{"id":33131,"date":"2020-02-18T12:15:47","date_gmt":"2020-02-18T12:15:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=33131"},"modified":"2022-01-21T12:35:44","modified_gmt":"2022-01-21T12:35:44","slug":"ehi-stronzo-smettila-di-comparire-nella-sua-vita-quando-ti-fa-comodo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/ehi-stronzo-smettila-di-comparire-nella-sua-vita-quando-ti-fa-comodo\/","title":{"rendered":"Ehi, stronzo, smettila di comparire nella sua vita quando ti fa comodo"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Per anni questa ragazza ha cercato di dimenticarti sul serio.<\/p>\n<p>She\u2019s been doing everything in her power to continue living her life, as if you were never a part of it, and to make you nothing more than a part of her distant past.<\/p>\n<p>Tuttavia, non \u00e8 mai riuscita a farlo.<\/p>\n<p>Some might even call her crazy for it\u2014after all, she\u2019s been hooked on one guy who obviously didn\u2019t love her back for years.<\/p>\n<p>However, what they don\u2019t know is how you\u2019ve been acting all those years. What nobody knows is that you\u2019ve always been the one who didn\u2019t allow this girl to get over you.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>I don\u2019t know if you have some special radar for this girl but the truth is that you always reappear in her life at the exact moment when she\u2019s ready to let you go, as if you feel that you are about to lose her for good. <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Scompari per mesi e non appena lei si abitua alla tua assenza e non appena finalmente prende una decisione sul lasciarti andare, riappari.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Not only that\u2014<strong>you also drag her into this never-ending circle of her feelings toward you. On to an emotional roller coaster she can\u2019t seem to get off, as much as she tries to.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>The moment this girl starts feeling good about herself, the moment she gets over the fact that you\u2019ll never be the <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/al-ragazzo-che-non-diventera-mai-luomo-che-lei-ha-bisogno-che-sia\/\">uomo che lei ha bisogno che tu sia<\/a> e il momento in cui sta finalmente iniziando a non amarti \u00e8 quello in cui ti presenti nel suo mondo, solo per incasinarlo un po' di pi\u00f9. <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Nel momento in cui il suo cuore inizia a guarire, arrivi tu solo per spezzarlo ancora una volta.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t know why you are doing all of this; maybe you are scared of losing her love, the only thing you are certain about in your life, or you just enjoy playing games but either way, I am begging you\u2014stop.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ve done more than enough to this girl and reappearing in her life whenever you feel like it just to upset her and to make her doubt her decision of letting you go is just making things worse.<\/p>\n<p>The truth is that you don\u2019t love her and never did. You just love being loved by her, you love the idea of someone as special as her taking care of you and you love knowing that you have someone who will never back out on you.<\/p>\n<p>O forse ami il controllo che ovviamente hai su questa ragazza?<\/p>\n<p>Forse hai il bisogno di dimostrare a te stesso che puoi averla quando vuoi perch\u00e9 \u00e8 l'unico modo per sistemare il tuo ego schiacciato?<\/p>\n<p>Forse vai da lei quando tutti gli altri ti abbandonano, solo per sfuggire alla dura realt\u00e0 che nessuno, a parte lei, si preoccupa onestamente per te?<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Either way, the point is the same\u2014you are a selfish asshole who is stringing this girl along. <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Un cretino che pensa a lei come a nient'altro che <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/5-segni-che-sei-solo-conveniente-per-lui\/\">conveniente<\/a> and a douchebag who is taking advantage of this girl\u2019s soft heart.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>However, this is not something you\u2019ll have the opportunity of doing for as long as you please because one of these days, she\u2019ll have had enough.<\/p>\n<p>One of these days, the door you are about to knock on will be forever closed and the number you\u2019ll dial will be out of reach.<\/p>\n<p>One of these days, you\u2019ll have absolutely no control over this girl whatsoever. She\u2019ll cut you off, as if you were never a part of her life and <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/era-tutto-a-posto-ma-non-ti-rivoglio-nella-mia-vita\/\">she\u2019ll never let you back in<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>She\u2019ll stop justifying your shitty moves and making excuses for your toxic behavior. She\u2019ll stop giving you endless second chances and she\u2019ll kick you out of her system for good.<\/p>\n<p>No, she won\u2019t do it to prove her strength against you or to make you chase her more. She\u2019ll do it to break free from this on and off relationship that\u2019s been eating her alive for ages.<\/p>\n<p>When that happens, you\u2019ll see that you are the only one to blame. The moment this girl abandons you will be the moment in which you\u2019ll finally see what you had and what <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/e-per-questo-che-lhai-persa\/\">hai perso<\/a>. And you\u2019ll be sorry.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-33135\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/PINTEREST-2019-02-18T131340.297-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Ehi, stronzo, smettila di comparire nella sua vita quando ti fa comodo\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/PINTEREST-2019-02-18T131340.297-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/PINTEREST-2019-02-18T131340.297-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/PINTEREST-2019-02-18T131340.297.jpg 467w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>For years, this girl has been trying to get over you for real. She\u2019s been doing everything in her power to continue living her life, as if you were never a part of it, and to make you nothing more than a part of her distant past. Nevertheless, this is something she has never succeeded&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":33132,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-33131","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/sebastiaan-stam-711659-unsplash.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/33131","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=33131"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/33131\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/33132"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=33131"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=33131"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=33131"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}