{"id":33372,"date":"2019-02-21T11:25:04","date_gmt":"2019-02-21T11:25:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=33372"},"modified":"2022-06-10T11:45:07","modified_gmt":"2022-06-10T11:45:07","slug":"sono-attraente-ecco-tutto-quello-che-ce-da-sapere","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/sono-attraente-ecco-tutto-quello-che-ce-da-sapere\/","title":{"rendered":"Sono attraente? Ecco tutto quello che devi sapere!"},"content":{"rendered":"

Sono attraente?<\/em> Questa \u00e8 la domanda che tutte le donne si pongono di continuo, confrontandosi con le modelle delle riviste e con la bellezza editata!<\/p>\n

I\u2019m a woman and naturally, I can\u2019t say I\u2019m immune to asking myself the same unending question and sometimes I just feel like guys have it so much easier.<\/p>\n

There aren\u2019t as many edited supermodel men in high-fashion magazines who are imposing these impossible (completely altered) beauty standards, as if women need an extra reason to feel insecure.<\/p>\n

We see all those Victoria\u2019s Secret supermodels strutting their hot, thin bodies on the runway, with their glowing skin and perfect features, thinking this is what we should aspire to be.<\/p>\n

But that\u2019s only half the truth. Do you really believe that these women wake up like that? In their perfect, skimpy outfits, with their skin so soft and bodies as fit as ever? Of course they don\u2019t!<\/em><\/p>\n

What you don\u2019t realize is that they all have their personal trainer<\/a>, they go on these massive diets and they don\u2019t let themselves indulge nearly as much as \u2018normal\u2019 people do.<\/p>\n

That is all for show. They need to sell their beauty because it\u2019s their job, so you really shouldn\u2019t base your opinions on yourself looking at models and magazine covers. That\u2019s not real. Lo sei!<\/b><\/p>\n

Sono attraente? Come <\/b>voi<\/i><\/b> vedere se stessi?<\/b><\/p>\n

La cosa pi\u00f9 importante \u00e8 come VOI vi vedete. Smettete di chiedervi se gli altri vi trovano attraenti e siate la voce della vostra ragione.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s difficult judging yourself objectively when you\u2019re the one who looks at yourself every single day and being so used to your features, it\u2019s difficult to know anymore how you truly see yourself.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re the one who knows about every single zit, even though others probably couldn\u2019t even find it. You\u2019re the one who knows you\u2019re having a bad hair day, even though to an outside onlooker, you look perfectly normal.<\/em><\/p>\n

Your mood often dictates your feelings about yourself and more often than not, you\u2019re probably way too harsh on yourself. Am I right?<\/p>\n

Prima di chiedersi, \u201cAm I attractive?\u2019\u2019<\/em> think about what it is that you find appealing in others. What the first thing is that you\u2019ll notice on un'altra donna<\/span><\/a> e ci\u00f2 che trovate veramente attraente. Siate onesti con voi stessi.<\/p>\n

L'aspetto fisico \u00e8 l'unico fattore decisivo o c'\u00e8 dell'altro?<\/p>\n

Vi piace vedere capelli belli e sani, che scorrono al vento e che sembrano apparire su una copertina di Vogue e vorreste morire per averli sulla vostra testa?<\/em><\/p>\n

Or do you find the eyes to be the most attractive part of a person? Do you like looking into somebody\u2019s eyes and immediately being so drawn to them, as if their eyes hold the secrets of the universe you\u2019re craving to uncover?<\/em><\/p>\n

Or is there something more that you just can\u2019t resist? Something that instantly makes you see this person differently, in a more positive light?<\/p>\n

Looks aren\u2019t everything. And regardless of what you might think, the thing that you are drawn to in another person is most probably what others notice about you too!<\/b><\/p>\n

\"Sono<\/p>\n

It\u2019s your personality. The way you condone yourself with those you love and with perfect strangers, the way you carry a genuine smile on your face whenever you see someone you care about and the abundance of positive energy you seamlessly spread around you.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s the way you\u2019re always ready to help a person, no matter who it is. Your kindness and ability to put yourself second and be of service when you\u2019re needed. It\u2019s your big heart that makes you attractive.<\/p>\n

And nobody\u2019s opinion of you matters nearly as much as your own does, remember that.<\/em><\/p>\n

Now, if you\u2019re on dating apps, chances are you\u2019re probably basing il tuo valore<\/span><\/a> off of some superficial comments from guys behind their screens who probably don\u2019t have anything better to do with their lives.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s all cool and shit but dating apps aren\u2019t a measure of anything, let alone of how attractive you are and here\u2019s why!<\/p>\n

La foto del vostro profilo non pu\u00f2 catturarvi in tutta la vostra essenza!<\/b><\/p>\n

Prima di tutto, una foto non rappresenta chi sei<\/span><\/a> or how attractive you are. A photo is literally one pose from a particular angle and there\u2019s nothing more one can see than this one moment in time e voi siete molto di pi\u00f9.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

