{"id":3328,"date":"2017-08-11T07:45:31","date_gmt":"2017-08-11T07:45:31","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=3328"},"modified":"2021-08-12T13:17:23","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T13:17:23","slug":"ad-ogni-ragazza-di-innamorarsi-prima-di-tutto-di-se-stessa","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/ad-ogni-ragazza-di-innamorarsi-prima-di-tutto-di-se-stessa\/","title":{"rendered":"A tutte le ragazze: Innamorati prima di tutto di te stessa"},"content":{"rendered":"

This one is for every girl who has ever wanted fairy tale love. I’m sure you’ve heard things like “that doesn’t exist in the real world” or “chivalry is dead”. But I am here today to tell you that what you\u2019ve heard isn\u2019t true.  However, here’s the tricky part: It doesn\u2019t come from a man in the castle and it most definitely does not come from \u201clove at first sight\u201d. True love will only be found within yourself. <\/span><\/p>\n

Tutti attraversano una fase della vita in cui si sentono persi o come se mancasse qualcosa. Forse la state attraversando ancora oggi. Di conseguenza, ti ritrovi a rincorrere le persone<\/a> who surely don\u2019t give a damn about you or numbing your pain with things you never said you would. <\/span><\/p>\n

That\u2019s the problem though\u2014as much as you try to numb the symptoms, you are doing nothing to cure the cause. We feel so low that we chase the highs in other people\/substances\/materials. But how can we look for a love we have yet to find? Or a feeling we have yet to feel?<\/span><\/p>\n

When you sit there and ask yourself, \u201cIf I were to be given a love so deep, what would it look like?\u201d, you often start to visualize emotions and materials a person can give you. You forget about the love you are already receiving and about the love you can give yourself. You know you are capable of giving someone the world but you forget to give it to yourself. <\/span><\/p>\n

Smettete di dare via queste parti di voi stessi. \u00c8 molto pi\u00f9 semplice di quanto pensiate. L'avrete sentito dire tonnellate di volte, ma ve lo ripeter\u00f2 ancora una volta. Cambiate la vostra mente e cambierete la vostra vita. Tagliate completamente fuori chiunque vi faccia sentire meno voi stessi. <\/span><\/p>\n

Se siete costantemente in fase di assestamento<\/a> for people who lower your worth, you will never make time for those who truly value the person you are meant to be and will blossom into. Just remember you don\u2019t need anyone who doesn\u2019t need you!<\/span><\/p>\n

Smettete di aspettare che qualcuno arrivi e vi porti a fare tutte le cose che avete sempre desiderato. Siete integri e siete assolutamente in grado di fare cose straordinarie in compagnia di voi stessi. Smettete di aspettare che qualcuno vi dica quanto siete meravigliosi e quanto vi adori.<\/span><\/p>\n

Vedi anche:<\/strong> Una lettera a chi sta ancora aspettando che l'amore entri nella sua vita<\/a><\/p>\n

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\"Giovane<\/p>\n

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Today, I challenge you!\u2014Wake up, wash your face, look yourself straight in the eye, and give yourself a compliment. And if that seems a little too easy, I challenge you to do this every day. Tell yourself everything you want to hear from someone else. I promise you there will be no better feeling than the one you will receive.<\/span><\/p>\n

Forget about what people think of you! If there is one thing I have learned within the process of loving myself, it is that in order to love yourself, we CAN NOT\u2014and I repeat, CAN NOT\u2014listen to anybody else\u2019s perception of you. <\/span><\/p>\n

You are not what people think you are\u2014you are what YOU think you are. You are not what people make yourself to be\u2014the ways of you are written in your heart and actions. And if you don\u2019t feel too good about yourself, there is the issue in itself. But it can surely be taken care of with a few words of motivation from yourself. <\/span><\/p>\n

Last but not least, take care and forgive yourself. I know it may sound a little on the \u201cI\u2019ve heard it all before side\u201d but that\u2019s because it is. We just choose not to ever listen, or maybe we don\u2019t know the way to go about it. Forgive yourself in the smallest ways. \u201cI forgive myself for making myself believe I am less than I truly am\u201d or \u201c I forgive myself for not watching what I put in my body\u201d. <\/span><\/p>\n

In doing so, we release ourselves of the heavy burdens we carry around trying to be perfect. Let\u2019s face it\u2014we are humans and none of us are perfect. Therefore, we might as well accept ourselves the way we are, forgive ourselves for past mistakes, and keep loving ourselves regardless. The process of this will truly lead to abundance and self prosperity.<\/span><\/p>\n

Fate il primo passo del cambiamento per amare voi stessi. Don\u2019t rely your happiness on other people.<\/a> Oggi \u00e8 il giorno in cui vi svegliate e vi rendete conto di avere la capacit\u00e0 di fare assolutamente tutto ci\u00f2 che desiderate. Iniziate con poco e ricordate sempre <\/span>sono i pi\u00f9 piccoli cambiamenti all'interno di noi stessi che attireranno i pi\u00f9 grandi cambiamenti nella nostra vita.  <\/b><\/p>\n

Vedi anche: <\/strong>4 motivi per cui \u00e8 necessario imparare ad amare se stessi<\/a><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

This one is for every girl who has ever wanted fairy tale love. I’m sure you’ve heard things like “that doesn’t exist in the real world” or “chivalry is dead”. But I am here today to tell you that what you\u2019ve heard isn\u2019t true.  However, here’s the tricky part: It doesn\u2019t come from a man…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":3465,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29644],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3328","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29644,"label":"self-love"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/ariel-lustre-242326-1.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29644,"name":"self-love","slug":"self-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29644,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. Boost your self-confidence, learn to love yourself and ditch toxicity because you deserve to be happy.","parent":29643,"count":290,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29644,"category_count":290,"category_description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. Boost your self-confidence, learn to love yourself and ditch toxicity because you deserve to be happy.","cat_name":"self-love","category_nicename":"self-love","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3328","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/22"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3328"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3328\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/3465"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3328"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3328"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3328"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}