore e vi aprirete anche voi.<\/p>\n

Well, that\u2019s the first big mistake you made. You just gave him enough material to use against you in the future.<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll drop the L-bomb way too soon<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

I know, no one has the right to decide when the right time to say, \u201cI love you,\u201d to someone is.<\/p>\n

L'amore dovrebbe riguardare quel particolare sentimento che si prova in quel particolare momento; l'amore dovrebbe essere qualcosa di speciale.<\/p>\n

On the other hand, everyone knows love takes time to develop and it\u2019s almost impossible to innamorarsi cos\u00ec presto<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Anche se pensate di essere innamorati all'inizio, vi sbagliate. Si tratta solo di attrazione e infatuazione.<\/p>\n

Per amare davvero qualcuno, bisogna prima conoscerlo; tutto il resto \u00e8 solo temporaneo.<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll tell you exactly what you want to hear<\/h2>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

I\u2019m telling you, a person like that has to have a special skill to be able to do that, plus no conscience whatsoever.<\/p>\n

Ha una linea appropriata per ogni possibile scenario e non con l'obiettivo di rendervi felici, ma per manipolarvi e controllarvi in futuro.<\/p>\n

Now you’re wondering, what if he really wants to make you happy? Think again. Does he really want that or does he just want things done his way?<\/p>\n

Vuole che tu conosca subito i suoi genitori<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

Does this seem logical to you? Is it normal for two people who just started dating to meet each other’s family and go to family dinners?<\/p>\n

So per certo che potete ritenervi fortunate se lui fa anche solo il vostro nome dopo il primo appuntamento.<\/p>\n

Usually, when two people start dating, they take things slow and they don\u2019t want to scare the hell out of the person they are dating with mentionings of marrying or having kids.<\/p>\n

Questi argomenti sono fuori discussione per un bel po' di tempo.<\/p>\n

Sembra troppo bello per essere vero<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

My advice to you is to always go with your gut because your gut is not usually wrong. That little inner voice screaming on the inside\u2014LISTEN TO IT!<\/p>\n

Se la situazione vi sembra la sceneggiatura di un film, fate un passo indietro e rallentate le cose.<\/p>\n

Mettetelo sotto sorveglianza e cercate di scoprire le sue reali intenzioni.<\/p>\n

Le persone normali ammettono i loro difetti, non se ne vergognano, mentre gli attentatori all'amore, invece, fanno di tutto per nasconderli.<\/p>\n

Ti fa sentire super speciale<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

You\u2019re being bombed by compliments on an everyday basis? Isn\u2019t that nice? NO, it\u2019s not! It\u2019s false and it\u2019s not normal.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s one thing to say something nice to someone every now and then but bombing them with compliments draws a cloud of suspicion on the whole thing.<\/p>\n

Sembra che la persona si stia sforzando troppo, come se morisse dalla voglia di convincervi di qualcosa.<\/p>\n

Se le sue abitudini, come i continui complimenti, infastidiscono gli altri, probabilmente non sono normali o carine.<\/p>\n

Now that you know what people who love bomb do, be careful and don\u2019t let their dirty, manipulative tricks deceive you.<\/p>\n

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