{"id":33181,"date":"2019-02-19T12:10:28","date_gmt":"2019-02-19T12:10:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=33181"},"modified":"2021-08-12T09:56:33","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T09:56:33","slug":"4-segnali-rossi-che-indicano-che-la-vostra-relazione-vi-sta-distruggendo-mentalmente","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/4-segnali-rossi-che-indicano-che-la-vostra-relazione-vi-sta-distruggendo-mentalmente\/","title":{"rendered":"4 bandiere rosse che indicano che la vostra relazione vi sta distruggendo mentalmente"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Ogni singola relazione di coppia ogni tanto incontra un momento di difficolt\u00e0. Non \u00e8 un segreto e non \u00e8 nulla che una coppia felice e sana non possa superare.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>A relationship should be your safe place. The place you go to when life knocks you down. The place you go to for comfort, for a genuine smile and a reassuring hug that everything\u2019s going to be okay.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Even when things aren\u2019t running smoothly, you still know there\u2019s no one else you\u2019d go to when you need a loving hug and a sense of belonging.<\/p>\n<p>He\u2019s your safe haven and whatever comes at you, he\u2019s the one you want in your corner.<\/p>\n<p>With that being said, there\u2019s a substantial difference between a healthy relationship that has merely hit a rocky road and one that is toxic, unhealthy and causing you serious self-esteem issues.<\/p>\n<p>Non dovreste mai avere la sensazione che la vostra relazione vi stia prosciugando le energie.<\/p>\n<p>Non dovete mai avere la sensazione che questa persona vi provochi ansia o incertezza.<\/p>\n<p>When you feel exhausted, drained and emotionally exasperated, it\u2019s time to reconsider who you\u2019re spending your time with.<\/p>\n<p><em>Qualunque cosa accada e quanto sia difficile, il vostro partner dovrebbe sempre essere il motivo del vostro sorriso e mai delle vostre lacrime.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Ricordate che.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>If you feel like your relationship is causing you to go into a downward spiral but you are too afraid to come to terms with it, here are the most common signs that typically point out that a relationship is seriously damaging a person\u2019s mental well-being and their self-perception.<\/em><\/p>\n<h2>1. You\u2019re not comfortable openly stating your personal opinions<\/h2>\n<p>Le coppie devono essere aperte, oneste e trasparenti l'una con l'altra. In ogni relazione sana e solida non c'\u00e8 posto per la paura di esprimere qualsiasi tipo di emozione o opinione.<\/p>\n<p>If you feel like you have to walk on eggshells around him and are constantly afraid of how he\u2019s going to react to something, it indicates that something has gone seriously wrong in your relationship.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t let yourself be walked all over. If you can\u2019t be your authentic self with this person, he\u2019s not the guy for you!<\/p>\n<h2>2. Si sente spesso trascurato o non curato<\/h2>\n<p>Il vostro partner dovrebbe essere il vostro principale sistema di supporto. Dovrebbe <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/gli-uomini-veri-ti-amano-con-le-azioni-piu-vere-non-con-le-parole-piu-false\/\">ti amo<\/a> immensely and never let you feel like you\u2019re alone in this relationship.<\/p>\n<p>He\u2019s supposed to make you feel safe!<\/p>\n<p>If you often feel like he doesn\u2019t really pay attention to you, to what you have to say or how you feel, is that really somebody you consider a good romantic partner?<\/p>\n<p>Qualcuno che non si cura delle vostre emozioni?<\/p>\n<p>You know it\u2019s not. If the person who is supposed to inspire you, adore you and reassure you more than anyone is the cause of your loneliness and sadness, you need to get the hell out of there.<\/p>\n<p>You are worthy of love and your feelings matter. Don\u2019t let anyone make you feel otherwise.<\/p>\n<h2>3. Avete la sensazione che lui voglia cambiare la vostra persona<\/h2>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/non-si-deve-mai-cambiare-cio-che-si-e-per-diventare-materiale-da-moglie\/\">Non cambiare mai<\/a> for anyone. There\u2019s only one of you in this world and you are too special to change for a guy who is selfish enough to ask that of you!<\/p>\n<p>If your partner makes you feel like you have to alter any physical aspect of you, your behavior or the way you dress\u2014leave.