{"id":33190,"date":"2020-08-19T12:27:03","date_gmt":"2020-08-19T12:27:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=33190"},"modified":"2021-08-11T11:39:12","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T11:39:12","slug":"non-scambiate-mai-il-silenzio-di-una-donna-per-debolezza","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/non-scambiate-mai-il-silenzio-di-una-donna-per-debolezza\/","title":{"rendered":"Mai scambiare il silenzio di una donna per debolezza"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>\u2018Silence speaks volumes\u2019.<\/em> Let\u2019s absorb this good old saying and think about it for a second.<\/p>\n<p>Il silenzio parla chiaro significa sostanzialmente dire molto non dicendo nulla. Ma quando si tratta di donne, la societ\u00e0 e soprattutto gli uomini ne hanno sempre avuto una connotazione sbagliata.<\/p>\n<p>Si pensa che se una donna \u00e8 silenziosa, \u00e8 debole o sottomessa. Ma la verit\u00e0 \u00e8 ben diversa!<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Se una donna tace, significa che \u00e8 stata troppo forte per troppo tempo.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>It means she has been fighting hard for too long but you didn\u2019t notice it because you were probably too busy focusing on yourself.<\/p>\n<p>Devi sapere che una donna <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/se-dovete-rinunciare-a-queste-cose-per-lui-non-e-lui-quello-giusto\/\">non si arrende mai<\/a> cos\u00ec facilmente. Combatte per la sua felicit\u00e0 e per quella delle persone che ama e in cui crede.<\/p>\n<p>And if all of a sudden she becomes silent, it means she realized that there\u2019s no point in fighting anymore because she has been neglecting her own happiness for the sake of others. A woman never chooses to be silent.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-111086 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/a-woman-draws-by-the-window.jpg\" alt=\"una donna disegna vicino alla finestra\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/a-woman-draws-by-the-window.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/a-woman-draws-by-the-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/a-woman-draws-by-the-window-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/a-woman-draws-by-the-window-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/a-woman-draws-by-the-window-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/a-woman-draws-by-the-window-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/a-woman-draws-by-the-window-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/a-woman-draws-by-the-window-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>La sua mancanza di parole \u00e8 la conseguenza del fatto che non \u00e8 stata ricambiata e non \u00e8 stata trattata come merita.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Una donna diventa silenziosa quando si danno per scontate le sue parole.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Una donna diventa silenziosa quando la si rende triste.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Una donna diventa silenziosa quando vede che non cambier\u00e0 nulla.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Una donna non si arrende mai cos\u00ec facilmente. Con ogni suo sorriso, vi incoraggia a cambiare. Con ogni suo perdono, vi sta dando un'altra possibilit\u00e0.<\/p>\n<p>With her every nice word, she is showing you that she cares. And when none of it is reciprocated\u2014she becomes silent.<\/p>\n<p>Il suo silenzio non \u00e8 un segno di debolezza. Essere deboli significa arrendersi al primo ostacolo. Essere deboli significa trattare gli altri come merda e fregarsene di come si sentono. Essere deboli significa non provare nemmeno a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/family\/5-motivi-per-cui-avere-una-sorella-ti-rende-una-persona-migliore\/\">diventare una persona migliore<\/a>. And she\u2019s not any of this.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>A woman\u2019s compassion and tolerance are not signs of weakness but signs of strength.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-111087 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/an-imaginary-woman-sitting-on-a-bench.jpg\" alt=\"una donna immaginaria seduta su una panchina\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/an-imaginary-woman-sitting-on-a-bench.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/an-imaginary-woman-sitting-on-a-bench-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/an-imaginary-woman-sitting-on-a-bench-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/an-imaginary-woman-sitting-on-a-bench-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/an-imaginary-woman-sitting-on-a-bench-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/an-imaginary-woman-sitting-on-a-bench-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/an-imaginary-woman-sitting-on-a-bench-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/an-imaginary-woman-sitting-on-a-bench-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ci vuole molta forza per scegliere di stare in silenzio quando si ha molto da dire. Ci vuole molta forza per continuare a mostrare compassione di fronte ai maltrattamenti. Ci vuole molta forza per continuare a vedere il buono negli altri dopo molteplici delusioni.