{"id":33301,"date":"2019-02-20T10:39:34","date_gmt":"2019-02-20T10:39:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=33301"},"modified":"2022-02-27T02:10:17","modified_gmt":"2022-02-27T02:10:17","slug":"se-fosse-stato-quello-giusto-sarebbe-rimasto","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/se-fosse-stato-quello-giusto-sarebbe-rimasto\/","title":{"rendered":"Se fosse stato quello giusto, sarebbe rimasto"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>For as long as you can remember, you\u2019ve been someone who believed in love. You\u2019ve been a girl who was looking for real romance and a happy ending in all of your relationships.<\/p>\n<p>Non sei mai stato interessato a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/non-sprecare-il-suo-tempo-se-stai-cercando-qualcosa-di-temporaneo\/\">qualcosa di temporaneo<\/a> e non hai mai cercato un uomo solo per divertirti.<\/p>\n<p>Le relazioni insignificanti e le scappatelle occasionali non fanno per voi.<\/p>\n<p>Invece, tutto ci\u00f2 che hai sempre voluto \u00e8 trovare <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/la-persona-giusta-vi-amera-per-tutte-le-cose-per-cui-quella-sbagliata-vi-ha-lasciato\/\">l'uomo giusto<\/a> for you, your soulmate and the man you\u2019d grow old with.<\/p>\n<p>No, you weren\u2019t too picky and you didn\u2019t want a Mr. Perfect\u2014you just wanted simple things\u2014someone to get you, someone to try around you and someone to love you back.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>This is exactly what you hoped to get from your ex-boyfriend\u2014love, compassion and understanding. You wanted him to be your safe harbor and your haven after a long day.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>E a pensarci bene, quest'uomo era davvero tutto questo.<\/p>\n<p>He indeed had everything you looked for in a man\u2014at least in the beginning.<\/p>\n<p>Tuttavia, dopo un po' di tempo, le cose sono cambiate e lui si \u00e8 rivelato un uomo diverso da quello che pensavate.<\/p>\n<p>Non siete sicure se ora stesse mostrando la sua vera natura o se si fosse semplicemente stancato di voi, ma la verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che all'improvviso non c'era pi\u00f9 traccia dell'uomo di cui vi eravate innamorate.<\/p>\n<p>Dopo molti litigi e ancora pi\u00f9 tempo sprecato, ti ha lasciato.<\/p>\n<p>Cos\u00ec, se n'\u00e8 andato dalla tua vita come se voi due non aveste mai avuto importanza e come se non gli fosse mai importato di te.<\/p>\n<p>Vi ha lasciati soli, cercando di combattere la vostra tristezza e di capire quando e perch\u00e9 <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/e-andato-storto-anche-allinizio\/\">le cose sono andate male.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Nevertheless, that is not the worst part. You know that eventually, you\u2019ll stop missing him and get used to his absence.<\/p>\n<p>You know that you\u2019ll learn to live without him even if you never stop loving him.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-48955\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/How-To-Move-Forward-3-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Se fosse stato quello giusto, sarebbe rimasto\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/How-To-Move-Forward-3-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/How-To-Move-Forward-3-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/How-To-Move-Forward-3.jpg 735w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Ma se fosse quello giusto per voi? Se fosse la vostra anima gemella?<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>What if you never grow to love someone the way you still love him? What if you\u2019ll spend the rest of your life searching for him in all the other men you encounter? What if this man who got away remains stuck in one part of your brain forever?<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Well, let me promise you one thing\u2014none of this will happen. And you know why?<\/p>\n<p>Perch\u00e9 <em><strong>if he was the one, he wouldn\u2019t have gotten away. If he was meant to be yours forever, you would have never lost him.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>You know, when love is real, it doesn\u2019t have an expiration date. It doesn\u2019t fade away the moment things get rough and it never ends.<\/p>\n<p>When love is real, it lasts a lifetime, through good and bad days, through thick and thin. None of life\u2019s obstacles or time can do it any harm because it is omnipotent and everlasting.<\/p>\n<p>I know you are still convinced that this man was the one for you but he clearly wasn&#8217;t.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Aveva uno scopo nella vostra vita, era l\u00ec per <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/una-lettera-al-mio-ex-di-merda-grazie-per-avermi-insegnato-queste-5-cose\/\">insegnarvi una lezione<\/a><\/span> and to make you understand some things but he obviously wasn\u2019t right for you.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Perch\u00e9 se cos\u00ec fosse, niente al mondo avrebbe potuto allontanarlo da voi.<\/p>\n<p>Se cos\u00ec fosse, sarebbe ancora l\u00ec al tuo fianco, a tenerti la mano nella vita e non avrebbe mai pensato di tirarsi indietro.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Se fosse stato quello giusto, avreste avuto il vostro lieto fine.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>I know all of this is difficult to believe in now but you\u2019ll see that it is the only truth once this true love we are talking about comes into your life.<\/p>\n<p>When that happens, you\u2019ll realize all the ways in which all of your past relationships were wrong and you\u2019ll finally understand why none of them worked out.<\/p>\n<p>Most importantly, you\u2019ll see that there is <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/dont-forget-that-god-always-has-the-perfect-timing\/\">tempismo perfetto<\/a><\/span> for everything and especially for love. You\u2019ll see that sometimes there is a difference between the love you think you want and the one you really need\u2014the difference between temporary and everlasting love.<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-33304\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/PINTEREST-2019-02-20T113810.773-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Se fosse stato quello giusto, sarebbe rimasto\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/PINTEREST-2019-02-20T113810.773-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/PINTEREST-2019-02-20T113810.773-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/PINTEREST-2019-02-20T113810.773.jpg 467w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>For as long as you can remember, you\u2019ve been someone who believed in love. You\u2019ve been a girl who was looking for real romance and a happy ending in all of your relationships. You were never interested in something temporary and you were never looking for a man just to have a good time. Meaningless&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":33303,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-33301","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/beautiful-beautiful-girl-daytime-1116380.jpg",800,532,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/33301","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=33301"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/33301\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/33303"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=33301"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=33301"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=33301"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}