{"id":33465,"date":"2020-04-25T07:52:18","date_gmt":"2020-04-25T07:52:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=33465"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:03:42","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:03:42","slug":"8-motivi-per-cui-il-vostro-uomo-non-vi-prende-affatto-sul-serio","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/8-motivi-per-cui-il-vostro-uomo-non-vi-prende-affatto-sul-serio\/","title":{"rendered":"8 motivi per cui il vostro uomo non vi prende affatto sul serio"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Una delle differenze pi\u00f9 importanti tra uomini e donne \u00e8 il modo in cui si esprimono.<\/p>\n<p>Women like to talk a lot. Men, on the other hand, don\u2019t. When women have a problem, they like to talk about it for hours. They just want to be heard.<\/p>\n<p>Gli uomini, al contrario, sono risolutori di problemi e si concentrano sulla soluzione del problema piuttosto che sul parlare del problema stesso.<\/p>\n<p>Tutte le donne hanno notato che, di tanto in tanto, il proprio partner non ricorda le cose che gli ha gi\u00e0 detto pi\u00f9 volte.<\/p>\n<p>Sembra che il suo uomo non ascolti mai quello che lei ha da dire. Questa situazione \u00e8 molto frustrante per le donne.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes she talks a lot about something she considers is serious and relevant, but her man just doesn\u2019t see it that way. He just thinks she is overreacting. Why does this happen?<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Well, of course your significant other will listen to you and be there for you when you need him most, but there are times when he just won\u2019t take you seriously.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Questi sono alcuni dei motivi per cui il vostro uomo decide di non ascoltarvi e di non prendervi sul serio:<\/p>\n<h2>1. Non si arriva mai al punto!<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-88041\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/woman-looks-thoughtful-while-talking-on-phone-at-cafe-1.jpg\" alt=\"donna guarda pensierosa mentre parla al telefono in un caff\u00e8\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/woman-looks-thoughtful-while-talking-on-phone-at-cafe-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/woman-looks-thoughtful-while-talking-on-phone-at-cafe-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/woman-looks-thoughtful-while-talking-on-phone-at-cafe-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>La verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che ogni donna entra in troppi dettagli. Continuate a parlare per ore e non sembrate mai arrivare al punto. Gli uomini si arrabbiano facilmente per questo.<\/p>\n<p>Per esempio, se avete avuto un problema al lavoro, il vostro uomo non vuole sentirvi parlare prima dell'ora in cui vi siete svegliati, della colazione che ha fatto schifo, del terribile ingorgo che vi ha fatto arrabbiare e poi, infine, del problema di lavoro.<\/p>\n<p>He wants you to be direct and not beat around the bush. If it was that important, wouldn\u2019t you tell it right away?<\/p>\n<p>Perch\u00e9 continuate a citare cose che non sono nemmeno in relazione con l'argomento che \u00e8 rilevante?<\/p>\n<p>Just get to the point woman! You\u2019re driving him crazy. If you want your man to take you seriously, just tell him the problem right away, and don\u2019t waste time mentioning irrelevant details.<\/p>\n<h2>2. You don\u2019t take advice!<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-88042\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/thoughtful-woman-sitting-with-her-man-at-home-1.jpg\" alt=\"donna riflessiva seduta con il suo uomo a casa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/thoughtful-woman-sitting-with-her-man-at-home-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/thoughtful-woman-sitting-with-her-man-at-home-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/thoughtful-woman-sitting-with-her-man-at-home-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Every time you have a problem, you seek advice from him. You tell him about everything that bothers you, and then when he gives you a piece of advice, you just don\u2019t take it.<\/p>\n<p>In the end, you do everything you wanted to do. The truth is that that you don\u2019t want advice in the first place.<\/p>\n<p>Volete solo qualcuno che vi ascolti, qualcuno con cui parlare. Ecco perch\u00e9 il vostro uomo non si sforza di ascoltarvi e di darvi i migliori consigli possibili.<\/p>\n<p>You are stubborn, and you will do everything your way anyway. If you want your man to take you seriously, tell him right away that you don\u2019t need any advice, that you just want someone to confide in.<\/p>\n<h2>3. Vi lamentate molto!<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-88043\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/angry-man-talking-with-his-upset-girlfriend.jpg\" alt=\"uomo arrabbiato che parla con la sua fidanzata sconvolta\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/angry-man-talking-with-his-upset-girlfriend.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/angry-man-talking-with-his-upset-girlfriend-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/angry-man-talking-with-his-upset-girlfriend-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Il vostro uomo sente solo lamentarsi. Sembra che vi lamentiate di tutto ci\u00f2 che accade intorno a voi. Pensa che esageriate su molte cose.<\/p>\n<p>Do you? Well, be honest with yourself! Sometimes you do! And he doesn\u2019t like it. He doesn\u2019t like all the negative energy that you transmit.<\/p>\n<p>He may even roll his eyes and think to himself, \u201cOh, no! Not again!\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Se un ragazzo a volte vi bacia all'improvviso nel bel mezzo della conversazione, vuole solo farvi tacere!<\/p>\n<p>Vi ama, ma a volte siete un po' fastidiosi. Va bene, tutti lo siamo a volte.<\/p>\n<p>Se volete che il vostro uomo vi prenda sul serio quando vi lamentate, ditegli che avete bisogno di qualcuno che vi dica che le cose andranno bene.<\/p>\n<h2>4. Cambiate spesso idea!<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-88045\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/girl-looking-thoughtful-outside.jpg\" alt=\"ragazza che guarda fuori pensierosa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/girl-looking-thoughtful-outside.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/girl-looking-thoughtful-outside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/girl-looking-thoughtful-outside-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Cambiare continuamente idea non sembra una cosa positiva. Un giorno si dice una cosa e il giorno dopo si dice qualcosa di completamente opposto.