<\/p>\n<p>And women do all of that. They are compassionate and tolerant even when they shouldn\u2019t be because they believe in their dreams. They believe that they can change things even when it seems impossible to do so. So, don\u2019t you dare call them weak!<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Se una donna non \u00e8 in grado di pronunciare una parola, significa che tutta la sua forza \u00e8 sostituita dal silenzio.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Significa che ha deciso di conservare le sue parole per qualcun altro che sar\u00e0 pronto ad ascoltarle. Significa che ha deciso di conservare il suo cuore per qualcun altro che ne sar\u00e0 degno. Ha deciso di lottare per la propria felicit\u00e0.<\/p>\n<p>E quando una donna decide di farlo, non pu\u00f2 pi\u00f9 tornare indietro. Non si pente mai delle sue decisioni perch\u00e9 sa che per tutto questo tempo \u00e8 stata una combattente e che ora \u00e8 il momento di riorientare la sua forza verso se stessa.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Never mistake a woman\u2019s silence for ignorance.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>\u00c8 consapevole di tutto ci\u00f2 che gli altri hanno fatto per lei e non lo dimentica mai. Non dimentica mai il bene e il male. A ogni parola gentile, risponde in modo ancora pi\u00f9 gentile. A ogni parola cattiva, risponde con un sorriso.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-111088 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/the-woman-stands-with-her-eyes-closed.jpg\" alt=\"la donna sta in piedi con gli occhi chiusi\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/the-woman-stands-with-her-eyes-closed.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/the-woman-stands-with-her-eyes-closed-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/the-woman-stands-with-her-eyes-closed-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/the-woman-stands-with-her-eyes-closed-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/the-woman-stands-with-her-eyes-closed-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/the-woman-stands-with-her-eyes-closed-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/the-woman-stands-with-her-eyes-closed-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/the-woman-stands-with-her-eyes-closed-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>E sapete perch\u00e9?<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Perch\u00e9 crede che le cose buone arrivano a chi crede, a chi aspetta e a chi \u00e8 paziente. \u00c8 consapevole di tutti i maltrattamenti, le bugie, la mancanza di rispetto e l'inganno, ma continua a rispondere con il silenzio. E sapete perch\u00e9?<\/p>\n<p>Because no words can explain the battle that\u2019s going on in her heart and mind. Her silence is not a sign of weakness.<\/p>\n<p>Una donna diventa silenziosa quando smette di credere, di aspettare e di essere paziente per coloro che possono ascoltarla ma non sono disposti a capirla.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-111085 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/Never-Mistake-A-Womans-Silence-For-Weakness-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Mai scambiare il silenzio di una donna per debolezza\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/Never-Mistake-A-Womans-Silence-For-Weakness-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/Never-Mistake-A-Womans-Silence-For-Weakness-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/Never-Mistake-A-Womans-Silence-For-Weakness-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/Never-Mistake-A-Womans-Silence-For-Weakness-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/Never-Mistake-A-Womans-Silence-For-Weakness-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u2018Silence speaks volumes\u2019. Let\u2019s absorb this good old saying and think about it for a second. Silence speaks volumes basically means saying a lot by saying nothing. But when it comes to women, society and especially men have all this time had the wrong connotation of it. They think if a woman is being silent,&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":56,"featured_media":111083,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29639],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-33190","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-women"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29639,"label":"understanding women"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/Never-Mistake-A-Womans-Silence-For-Weakness-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Katie Burns","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/katie\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29639,"name":"understanding women","slug":"understanding-women","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29639,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Women are not that complicated once you learn to understand them, seduce them and treat them the way they deserve. 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