Ho imparato che le persone ti trattano come tu insegni loro a trattarti. Se permettete loro di trattarvi male e di calpestarvi, lo faranno sicuramente.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n![\"giovane](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/young-beautiful-lady-in-a-birch-forest.jpg\")
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So, I stopped making efforts for those who weren’t making any for me.<\/p>\n
I stopped texting and calling those that weren\u2019t making any real effort to be in my life.<\/p>\n
I started investing equally instead. I learned to match people\u2019s efforts.<\/p>\n
Si tratta di reciprocit\u00e0: mi merito tutto il tempo, l'affetto e l'attenzione che continuo a dare agli altri.<\/p>\n
Ho bisogno di qualcuno che mi restituisca tutte queste cose senza sforzo. Qualcuno che mi incontri a met\u00e0 strada.<\/p>\n
I stopped saying \u2018yes\u2019 to get-togethers, ideas, and plans I didn\u2019t want a be a part of.<\/p>\n
I started saying \u2018no\u2019 more often and I realized that it is a very powerful world. It doesn\u2019t need any additional explanations.<\/p>\n
My time is precious and valuable and I choose how I spend it. I don\u2019t want to waste it anymore. I will do nice things for other people but not at my own expense.<\/p>\n
I stopped apologizing for other people\u2019s mistakes.<\/p>\n
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I can\u2019t be the only one to blame, not everything is my fault and I am not responsible for the moods of other people.<\/p>\n
Now, I only take accountability for my own actions. I don\u2019t burden myself with other people\u2019s feelings as much as I used to and I started caring for my own feelings for a change.<\/p>\n
I stopped being \u2018too nice\u2019 because I had been left without a choice, I was tired of feeling unseen and taken for granted and it was the best decision I ever made.<\/p>\n
La mia vita ora comprende solo persone che sono disposte a restituire tanto quanto prendono, persone che mi amano per me e non per quello che posso fare per loro.<\/p>\n
People who appreciate and respect me because I won\u2019t allow anybody to mess me around.<\/p>\n
Sono ancora una brava persona, ma ho smesso di esagerare con l'essere gentile e ho iniziato a vedere il mio valore.<\/p>\n
Ora sono una versione nuova e migliorata della donna gentile che ero prima.<\/p>\n
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There I was again, paying a high price for my niceness, drowning in tears because I had been backstabbed by someone I completely trusted, by someone I had given my best to. The only thing that separated this particular moment from all the similar ones in the past is that this was the last drop…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":122580,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-33171","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/I-Stopped-Being-\u2018Too-Nice-Because-I-Was-Tired-Of-Being-Taken-For-Granted-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/33171","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=33171"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/33171\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/122580"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=33171"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=33171"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=33171"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}
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