{"id":33447,"date":"2020-06-22T08:51:17","date_gmt":"2020-06-22T08:51:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=33447"},"modified":"2022-02-26T11:03:29","modified_gmt":"2022-02-26T11:03:29","slug":"smettete-di-lottare-per-un-uomo-che-ha-rinunciato-a-voi-molto-tempo-fa","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/smettete-di-lottare-per-un-uomo-che-ha-rinunciato-a-voi-molto-tempo-fa\/","title":{"rendered":"Smettete di lottare per un uomo che ha rinunciato a voi molto tempo fa"},"content":{"rendered":"

You’re constantly checking your phone in the hope that he will call, even though you know he won’t.<\/p>\n

You’re constantly wondering what he’s doing, even though you know he doesn’t give a damn about what you’re doing.<\/p>\n

You’re constantly fighting to preserve what’s left of your love, even though you know that he gave up fighting a long time ago.<\/p>\n

Don’t do that. Stop fighting for those who don’t bother fighting for you! Stop fighting for those who are okay with perdere te<\/a><\/span>!<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

I know it\u2019s not that easy to forget all of the beautiful moments you had together, holding each other\u2019s hands before falling asleep, kissing passionately, laughing until your stomach started to really hurt, taking care of each other\u2026 but all these moments are not enough for you to keep fighting.<\/p>\n

Smettete di lottare per i vostri momenti passati, aprite gli occhi e vedete la verit\u00e0.<\/p>\n

Ask yourself if he\u2019s that same man who used to hold your hand when you felt sad.<\/p>\n

Is he that same man who used to hold you in his arms, reassuring you that he\u2019d never give up on fighting for your love?<\/p>\n

If not, do not bother fighting for him because you\u2019re not fighting for him\u2014you\u2019re fighting for the memory of him.<\/p>\n

Non preoccupatevi di rivivere vecchi momenti di felicit\u00e0 perch\u00e9 dovreste vivere il presente!<\/p>\n

\"Giovane<\/p>\n

Stop focusing on the happiness of those who don\u2019t care about yours. Stop letting them know that you\u2019ll always be there no matter what. Stop making them your priority when all this time they have treated you like an option!<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

You are not the one who is responsible for their happiness. You should never fight for someone who doesn\u2019t know how to reciprocate.<\/p>\n

Smettete di lottare per un amore mediocre, quando dovreste godervi quello che vi ispira e riempie il vostro cuore di gioia invece che di dolore.<\/p>\n

Smettete di torturarvi con i \"se\" e di pensare che se aveste continuato a essere buone con lui e se aveste continuato a essere insistenti per salvare ci\u00f2 che era rimasto del vostro amore, lui avrebbe potuto cambiare idea e iniziare a ricambiare.<\/p>\n

No, he wouldn\u2019t have and you know it!<\/p>\n

Nel momento in cui ha deciso di fregarsene dei tuoi sentimenti e dei tuoi desideri, ha deliberatamente deciso di smettere di lottare per te.<\/p>\n

And why would you fight for him? Why would you keep making excuses for his behavior when you know he\u2019s doing it on purpose?<\/p>\n

Smettere di lottare per un uomo<\/a> who doesn\u2019t know how to love. Stop fighting for a man who was never yours and who never will be!<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Volete rimanere per sempre in un limbo di amore non corrisposto<\/a><\/span>, desideri trascurati ed egoismo?<\/p>\n

Do you want to fight forever for something you\u2019ll never have? Of course you don\u2019t!<\/p>\n

\"Immagine<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t want to and you definitely shouldn\u2019t because life is too short to waste your time waiting for those who are not willing to make an effort to change.<\/p>\n

La vita \u00e8 troppo breve per sprecare il proprio tempo pensando costantemente al passato e temendo il futuro.<\/p>\n

Smettete di torturare voi stessi e il vostro cuore con un amore tossico e concentratevi su ci\u00f2 che vi rende felici.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Do you want a strong, beautiful love that is reciprocal? Then don\u2019t fight for a weak one.<\/p>\n

Volete qualcuno che sia sempre presente per voi e che non vi faccia mai dubitare delle sue intenzioni?<\/p>\n

Then don\u2019t fight for the one who is never here.<\/p>\n

\u2018You reap what you sow\u2019. If you invest all of yourself in a man who is not ready to do the same for you, you will end up broken. If you keep fighting for a man who is making you feel unworthy, sad, and disappointed, you will never find your inner peace or happiness.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Ma se ti perdoni per ogni lacrima, per ogni secondo in cui ti sei sentita sola, per il tuo dolore e decidi di smettere di lottare per un uomo che ti stava facendo tutto questo, inizierai a cambiare!<\/p>\n

Quando deciderete di iniziare a lottare per il vostro sorriso, la vostra gioia e un cuore pieno di amore puro, troverete la vostra felicit\u00e0.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m not saying it will be easy. It won\u2019t but you will make it.<\/p>\n

Ce la farete perch\u00e9 ci vuole una donna forte per decidere di continuare a lottare per un uomo che la sta distruggendo dentro.<\/p>\n

You will make it because it takes a brave heart to keep loving a man who was not ready to do the same. You will make it because you\u2019re a fighter.\"Smettete<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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