{"id":33383,"date":"2020-02-21T11:22:00","date_gmt":"2020-02-21T11:22:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=33383"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:11:09","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:11:09","slug":"se-fai-queste-7-cose-ti-stai-facendo-prendere-in-giro-da-lui","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/se-fai-queste-7-cose-ti-stai-facendo-prendere-in-giro-da-lui\/","title":{"rendered":"Se fai queste 7 cose, ti stai facendo prendere in giro da lui"},"content":{"rendered":"<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Continui a frequentare lo stesso tipo di uomini<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-79731\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-while-man-typing-on-phone.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste seduta sul divano mentre l&#039;uomo scrive al telefono\" width=\"800\" height=\"538\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-while-man-typing-on-phone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-while-man-typing-on-phone-300x202.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-while-man-typing-on-phone-768x516.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-while-man-typing-on-phone-760x510.jpg 760w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Quando si guarda indietro ai propri ex, si vede che quasi tutti hanno molte somiglianze e la cosa che pi\u00f9 risalta \u00e8 il loro comportamento da stronzi.<\/p>\n<p>Clearly, you are not doing this on purpose. They don\u2019t show their true face until you are already hooked and it\u2019s too late.<\/p>\n<p>Ma potrebbe esserci qualche <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/14-segni-precoci-che-non-e-quello-giusto-per-voi\/\">segni precoci<\/a> che si tratta di cattive notizie da cui bisogna stare attenti. Iniziate a scegliere con saggezza a chi dare il vostro cuore.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Gli regalate la vostra fiducia, invece di fargliela guadagnare.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-79732\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/worried-woman-holding-hand-on-face.jpg\" alt=\"donna preoccupata che si tiene la mano sul viso\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/worried-woman-holding-hand-on-face.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/worried-woman-holding-hand-on-face-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/worried-woman-holding-hand-on-face-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Why would you believe someone you hardly know? What guarantees do you have that this person won\u2019t double-cross you? You have none.<\/p>\n<p>Trust is something that people should earn over time. So make sure you don\u2019t rush into things.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s less risky that way and there are fewer chances that someone will play you.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Vuoi che lui sia la tua persona per sempre e lo vuoi fortemente.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-79733\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-couch.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste seduta sul divano\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-couch.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Sar\u00e0 difficile per voi ammetterlo, ma chiedetevi se amate quella persona o l'idea che ne avete.<\/p>\n<p>Forse siete cos\u00ec desiderosi di avere una relazione seria che sperate che sia l'uomo giusto per voi.<\/p>\n<p>Vi innamorate facilmente? C'erano gi\u00e0 un paio di ragazzi che credevate fossero un vero affare, prima che tutto andasse a rotoli?<\/p>\n<p>Se la risposta \u00e8 s\u00ec, state lasciando che lui si prenda gioco di voi e che voi vi prendiate gioco di voi stessi.<\/p>\n<p>Il fatto \u00e8 che il vostro desiderio di amore \u00e8 cos\u00ec forte che scegliete di vedere solo le parti positive, mentre ignorate ciecamente quelle negative.<\/p>\n<p>Quando c'\u00e8 quello giusto, non ci sar\u00e0 bisogno di forzare le cose o di lavorare tanto per tenerlo al proprio fianco.<\/p>\n<p>Remember you can\u2019t hurry love, it has its own time zone and there is nothing any of us can do about it, no matter how exhausted we might be from the wrong guys.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Gli date innumerevoli opportunit\u00e0 di deludervi.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-79734\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/sad-woman-listening-to-man-in-cafe.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste che ascolta un uomo in un caff\u00e8\" width=\"800\" height=\"545\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/sad-woman-listening-to-man-in-cafe.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/sad-woman-listening-to-man-in-cafe-300x204.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/sad-woman-listening-to-man-in-cafe-768x523.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Some people are really rare to deserve a second chance and all the rest really don\u2019t. And every chance you give after a second one is one too many.<\/p>\n<p>The problem is that you don\u2019t even realize that you are giving someone a third, fourth&#8230; thirty-sixth chance to play you all over again because you feed yourself with the hope that next time it will all be different.<\/p>\n<p>Stop doing that ASAP. It won\u2019t be different, it will be only worse. People who betray you, walk out on you and abuse your feelings in any way don\u2019t deserve a spot in your life.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Ti preoccupi di lui pi\u00f9 di quanto ti preoccupi di te stesso<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-79735\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/sad-woman-standing-by-the-wall.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste in piedi accanto al muro\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/sad-woman-standing-by-the-wall.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/sad-woman-standing-by-the-wall-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/sad-woman-standing-by-the-wall-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Per quanto forti siano i sentimenti o quanto forte sia l'amore per qualcuno, si dovrebbe sempre amare un po' di pi\u00f9 se stessi.<\/p>\n<p>You shouldn\u2019t give parts of yourself to somebody who doesn\u2019t give anything back.<\/p>\n<p>You shouldn\u2019t allow anybody to disrespect you or treat you lousily just because you love them or you don\u2019t want to be alone.<\/p>\n<p>That isn&#8217;t loving, that\u2019s settling for a life without real love.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Ti stai nutrendo di bugie<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-79737\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/sad-beautiful-woman-in-deep-thoughts.jpg\" alt=\"triste bella donna in pensieri profondi\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/sad-beautiful-woman-in-deep-thoughts.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/sad-beautiful-woman-in-deep-thoughts-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/sad-beautiful-woman-in-deep-thoughts-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>\u201cHe is not all that bad,\u201d or, \u201cHe just needs time,\u201d or, \u201cWe shared so many happy memories, I am sure he can be that person again.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Se vi sorprendete a pronunciare una di queste frasi o altre simili, state permettendo a lui di prendersi gioco di voi.<\/p>\n<p>He can\u2019t live on past glory, he has to be good to you right now. He has to care for you and treat you right now, not tomorrow, not in a few months or years.<\/p>\n<p>Smettete di trovare scuse per lui e riconoscete che meritate molto pi\u00f9 di lui.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Ignorate il vostro intuito<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-79739\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/mindful-woman-standing-in-nature.jpg\" alt=\"Donna pensierosa in piedi nella natura\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/mindful-woman-standing-in-nature.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/mindful-woman-standing-in-nature-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/mindful-woman-standing-in-nature-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You know deep down that he is wrong for you, you feel that something is out of place and that he isn\u2019t being truthful.<\/p>\n<p>Invece di affidarti al tuo intuito, continui a metterlo a tacere perch\u00e9 sei attratta da lui e speri di sbagliarti.<\/p>\n<p>You are not wrong; if something smells bad, it\u2019s bad, there is no doubt about it. Learn to listen to your instincts as they are hardly ever wrong.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-79728\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/If-You\u2019re-Doing-These-7-Things-You\u2019re-Letting-Him-Play-You-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Se fai queste 7 cose, ti stai facendo prendere in giro da lui\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/If-You\u2019re-Doing-These-7-Things-You\u2019re-Letting-Him-Play-You-pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/If-You\u2019re-Doing-These-7-Things-You\u2019re-Letting-Him-Play-You-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You keep dating the same type of men When you look back at your exes, you see that almost all of them have a lot of similarities and the one thing that sticks out the most is their asshole behavior. Clearly, you are not doing this on purpose. They don\u2019t show their true face until&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":79741,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29648],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-33383","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-tips"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29648,"label":"dating tips"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/If-You\u2019re-Doing-These-7-Things-You\u2019re-Letting-Him-Play-You.jpg",800,531,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29648,"name":"dating tips","slug":"dating-tips","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29648,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. 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