{"id":33453,"date":"2020-08-22T09:02:35","date_gmt":"2020-08-22T09:02:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=33453"},"modified":"2022-02-10T01:51:38","modified_gmt":"2022-02-10T01:51:38","slug":"non-hai-lottato-per-tenermi-e-ora-mi-hai-perso-per-sempre","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/non-hai-lottato-per-tenermi-e-ora-mi-hai-perso-per-sempre\/","title":{"rendered":"Non hai combattuto per tenermi e ora mi hai perso per sempre"},"content":{"rendered":"

I was the best damn thing that ever happened to you and you couldn\u2019t even lotta per me<\/a><\/span> quando avevo pi\u00f9 bisogno di te. Invece, te ne sei andato e mi hai abbandonato a me stesso.<\/em><\/p>\n

Tu sei stato tutto ci\u00f2 che ho sempre voluto. Eri tutto ci\u00f2 di cui avevo davvero bisogno. E non ho mai cercato di trasformarti in qualcosa di diverso.<\/p>\n

Ho accettato ogni tuo difetto, ogni stranezza e ogni tua fastidiosa abitudine e ti ho amato esattamente per quello che eri.<\/p>\n

E cosa ho ottenuto in cambio? Hai mostrato la tua vera natura quando la merda ha colpito il ventilatore. <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

You proving to me that I wasted all of my efforts and all of my kindness on a guy who couldn\u2019t fight to keep me when that was all I needed you to do.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Ti ho spinto a dare il meglio di te quando ti sentivi inutile.<\/p>\n

Ti ho incoraggiato a perseguire ci\u00f2 che ti appassionava e non ti ho mai mostrato altro che sostegno e amore incondizionato.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Quando hai avuto i tuoi giorni bui, sono rimasto in piedi al tuo fianco<\/a><\/span>. Ho asciugato le tue lacrime e sono stato la tua spalla su cui piangere.<\/p>\n

Ero sempre presente e sapevi di poter contare su di me giorno e notte.<\/p>\n

You were my priority and I\u2019d be there when you needed me. But when it came to me, you just couldn\u2019t do the same, could you?<\/p>\n

You made me feel worthless and demanding. When we were going through a rough patch, I was so desperately trying to save us and you couldn\u2019t be bothered to lift a finger.<\/p>\n

I felt like you truly didn\u2019t care to join me in salvaging our relationship and that hit me like a million knives through my stomach\u2026 Was what we had so meaningless to you?<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Ho immaginato tutte quelle notti passate a immaginare il nostro futuro fino alle prime ore del mattino?<\/p>\n

Ho immaginato che tu mi avessi promesso la luna e le stelle, anche se in realt\u00e0 avevo bisogno solo di amore e impegno?<\/p>\n

Sono stato solo in questa relazione per tutto il tempo? Di sicuro l'hai fatto sembrare tale.<\/em><\/p>\n

\"bella<\/p>\n

Sai cosa ho capito alla fine? Mi hai tenuto con te solo perch\u00e9 ti facevo sentire meglio con te stesso.<\/p>\n

Sono stata quella che ha creduto in te quando nessun altro lo faceva e tu avevi bisogno di me per rafforzare il tuo ego.<\/p>\n

You needed to feel validated and I foolishly provided you with that, stupidly believing it was love that you felt. But no\u2026 I was just convenient.<\/p>\n

I thank God I realized this. Because if I hadn\u2019t, I\u2019d be struggling with this so much more\u2026 but you\u2019ve made this break-up so much easier on me.<\/p>\n

Non ti ho mai avuto veramente. E una volta che mi sono resa conto di questo, la parte del superamento \u00e8 stata un gioco da ragazzi.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

You had your dramas, your issues, your fits of anger and you\u2019d take it all out on me like I was there merely to be your sounding board.<\/p>\n

E quando avevo i miei problemi e stavo attraversando la mia merda, mi hai chiamato appiccicoso e sensibile.<\/p>\n

Se ho avuto un problema con il tuo ego gonfiato e i tuoi problemi di rabbia, sono stato troppo emotivo.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

I was never entitled to feel how I truly felt. You belittled me, my feelings and my beliefs. And I put up with it, thinking it could all magically turn around…<\/p>\n

It never did and thank God it didn\u2019t because now I see you\u2019re not the person I want to spend my life with.<\/p>\n

Sono molto troppo buono per te<\/a><\/span>. I\u2019m strong, patient and tolerant. I am a good listener and I\u2019m there within seconds when I\u2019m needed.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m not clingy\u2014I care! I\u2019m not overly sensitive\u2014I\u2019m emotionally invested when I\u2019m in love! And I\u2019m not difficult to handle\u2014you\u2019re just too damn difficult to please!<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

And now, even if you wanted me back, this ship has sailed and it\u2019s never coming back.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve lost me for good, because now I know what to look for and who to steer clear of.<\/p>\n

This is my final goodbye to you, as I\u2019m finally comfortable in my own skin and at peace with my life as it is.<\/p>\n

You pushed me away but I\u2019ve landed on my feet<\/a>. E finalmente mi sento dannatamente bene con me stesso!<\/p>\n

\"Non<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I was the best damn thing that ever happened to you and you couldn\u2019t even fight for me when I needed you the most. Instead, you bailed and left me to my own devices. You were all I ever wanted. You were all I really needed. And I never tried to change you into something…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":116783,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-33453","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/You-Didnt-Fight-To-Keep-Me-And-Now-Youve-Lost-Me-For-Good-1-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/33453","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=33453"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/33453\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/116783"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=33453"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=33453"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=33453"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}