{"id":33364,"date":"2019-02-21T10:11:03","date_gmt":"2019-02-21T10:11:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=33364"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:52:44","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:52:44","slug":"un-semplice-mi-dispiace-non-puo-cambiare-tutto-quello-che-mi-hai-fatto","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/un-semplice-mi-dispiace-non-puo-cambiare-tutto-quello-che-mi-hai-fatto\/","title":{"rendered":"Un semplice \"mi dispiace\" non pu\u00f2 cambiare tutto quello che mi hai fatto"},"content":{"rendered":"

I am a human being, not a robot. I don’t work on pressing the right buttons and I don’t have the ability of turning my emotions on and off the way you’d like me to.<\/p>\n

I can\u2019t snap my fingers and erase my memory or choose between the things I want to forget and the ones I want to remember.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t have a magic wand which can make all of my emotional pain go away or which could erase my past, even though that is something I want more than anything.<\/p>\n

So you must understand why I can\u2019t accettare le sue scuse<\/a><\/span>, just like that. Why I can\u2019t pretend as if nothing happened and as if you never made my life a living hell.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

I am not telling you this because I don\u2019t believe you\u2014as much as I am apprehensive, you might really regret your mistakes.<\/p>\n

Non lo faccio per vendicarmi di te o per darti una lezione per non giocare mai pi\u00f9 con me.<\/p>\n

I cannot accept your apology because deep in my heart, I know that I can\u2019t forgive you for real.<\/strong> <\/em><\/p>\n

Dare il mio falso perdono a te e assolverti dai tuoi peccati quando ancora serbo rancore per tutto il dolore che mi hai fatto passare mi renderebbe ipocrita e in nessun modo diverso da te.<\/p>\n

La verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che vorrei raccogliere le mie forze e vorrei essere la persona pi\u00f9 grande e permettermi di perdonarti.<\/p>\n

However, I wouldn\u2019t like to do it to make things easier for you. Instead, I would like to accept your apology for my own sake.<\/p>\n

Vorrei perdonarti per potermi liberare da questo orribile risentimento e dalla negativit\u00e0 che mi sta ancora mangiando vivo, anche molto tempo dopo che hai lasciato la mia vita.<\/p>\n

Cos\u00ec potrei liberarmi da questo desiderio di vendetta che continuo a cercare di allontanare.<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, that is something I can\u2019t do, as much as I want to.<\/p>\n

A simple, \u201cI am sorry,\u201d can\u2019t make me forget all the nights I spent crying myself to sleep, all the humiliation I went through because of you or the feeling of abandonment I had when you left me hanging.<\/p>\n

It can\u2019t change the fact you tradito<\/a><\/span> Mi hai fatto credere per anni, promettendomi la tua eterna fedelt\u00e0, mi hai manipolato fino a farmi incolpare dei tuoi errori e del fatto che hai mandato in frantumi il mio cuore.<\/p>\n

It can\u2019t magically make me go back to being the girl I was before you broke me, nor can it erase the fact that you scarred me for life.<\/p>\n

A simple, \u201cI\u2019m sorry,\u201d won\u2019t take back all the insults and lies you kept telling me for years.<\/p>\n

It won\u2019t make up for the fact that you always treated me like second best, while you were always my priority.<\/p>\n

Your, \u201cSorry,\u201d won\u2019t give me back the years I wasted on you.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Gli anni che ho sprecato per giustificare il tuo comportamento di merda, per darti una seconda possibilit\u00e0 o per aspettare che diventassi l'uomo di cui avevo bisogno.<\/p>\n

It won\u2019t erase the trauma you inflicted and it won\u2019t change the fact that you made me think I was non destinato ad essere amato<\/a><\/span>.<\/p>\n

It won\u2019t glue my broken heart back together and it won\u2019t heal my wounded soul.<\/p>\n

So, no, we can\u2019t be friends and you can\u2019t come back into my life just because you told me you are sorry. You don\u2019t deserve my forgiveness and I can\u2019t pretend like none of these things happened.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong\u2014this doesn\u2019t mean I don\u2019t appreciate the fact that you\u2019ve finally admitted your mistakes and that you\u2019ve taken responsibility for your actions.<\/p>\n

Nonetheless, a simple apology isn\u2019t enough and can never make up for all the pain you\u2019ve caused.<\/p>\n

To be honest, I would be lying if I told you that I am sorry for the fact that you are consumed with guilt. Because you don\u2019t deserve to sleep peacefully, thinking that you\u2019ve done me no harm. You don\u2019t deserve to continue living as if there doesn\u2019t exist a woman whose life you\u2019ve ruined.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

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