{"id":33221,"date":"2020-10-19T13:52:32","date_gmt":"2020-10-19T13:52:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=33221"},"modified":"2022-02-23T10:57:51","modified_gmt":"2022-02-23T10:57:51","slug":"5-cose-che-possono-riguardare-tutte-le-ragazze-che-nascondono-il-proprio-dolore","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/5-cose-che-possono-riguardare-tutte-le-ragazze-che-nascondono-il-proprio-dolore\/","title":{"rendered":"5 cose che tutte le ragazze che nascondono il proprio dolore possono condividere"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>They say that the strongest souls suffer in silence. They are the ones who don\u2019t want to burden others with their problems and the ones who go through life by themselves.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/alla-ragazza-che-non-chiede-mai-aiuto\/\">Quelli che non chiedono mai aiuto<\/a> e quelli che di solito appaiono pi\u00f9 felici all'esterno mentre in realt\u00e0 stanno cadendo a pezzi.<\/p>\n<p>Se queste sono le cose che potete collegare a voi stessi, significa che siete nel posto giusto, perch\u00e9 state per leggere 5 cose con cui quasi tutti coloro che nascondono il proprio dolore agli altri possono relazionarsi.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">A volte si nascondono i propri sentimenti anche a se stessi<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-123260\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/Woman-looking-away56.jpg\" alt=\"Donna che distoglie lo sguardo\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/Woman-looking-away56.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/Woman-looking-away56-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/Woman-looking-away56-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/Woman-looking-away56-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/Woman-looking-away56-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/Woman-looking-away56-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/Woman-looking-away56-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/Woman-looking-away56-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ve worn the mask of a tough girl for so long that somehow it became a part of who you are.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ve been pretending to be heartless for so long that eventually, you forgot you have a heart at all.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ve been lying to people that you are OK for so long that you\u2019ve started believing it as well, even though deep down, you know it couldn\u2019t be further from the truth.<\/p>\n<p>The truth is that there are times when your pain reaches such huge intensity that you can\u2019t even stand facing it yourself, let alone sharing it with someone else.<\/p>\n<p>Even though that is something you shouldn\u2019t be doing, with time you\u2019ve learned that the only thing that brings you at least temporary relief is pretending that the suffering you are feeling is non-existent.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Hai paura<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-123261\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/woman-wearing-stylish-eyeglasses.jpg\" alt=\"donna che indossa occhiali da vista alla moda\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/woman-wearing-stylish-eyeglasses.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/woman-wearing-stylish-eyeglasses-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/woman-wearing-stylish-eyeglasses-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/woman-wearing-stylish-eyeglasses-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/woman-wearing-stylish-eyeglasses-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/woman-wearing-stylish-eyeglasses-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/woman-wearing-stylish-eyeglasses-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/woman-wearing-stylish-eyeglasses-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Anche se questa \u00e8 l'ultima cosa che ammettereste anche a voi stessi, la verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che nel profondo siete spaventati fino alle ossa.<\/p>\n<p>You keep wondering how much you\u2019ll be able to take and for how long.<\/p>\n<p>Avete paura di avere il cuore spezzato un'altra volta e di passare di nuovo attraverso lo stesso dolore emotivo.<\/p>\n<p>Paura di far entrare nuove persone e paura di prendere giudizi e decisioni sbagliate.<\/p>\n<p>At the same time, you are also scared of someone coming and tearing down the walls you\u2019ve been building so carefully.<\/p>\n<p>Paura di essere emotivamente e mentalmente nudi di fronte a un'altra persona, chiunque essa sia.<\/p>\n<p>Paura di esporre le proprie vulnerabilit\u00e0 e di mostrare i propri lati deboli agli altri.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Sei l'eroe di te stesso<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-123258\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/sad-girl-sitting-on-the-coast-on-beach.jpg\" alt=\"ragazza triste seduta sulla costa sulla spiaggia\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/sad-girl-sitting-on-the-coast-on-beach.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/sad-girl-sitting-on-the-coast-on-beach-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/sad-girl-sitting-on-the-coast-on-beach-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/sad-girl-sitting-on-the-coast-on-beach-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/sad-girl-sitting-on-the-coast-on-beach-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/sad-girl-sitting-on-the-coast-on-beach-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/sad-girl-sitting-on-the-coast-on-beach-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/sad-girl-sitting-on-the-coast-on-beach-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Nascondere il proprio dolore al resto del mondo ha fatto s\u00ec che ci si aspettasse di meno dalle persone.<\/p>\n<p>It made you believe that there doesn\u2019t exist a person in your life whom you can always count on or someone you can rely on one hundred percent.<\/p>\n<p>Invece, hai preso in mano la situazione e sei diventato il tuo eroe. Siete diventati il vostro salvatore, il vento sotto le vostre ali, il vostro fan numero uno e il vostro angelo custode.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ve realized that nobody has the ability to get inside your head with a magic wand which will resolve all of your problems in an instant.