<\/p>\n<p>He thinks you are not serious and that you\u2019re probably a bit childish. If you want your man to take you seriously, just tell him that you have doubts about something. Don\u2019t rush with your final decisions and opinions!<\/p>\n<h2>5. He just can\u2019t keep up!<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-88046\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/man-looks-confused-while-woman-talking.jpg\" alt=\"uomo guarda confuso mentre la donna parla\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/man-looks-confused-while-woman-talking.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/man-looks-confused-while-woman-talking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/man-looks-confused-while-woman-talking-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Condividete cos\u00ec tanti dettagli che lui non riesce a stare al passo. All'improvviso iniziate a parlare di Susie, che ha tradito il suo ragazzo, e di Emma, la cui sorella \u00e8 andata a studiare all'estero.<\/p>\n<p>Who the hell is Susie? Isn\u2019t Emma a single child? What are you talking about?<\/p>\n<p>These are the questions that pop up in his head. In this case, he will decide he won\u2019t listen to you at all. He will nod his head and agree with whatever you say because\u2026 well\u2026 why not?<\/p>\n<p>To solve this problem, just avoid talking too much about people he doesn\u2019t know.<\/p>\n<h2>6. Sembri un disco rotto!<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-88047\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/Unhappy-angry-woman-talking-to-her-boyfriend-1.jpg\" alt=\"Donna infelice e arrabbiata che parla con il suo fidanzato\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/Unhappy-angry-woman-talking-to-her-boyfriend-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/Unhappy-angry-woman-talking-to-her-boyfriend-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/Unhappy-angry-woman-talking-to-her-boyfriend-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ve already told him to run errands, but you keep repeating it over and over again. He probably heard you the first time you said it.<\/p>\n<p>Men are not stupid. Yes, they do forget things from time to time, but it is not necessary to repeat one thing over and over again. Once is enough. Okay, twice is okay, too. But don\u2019t exaggerate!<\/p>\n<h2>7. \u00c8 occupato a fare qualcos'altro!<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-88048\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/man-ignoring-woman-while-watching-tv.jpg\" alt=\"uomo che ignora la donna mentre guarda la tv\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/man-ignoring-woman-while-watching-tv.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/man-ignoring-woman-while-watching-tv-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/man-ignoring-woman-while-watching-tv-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Il vostro uomo si spegner\u00e0 quando inizierete a parlare di qualcosa mentre lui \u00e8 impegnato a fare altro.<\/p>\n<p>Potrebbe essere impegnato a guardare una partita di calcio o a giocare ai videogiochi, ecc.<\/p>\n<p>Se lo interrompete solo per parlare di voi stessi, potrebbe sembrare un po' egoista.<\/p>\n<p>He cares about you, but don\u2019t expect him to take you seriously at these moments.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c8 il suo momento di divertirsi e se non avete nulla di importante da dire, lasciatelo divertire.<\/p>\n<p>If you really need to talk to him about something that cannot wait, just tell him directly, and don\u2019t beat around the bush.<\/p>\n<h2>8. Volete che si interessi cos\u00ec tanto a ci\u00f2 di cui state parlando!<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-88049\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/Young-man-yawns-and-is-bored-when-he-listens-to-the-excited-woman-talking.jpg\" alt=\"Il giovane sbadiglia e si annoia quando ascolta l&#039;eccitazione della donna che sta parlando\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/Young-man-yawns-and-is-bored-when-he-listens-to-the-excited-woman-talking.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/Young-man-yawns-and-is-bored-when-he-listens-to-the-excited-woman-talking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/Young-man-yawns-and-is-bored-when-he-listens-to-the-excited-woman-talking-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>In tutta onest\u00e0, il vostro uomo non \u00e8 interessato alle lezioni di yoga che prendete o ai drammi coreani che guardate.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t get angry when he doesn\u2019t take you seriously when talking passionately about them!<\/p>\n<p>He does feel happy that you\u2019re having fun doing whatever you like doing, but that doesn\u2019t mean that he should be a big fan of those things.<\/p>\n<p>You are also not a fan of his favorite football team, are you? It is perfectly okay to love different things. Embrace your differences! Don\u2019t expect too much of him!<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-88039\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/8-Reasons-Why-Your-Man-Does-Not-Take-You-Seriously-At-All-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"8 motivi per cui il vostro uomo non vi prende affatto sul serio\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/8-Reasons-Why-Your-Man-Does-Not-Take-You-Seriously-At-All-Pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/8-Reasons-Why-Your-Man-Does-Not-Take-You-Seriously-At-All-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>One of the most important differences between men and women is the ways they express themselves. Women like to talk a lot. Men, on the other hand, don\u2019t. When women have a problem, they like to talk about it for hours. They just want to be heard. Men, on the contrary, are problem-solvers, and they&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":88040,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29646],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-33465","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-men"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29646,"label":"understanding men"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/8-Reasons-Why-Your-Man-Does-Not-Take-You-Seriously-At-All.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29646,"name":"understanding men","slug":"understanding-men","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29646,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? 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