A photo does not show what you look like when somebody makes you laugh so hard that you just can\u2019t stop grinning from ear to ear, completely spontaneously and genuinely.<\/p>\n

A photo does not show the way your eyes look in all different kinds of lighting. It doesn\u2019t show how magical it is to see you during sunset, as the sun is setting over your face and making your eyes light up in that particular faint light.<\/p>\n

Ogni persona \u00e8 attratta da qualcosa di diverso!<\/b><\/p>\n

Prendiamo ad esempio noi stessi.<\/em> Let\u2019s say you\u2019re attracted to guys with dark hair, light eyes, over six feet tall and with a great sense of humor!<\/p>\n

They need to be into rock music and not take life too seriously. You also would prefer it if they liked animals, as you\u2019re a huge animal lover and your dog is your world.<\/p>\n

And now let\u2019s take your <\/span><\/i>migliore amico<\/span><\/i><\/a>, ad esempio.<\/span><\/i> She is probably attracted to those mysterious types of guys, who are more than they let people see and don\u2019t really look typically handsome but have that certain something that makes them stand out.<\/p>\n

They aren\u2019t into the rock scene but are more quiet and reserved and exude this mystical energy that she just finds so damn attractive.<\/p>\n

She doesn\u2019t care about looks at all, all she wants is someone with the same quirky outlook on life as hers.<\/p>\n

Ed ecco fatto. Le vostre scelte in fatto di uomini non potrebbero essere pi\u00f9 diverse, eppure entrambe amereste assolutamente trovare ogni ragazzo descritto sopra e avreste una grande antipatia per l'altro.<\/p>\n

Questo significa che un tipo \u00e8 meno attraente dell'altro? No! Significa solo che tu e la tua amica avete idee completamente diverse sull'aspetto di un uomo attraente e nessuna delle due ha torto.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s all so objective. And what I\u2019m trying to say is, if you\u2019re not one guy\u2019s cup of tea, that doesn\u2019t mean you won\u2019t be everything and more to the next guy!<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

\"Sono<\/p>\n

Be thankful that tastes in men and women differ from person to person, as that gives you so many more chances with so many different guys. And isn\u2019t that just awesome?<\/p>\n

There\u2019s also this thing called chemistry!<\/p>\n

Il modo in cui si vede una persona in foto e come \u00e8 effettivamente di persona sono due cose completamente diverse.<\/p>\n

You can see someone you think is so good-looking and cute and feel like you\u2019d really hit it off with them and then when you meet them in person you realize that they have the personality of a pineapple!<\/p>\n

And off they go! That\u2019s what chemistry is for. You keep asking yourself, \u201cAm I attractive?\u2019\u2019<\/em> when you should really be asking yourself whether there\u2019s chemistry there or not.<\/p>\n

A person can be as gorgeous as it gets on the outside but when their personality is bland and they don\u2019t click with you on any level, what\u2019s the point really?<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

This is why being attractive is not something you should be putting all your attention on. Your looks aren\u2019t everything. If there\u2019s no mental connection, there\u2019s really nothing there.<\/p>\n

Every single person on this planet is attractive to somebody. You may look out the window and see a guy you don\u2019t like one bit but there is probably somebody out there who would find him the cutest!<\/p>\n

\"Sono<\/p>\n

Vi vedete attraenti come gli altri?<\/b><\/p>\n

There\u2019s always a big gap between how attractive you perceive yourself and how you actually look to others. Oftentimes, we feel like we\u2019re way less good-looking than we actually are.<\/p>\n

Questo perch\u00e9 scrutate ogni singolo dettaglio di voi stessi. Vedete ogni difetto, ogni capello grigio e ogni piccola imperfezione sul vostro viso.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

You see those stretch marks and cellulite and you most definitely don\u2019t like seeing those love handles.<\/p>\n

But others don\u2019t see that the way you do. They see a cute smile and that adorable gap between your teeth. They see your natural face in all of its beauty, not even thinking about that tiny zit you hate so much.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

La persona che vi ama per quello che siete amer\u00e0 tutti i difetti che odiate tanto e li vedr\u00e0 come cose che vi rendono speciali.<\/p>\n

He won\u2019t care that you have cellulite. He won\u2019t care about that barely-there pimple.<\/p>\n

Tutto ci\u00f2 che questa persona vedr\u00e0 \u00e8 una persona perfetta ai suoi occhi. Una donna attraente, intelligente, spiritosa, la cui risata \u00e8 pi\u00f9 forte della musica e che dice sempre le cose come stanno.<\/p>\n

Ed \u00e8 proprio per questo che dovreste smettere di chiedervelo, \u201cAm I attractive?\u2019\u2019<\/em> e iniziate a concentrarvi sulla ricerca di qualcuno che vi ami esattamente come siete. Con tutti i suoi difetti.<\/p>\n

\"Sono<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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