{"id":33186,"date":"2020-07-19T12:14:21","date_gmt":"2020-07-19T12:14:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=33186"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:23:39","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:23:39","slug":"5-cose-da-fare-quando-lui-si-allontana","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/5-cose-da-fare-quando-lui-si-allontana\/","title":{"rendered":"5 cose da fare quando lui si allontana"},"content":{"rendered":"

Vi innamorate. Vi sentite al settimo cielo. Non pensate pi\u00f9 ai vostri problemi.<\/p>\n

Avete i vostri occhiali rosa e l'unica cosa a cui pensate \u00e8 lui.<\/p>\n

Then, in the blink of an eye, you start feeling something that you haven\u2019t felt before. You feel that your man isn\u2019t the as same as before and you can\u2019t shake off that ugly feeling.<\/p>\n

Vi suona familiare? Ebbene, questo \u00e8 ci\u00f2 che accade in molte relazioni e le donne di tutto il mondo morirebbero per ascoltare un consiglio che possa aiutarle a risolvere questo problema.<\/p>\n

Quindi, se il tuo uomo<\/a> \u00e8 uno di quelli che ha smesso di riempirti di attenzioni e tu ti senti uno schifo per questo, ecco cosa puoi fare:<\/p>\n

Lasciatelo in pace per un po' di tempo<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

La cosa peggiore che potete fare \u00e8 spingerlo a dirvi cosa gli sta succedendo.<\/p>\n

In questo modo, non farete altro che peggiorare la situazione. Invece, lasciatelo in pace. S\u00ec, avete sentito bene.<\/p>\n

Leave him alone so he can think about his life and the things he wants. Don\u2019t affect him in any way. Don\u2019t call him, don\u2019t text him and what is most important is to not see him if he is not ready for that.<\/p>\n

Una volta trascorso un po' di tempo da solo, sar\u00e0 sicuro se vuole stare con voi o se vuole continuare la sua vita senza di voi.<\/p>\n

The thing is that you actually can\u2019t affect his decision so it is better if you leave him alone because he knows the best for himself.<\/p>\n

Quando torna, comportatevi come un amico, non come un nemico.<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

\u00c8 vero che non siete colpevoli delle cose che gli accadono, ma come sua anima gemella dovete essere con lui nei momenti belli e in quelli brutti. Soprattutto in quelli brutti.<\/p>\n

So, if something like this has happened to him, don\u2019t jump to conclusions but be smart about it.<\/p>\n

You won\u2019t get anything if you talk to him like an enemy. Instead, talk to him like a friend and tell him that you understand that he was going through some crisis but that you wanted to help him as well.<\/p>\n

In questo modo, sapr\u00e0 di poter contare su di voi la prossima volta che gli capiter\u00e0 qualcosa di brutto.<\/p>\n

Once he gets back to \u2018normal mode\u2019, ask him why he did it<\/h2>\n

\"Foto<\/p>\n

Quando il vostro uomo decide che siete voi la persona con cui vuole stare, dovete chiedergli perch\u00e9 lo ha fatto.<\/p>\n

Lei merita di conoscere le risposte e dovrebbe ottenerle. Sei tu che sei rimasta a chiederti perch\u00e9 l'abbia fatto e come puoi aiutarlo.<\/p>\n

Sei tu che hai passato notti insonni, fissando uno schermo vuoto<\/a> and hoping he would call. I am not saying he didn\u2019t suffer but you suffered as well, especially since you didn\u2019t know what had happened.<\/p>\n

So, you have every right to ask him why he did it and why he didn\u2019t allow you to help him.<\/p>\n

If he loves you, he will be open about everything and if he tells you he doesn\u2019t want to talk about it, you should think twice about if you want to be with a man who can\u2019t trust you.<\/p>\n

Ricordate che avete una vita, anche se lui non c'\u00e8.<\/h2>\n

\"Giovane<\/p>\n

If your man decided to pull away, that doesn\u2019t mean that you need to focus on him only.<\/p>\n

Concentratevi su voi stessi e sulla vostra vita, soprattutto se non siete sicuri che lui torner\u00e0 mai.<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t lose sleep over a man who doesn\u2019t want you to know anything about him. You can\u2019t help him if he doesn\u2019t allow you to do that. Be patient enough and live your life normally.<\/p>\n

Se torna, potete parlare di quello che \u00e8 successo con lui e decidere se c'\u00e8 un futuro insieme. Ogni problema pu\u00f2 essere risolto se c'\u00e8 la volont\u00e0 di farlo.<\/p>\n

So, in the end, it is up to him whether he will come back or he won\u2019t and it is up to you whether you will cry yourself to sleep every night or you will live the life you will be proud of.<\/p>\n

Metti sempre te stessa al primo posto, non importa quanto lo ami.<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

\u00c8 brutto quando il vostro uomo si allontana, ma questo non \u00e8 un motivo per smettere di preoccuparsi di qualsiasi cosa.<\/p>\n

Dovresti sempre mettere te stessa al primo posto, indipendentemente da quanto lo ami.<\/p>\n

It is okay to help him if he wants it but being worried about someone who isn\u2019t sure about you is not a good idea.<\/p>\n

You will just end up being hurt in that way and, trust me, you don\u2019t want that to happen.<\/p>\n

Se ha dei problemi, cercate di stargli vicino se ve lo permette. Cos\u00ec facendo, gli dimostrate che lo amate e che pu\u00f2 sempre contare su di voi.<\/p>\n

Ma se ha intenzione di farlo di tanto in tanto, you shouldn\u2019t put up with it<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Dovresti prenderti cura di te stessa quando non \u00e8 lui a farlo.<\/p>\n

Dovete essere voi la ragione della vostra felicit\u00e0 e non lui. Solo quando ve ne renderete conto, sarete davvero felici.<\/p>\n

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