{"id":33481,"date":"2020-02-25T08:27:15","date_gmt":"2020-02-25T08:27:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=33481"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:53:47","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:53:47","slug":"5-trucchi-per-convincerlo-a-impegnarsi-e-5-cose-che-lo-spaventeranno","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/5-trucchi-per-convincerlo-a-impegnarsi-e-5-cose-che-lo-spaventeranno\/","title":{"rendered":"5 trucchi per convincerlo a impegnarsi (e 5 cose che lo spaventeranno)"},"content":{"rendered":"

Impegno. Che parola grande e spaventosa.<\/p>\n

Far s\u00ec che un uomo si impegni \u00e8 probabilmente l'obiettivo finale di ogni donna, per farlo sistemare in una relazione per il resto della sua vita.<\/p>\n

Actually, there is nothing scary about commitment. Anyone can commit. It\u2019s not a matter of possibility. It\u2019s a matter of choice.<\/p>\n

Quindi, la prossima volta che qualcuno cerca di convincervi che non \u00e8 in grado di impegnarsi, ricordate che si tratta di un grande mucchio di stronzate!<\/p>\n

L'impegno \u00e8 una questione di scelta personale.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s a matter of trusting someone and putting yourself and your future happiness into someone else\u2019s hands.<\/p>\n

E non solo per voi, anche per la controparte.<\/p>\n

Okay now, I know I\u2019ve said commitment is a matter of personal choice, but that doesn\u2019t mean that you can\u2019t influence someone\u2019s personal choice – not manipulate, but guide a person to do what they\u2019ve probably already wanted but for some reason didn\u2019t do.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s completely logical really.<\/p>\n

In compenso, ascoltando i consigli su come convincerlo a impegnarsi e su cosa non fare, si pu\u00f2 capire che la sua vita non \u00e8 solo un'avventura.<\/em>, vi trasformerete in una persona migliore e pi\u00f9 premurosa.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll pay attention to your actions and how they affect others. Let\u2019s say this is definitely a win-win situation.<\/p>\n

IMPEGNARSI: Fargli saltare la testa<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Devi lavorare sodo per impressionarlo. Devi dare il meglio di te.<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s face it, if he\u2019s not impressed, he won\u2019t commit to you, and frankly, why should he?<\/p>\n

You really have to show him that you\u2019re special, that you\u2019re not like every other girl.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m sure you won\u2019t have any problems with that if you really care about him.<\/p>\n

SCARE AWAY: You\u2019re suffocating him<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Cercare di fare colpo su di lui \u00e8 una cosa, ma stargli sempre addosso \u00e8 tutta un'altra cosa.<\/p>\n

Dovete sapere dove tracciare il limite. Dovete sapere quante attenzioni sono sufficienti per mantenere il suo interesse, ma senza spaventarlo.<\/p>\n

His personal space means everything to him as it does to any man\u2014actually to all of us.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s essential we retreat to our safe places and spend some time away from everyone.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re all over the place trying to impress him, it\u2019s very possible that you\u2019ll achieve exactly the opposite.<\/p>\n

Cercate di mantenere un equilibrio tra il non spaventarlo e il lasciargli un po' di spazio per respirare.<\/p>\n

IMPEGNARSI: Mantenere le cose divertenti<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t make things too serious too soon. Avoid talking about serious stuff because you\u2019re not at that stage of the relationship yet.<\/p>\n

Everything happens when it\u2019s time for it to happen.<\/p>\n

So, for starters, show him that you\u2019re fun to be around.<\/p>\n

That way, he won\u2019t think twice about coming to you when he wants to relax and have fun.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t be that girl who brings stress and drama in a relationship\u2014no one likes that.<\/p>\n

SPAVENTOSO: Assillo<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

It\u2019s never a good idea to start nagging about everything he does wrong, but it\u2019s especially a bad idea when you do it at the beginning of your relationship.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re bothered by something he does, wait for your relationship to get to a more serious level, and then talk about it like two mature adults.<\/p>\n

If you mention it too early, you might get him to change, but that will just be temporary. Later on, he\u2019ll probably resent you for that.<\/p>\n

IMPEGNARSI: Prestare attenzione alle altre persone della sua vita<\/h2>\n

\"amici<\/p>\n

Se si rende conto che piaci alle persone a cui tieni, prender\u00e0 sicuramente in considerazione l'idea di fare lo stesso.<\/p>\n

Chi lo circonda lo influenzer\u00e0 positivamente parlando di voi e dicendo che siete una persona fantastica in generale.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re good for his family and friends, he\u2019ll realize you\u2019re good for him, too.<\/p>\n

SPAVENTARE: Essere scortesi con gli altri<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

He\u2019s not an idiot, and he is well aware of how you\u2019re acting to people around you.<\/p>\n

If your behavior changes when you\u2019re talking to someone other than him, he\u2019ll notice it and take it as a huge red sign.<\/p>\n

Naturally, you can\u2019t change who you really are. So, if by any chance you are a jerk to others, good luck to you.<\/p>\n

But, if you\u2019re on the edge and you can control yourself, I suggest you do it\u2014not just for his sake but for your own as well.<\/p>\n

COMMIT: Don\u2019t be too available<\/h2>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t be at his disposal. Don\u2019t come running every time he calls you because he\u2019ll get the impression he can do whatever he wants with you.<\/p>\n

So, play a bit hard to get, but don\u2019t overdo it either or he might lose interest in you completely.<\/p>\n

Also, by not being too available, you\u2019re giving extra value to the time he gets to spend with you.<\/p>\n

In time, he\u2019ll only want more of you. Let him figure it out by himself.<\/p>\n

SPAVENTARSI: Fare ipotesi<\/h2>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t make any premature decisions, especially if you\u2019re still not that close with that person.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t make assumptions that the two of you speak the same language and that he has the same mindset as you do.<\/p>\n

Nor assume that he doesn\u2019t like you and wants to call things off. Wait to get to know him a bit better, and then assume all you want.<\/p>\n

COMMIT: Don\u2019t force commitment<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

Even if commitment means a lot to you, act like it\u2019s not such a big deal.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t throw the idea of committing in his face because you might get a completely different outcome than you hoped for.<\/p>\n

The thing is, men don\u2019t like to be told what to do.<\/p>\n

Chances are if they get the impression that you\u2019re telling them what to do, they are definitely going to do something completely different just so things don\u2019t end up your way.<\/p>\n

SPAVENTARE VIA: Fargli accettare il tuo comportamento ad alta manutenzione<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

You\u2019re alta manutenzione<\/a> and that\u2019s okay, but don\u2019t expect him to support your behavior.<\/p>\n

Se volete cose belle e avete uno standard da mantenere, assicuratevi di occuparvene da soli.<\/p>\n

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Commitment. What a big and scary word. Getting a man to commit is probably the final goal of every woman, to get him settled down in a relationship for the rest of his life. Actually, there is nothing scary about commitment. Anyone can commit. It\u2019s not a matter of possibility. It\u2019s a matter of choice….<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":84145,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29648],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-33481","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-tips"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29648,"label":"dating tips"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/romantic-couple-standing-in-the-field.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29648,"name":"dating tips","slug":"dating-tips","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29648,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. ","parent":29643,"count":442,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29648,"category_count":442,"category_description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. ","cat_name":"dating tips","category_nicename":"dating-tips","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/33481","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/42"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=33481"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/33481\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/84145"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=33481"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=33481"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=33481"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}