{"id":33290,"date":"2020-09-20T10:28:18","date_gmt":"2020-09-20T10:28:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=33290"},"modified":"2022-01-14T11:28:27","modified_gmt":"2022-01-14T11:28:27","slug":"le-ragazze-cercano-di-cambiare-gli-uomini-le-donne-cambiano-solo-direzione","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/le-ragazze-cercano-di-cambiare-gli-uomini-le-donne-cambiano-solo-direzione\/","title":{"rendered":"Le ragazze cercano di cambiare gli uomini, le donne cambiano solo direzione"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Ci sono molte differenze tra una ragazza e una donna.<\/p>\n<p>One of them lies in the fact that when a girl loves a guy, she\u2019ll do everything in her power to make him better and to transform him into the man of her dreams.<\/p>\n<p>Somehow, she\u2019ll always find a way to justify his behavior and excuse him so she can keep on loving him.<\/p>\n<p>She\u2019ll keep on giving him endless second chances, all in the hope that he\u2019ll finally become the man of her dreams.<\/p>\n<p>Of course, eventually, after wasting years on a guy who can\u2019t be repaired, this girl sees that all of her efforts were in vain.<\/p>\n<p>Si rende conto di essere stata una sciocca ad aspettare un cambiamento che non sarebbe mai arrivato e alla fine rinuncia a quest'uomo, con il cuore in frantumi.<\/p>\n<p>On the other hand, real women don\u2019t do this. They know what they want and don\u2019t plan on lowering their standards for anyone.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-118269 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/the-blonde-leaves-the-sad-man.jpg\" alt=\"la bionda lascia l&#039;uomo triste\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/the-blonde-leaves-the-sad-man.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/the-blonde-leaves-the-sad-man-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/the-blonde-leaves-the-sad-man-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/the-blonde-leaves-the-sad-man-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/the-blonde-leaves-the-sad-man-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/the-blonde-leaves-the-sad-man-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/the-blonde-leaves-the-sad-man-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/the-blonde-leaves-the-sad-man-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Un vero e proprio <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/la-donna-forte-si-allontana\/\">la donna si allontana<\/a> the moment she isn\u2019t treated right or the moment she realizes her relationship with someone doesn\u2019t have a future.<\/p>\n<p>She isn\u2019t ready to spend years of her life next to a man who she knows is wrong for her and she\u2019ll always remain single until the right one comes along.<\/p>\n<p>Vedete, l'unico ragazzo che avr\u00e0 il privilegio di essere cresciuto da questa donna \u00e8 suo figlio.<\/p>\n<p>She\u2019ll never waste years of her life trying to transform some immature guy into the grown ass man he should be by himself, simply because she knows something like this is not her duty.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Sa bene che non deve pensare che il suo compito sia quello di guidarvi nella vita o di essere il vostro angelo custode in missione per salvarvi. <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Sa che non \u00e8 suo dovere essere la tua mamma o aggiustare ci\u00f2 che altre ragazze del tuo passato hanno rotto. <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Non \u00e8 suo dovere insegnarvi a vivere, aiutarvi a imparare la differenza tra giusto e sbagliato o trasformarvi in qualcosa che ovviamente non siete e che non sapete di dover essere.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-118274 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/a-loving-couple-arguing-in-the-house.jpg\" alt=\"una coppia di innamorati che litiga in casa\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/a-loving-couple-arguing-in-the-house.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/a-loving-couple-arguing-in-the-house-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/a-loving-couple-arguing-in-the-house-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/a-loving-couple-arguing-in-the-house-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/a-loving-couple-arguing-in-the-house-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/a-loving-couple-arguing-in-the-house-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/a-loving-couple-arguing-in-the-house-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/a-loving-couple-arguing-in-the-house-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t get me wrong\u2014this in no way means that a woman like this treats her partner like she couldn\u2019t care less about him.<\/p>\n<p>No, lei vi dar\u00e0 tutto il sostegno di cui avete bisogno, vi spinger\u00e0 avanti e sar\u00e0 il vento sotto le vostre ali se vedr\u00e0 che siete degni dei suoi sforzi e che siete un uomo che la merita.<\/p>\n<p>Tuttavia, l'ultima cosa <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/i-motivi-per-cui-sei-infelice-in-amore\/\">she\u2019ll do is fall for your potential.<\/a> She won\u2019t love all the qualities you might have and she most certainly won\u2019t fall in love with the man you might become.<\/p>\n<p>You see, she worked hard to become the woman she is today. She is a finished product and she won\u2019t settle for a man who is any less than that.<\/p>\n<p>L'ultima cosa che questa donna intende fare \u00e8 sprecare le sue energie per modificarvi.<\/p>\n<p>Sa di avere molto pi\u00f9 valore che dedicare tutta la sua vita a un ragazzo che ha bisogno della sua guida nella vita.<\/p>\n<p>Instead, she\u2019ll look for a relationship in which both of you can improve and help each other become better.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-118276 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/a-happy-loving-couple-having-fun-in-nature.jpg\" alt=\"una coppia felice e innamorata che si diverte nella natura\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/a-happy-loving-couple-having-fun-in-nature.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/a-happy-loving-couple-having-fun-in-nature-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/a-happy-loving-couple-having-fun-in-nature-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/a-happy-loving-couple-having-fun-in-nature-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/a-happy-loving-couple-having-fun-in-nature-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/a-happy-loving-couple-having-fun-in-nature-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/a-happy-loving-couple-having-fun-in-nature-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/a-happy-loving-couple-having-fun-in-nature-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>What she wants and needs is an equal partner\u2014a man who will have the capacity to give her back all he\u2019s getting from her.<\/p>\n<p>Un uomo che abbia la forza di affrontare la vita spalla a spalla con lei, un compagno di squadra e un partner nel crimine.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Quindi, se vi aspettate che una donna come lei aspetti pazientemente che voi diventiate l'uomo di cui ha bisogno, ripensateci.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em><strong> If you expect her to wait for you to come to your senses and get your shit together, walk away in time because trust me\u2014you don\u2019t stand a chance with her.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Attenzione al fatto che questa donna sa che il suo <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/il-vostro-amore-non-puo-cambiare-un-uomo-finche-non-decide-di-farlo-lui-stesso\/\">love can\u2019t change a man<\/a> until he decides to do so himself so she won\u2019t even try doing it.<\/p>\n<p>Instead, she\u2019d rather focus all of her energy into working on herself and becoming the best possible version of herself.<\/p>\n<p>Instead of loving someone unworthy of her love, she\u2019d rather love herself.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-118277 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/Girls-Try-To-Change-Men-Women-Just-Change-Direction-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Le ragazze cercano di cambiare gli uomini, le donne cambiano solo direzione\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/Girls-Try-To-Change-Men-Women-Just-Change-Direction-Pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/Girls-Try-To-Change-Men-Women-Just-Change-Direction-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/Girls-Try-To-Change-Men-Women-Just-Change-Direction-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/Girls-Try-To-Change-Men-Women-Just-Change-Direction-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/Girls-Try-To-Change-Men-Women-Just-Change-Direction-Pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>There are many differences between a girl and a woman. One of them lies in the fact that when a girl loves a guy, she\u2019ll do everything in her power to make him better and to transform him into the man of her dreams. Somehow, she\u2019ll always find a way to justify his behavior and&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":118268,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29644],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-33290","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29644,"label":"self-love"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/Girls-Try-To-Change-Men-Women-Just-Change-Direction-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29644,"name":"self-love","slug":"self-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29644,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. 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