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c8 lei che deve combattere le proprie battaglie e fare del suo meglio per scacciare i propri demoni prima di aspettarsi che lo faccia qualcun altro.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Vi aspettate di andare in frantumi ogni giorno<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-123263\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/woman-looking-away-at-window-sitting-on-couch-at-home.jpg\" alt=\"donna che guarda la finestra seduta sul divano di casa\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/woman-looking-away-at-window-sitting-on-couch-at-home.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/woman-looking-away-at-window-sitting-on-couch-at-home-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/woman-looking-away-at-window-sitting-on-couch-at-home-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/woman-looking-away-at-window-sitting-on-couch-at-home-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/woman-looking-away-at-window-sitting-on-couch-at-home-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/woman-looking-away-at-window-sitting-on-couch-at-home-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/woman-looking-away-at-window-sitting-on-couch-at-home-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/woman-looking-away-at-window-sitting-on-couch-at-home-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>When you come to think of it, lately, it\u2019s been like you are losing faith in yourself.<\/p>\n<p>You keep expecting to shatter into a million pieces and you see every new day that comes as the day in which you\u2019ll reach your breaking point\u2014as the day in which <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/5-cose-che-ti-mancheranno-di-piu-di-lei-una-volta-che-ne-avra-abbastanza\/\">you\u2019ll have had enough<\/a><\/span> and as the day in which you\u2019ll break beyond the possibility of reparation.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Ma voi continuate ad andare avanti perch\u00e9 siete pi\u00f9 forti di cos\u00ec.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-123259\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/businesswoman-sitting-on-back-seat-of-a-car.jpg\" alt=\"Donna d&#039;affari seduta sul sedile posteriore di un&#039;automobile \" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/businesswoman-sitting-on-back-seat-of-a-car.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/businesswoman-sitting-on-back-seat-of-a-car-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/businesswoman-sitting-on-back-seat-of-a-car-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/businesswoman-sitting-on-back-seat-of-a-car-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/businesswoman-sitting-on-back-seat-of-a-car-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/businesswoman-sitting-on-back-seat-of-a-car-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/businesswoman-sitting-on-back-seat-of-a-car-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/businesswoman-sitting-on-back-seat-of-a-car-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Tuttavia, in qualche modo, non sta accadendo nulla di tutto ci\u00f2. In qualche modo, ce la fate sempre e trovate sempre un modo per risorgere dalle ceneri del vostro cuore spezzato.<\/p>\n<p>In un modo o nell'altro, si va sempre avanti, nonostante il dolore che si prova.<\/p>\n<p>Sapete perch\u00e9 \u00e8 cos\u00ec? Perch\u00e9 siete molto pi\u00f9 forti di quanto possiate immaginare. Voi stessi non siete nemmeno consapevoli di tutto il potere che avete dentro.<\/p>\n<p>You are obviously not aware of the fact that you are actually a badass who always comes out as a winner in all life battles. And the biggest proof of this is the fact that you still haven\u2019t given up on yourself.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-123255\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/5-Things-Every-Girl-Who-Is-Hiding-Her-Pain-Can-Relate-To-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"5 cose che tutte le ragazze che nascondono il proprio dolore possono condividere\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/5-Things-Every-Girl-Who-Is-Hiding-Her-Pain-Can-Relate-To-pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/5-Things-Every-Girl-Who-Is-Hiding-Her-Pain-Can-Relate-To-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/5-Things-Every-Girl-Who-Is-Hiding-Her-Pain-Can-Relate-To-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>They say that the strongest souls suffer in silence. They are the ones who don\u2019t want to burden others with their problems and the ones who go through life by themselves. The ones who never ask for help and the ones who usually appear to be the happiest on the outside while they are actually&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":123262,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29636],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-33221","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-help"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29636,"label":"self help"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/5-Things-Every-Girl-Who-Is-Hiding-Her-Pain-Can-Relate-To-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29636,"name":"self help","slug":"self-help","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29636,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Whenever you feel lost or hurt in love and life, these self-help tips will help you overcome challenges and make you feel better instantly.","parent":22911,"count":316,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29636,"category_count":316,"category_description":"Whenever you feel lost or hurt in love and life, these self-help tips will help you overcome challenges and make you feel better instantly.","cat_name":"self help","category_nicename":"self-help","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/33221","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/20"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=33221"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/33221\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/123262"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=33221"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=33221"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=33221"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}