<\/p>\n<p>He doesn\u2019t love you. He loves his own twisted idea of you.<\/p>\n<p>Arriver\u00e0 l'uomo giusto. E amer\u00e0 ogni singola parte di voi.<\/p>\n<p>Il tuo aspetto, il modo in cui ti comporti e l'energia che possiedi. Si innamorer\u00e0 delle tue stranezze e ti far\u00e0 sentire la ragazza pi\u00f9 bella dentro e fuori.<\/p>\n<p>Finch\u00e9 non arriva quell'uomo, risparmiatevi la sofferenza di uscire con degli stronzi insicuri.<\/p>\n<h2>4. You don\u2019t feel like yourself when you are around him (biggest red flag!)<\/h2>\n<p>Se si chiedesse a qualcuno di <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/friendship\/7-motivi-per-cui-gli-amici-di-lavoro-sono-i-migliori-amici\/\">i vostri migliori amici<\/a> per descriverti, probabilmente direbbero che sei una ragazza straordinaria, aperta, con un cuore d'oro e non un osso cattivo in corpo.<\/p>\n<p>Una ragazza allegra, con il sorriso pi\u00f9 grande sul viso e un'abbondanza di energia positiva.<\/p>\n<p>But when you\u2019re with him, you don\u2019t feel like that girl. Not remotely.<\/p>\n<p>You feel like he is sucking the energy out of you but you\u2019re too scared to admit it.<\/p>\n<p>You feel like a girl who has to fake a smile every single day, just so that he wouldn\u2019t suspect something was wrong.<\/p>\n<p>Ti senti come una ragazza che deve assecondare tutto ci\u00f2 che lui dice, anche se questo ti fa sentire di merda.<\/p>\n<p>Oh and that gorgeous smile you always have on\u2014it\u2019s nowhere to be seen when you\u2019re with him.<\/p>\n<p>This relationship is slowly deteriorating your mental health, you feel like an alien has taken over your body and all you want to do is scream but you\u2019re too afraid to.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Girl, you need to run as far away from this as you can! Relationships are a safe haven, not a place where you feel jaded and alone! He is taking away bits of you and he won\u2019t be satisfied until he has taken everything that makes you so unique.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Per favore, trovate la forza dentro di voi e lasciatelo.<\/p>\n<p>He is destroying you mentally and bit by bit, he is taking away pieces of your soul that you\u2019re never going to get back once he\u2019s done with you.<\/p>\n<p>Nobody should suffer like this in a relationship. I know it\u2019s hard but when things get this serious, it\u2019s clear you have to get out in order to save yourself.<\/p>\n<p>Decidete che siete troppo preziosi e troppo forti per lasciare che questo ragazzo uccida il vostro spirito.<\/p>\n<p>The farther you go from him, the sooner you\u2019re going to start feeling like yourself again.<\/p>\n<p>Liberatevi da questo manipolatore tossico e lasciate che il vostro spirito risplenda tra coloro che vi amano esattamente per quello che siete!<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-33187\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/PINTEREST-2019-02-19T130838.352-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"4 bandiere rosse che indicano che la vostra relazione vi sta distruggendo mentalmente\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/PINTEREST-2019-02-19T130838.352-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/PINTEREST-2019-02-19T130838.352-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/PINTEREST-2019-02-19T130838.352.jpg 467w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Every single relationship is going to hit a rough patch every now and then. That\u2019s no secret and it\u2019s nothing that a happy, healthy couple can\u2019t overcome. A relationship should be your safe place. The place you go to when life knocks you down. The place you go to for comfort, for a genuine smile&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":33185,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29625],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-33181","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-toxic-relationship"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29625,"label":"toxic relationship"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/jd-mason-508076-unsplash-1.jpg",800,600,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29625,"name":"toxic relationship","slug":"toxic-relationship","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29625,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Are you in a toxic relationship without even knowing it? 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