{"id":33580,"date":"2019-02-26T08:58:16","date_gmt":"2019-02-26T08:58:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=33580"},"modified":"2022-02-21T00:41:17","modified_gmt":"2022-02-21T00:41:17","slug":"perdonarlo-non-cancellera-il-dolore-ma-vi-aiutera-ad-andare-avanti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/perdonarlo-non-cancellera-il-dolore-ma-vi-aiutera-ad-andare-avanti\/","title":{"rendered":"Perdonarlo non canceller\u00e0 il dolore, ma vi aiuter\u00e0 ad andare avanti"},"content":{"rendered":"

Quando si pone fine a un rapporto tossico o relazione abusiva<\/a>Tutti continuano a consigliarvi che la cosa migliore da fare \u00e8 lasciare tutto ci\u00f2 che di brutto vi \u00e8 successo nel passato.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Tutti continuano a spingervi ad andare avanti, come se fosse la cosa pi\u00f9 facile da fare dopo tutto quello che avete passato.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

However, you can\u2019t expect to leave the past in the past while all the pain you\u2019ve been through is still haunting you as it did the first day.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Vorreste non provare nulla di tutto ci\u00f2, ma la verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che l'amarezza e la negativit\u00e0 vi consumano completamente.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Everything you\u2019ve experienced changed the essence of the girl you used to be.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Ti ha reso una persona vendicativa che vuole vendicarsi ad ogni costo e una persona che ha imparato il significato dell'odio.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

The harsh truth is that you can\u2019t help but wish everything worst for the man who crushed you.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Volete che sia per sempre perseguitato dalle cose terribili che vi ha fatto e che passi il resto della sua vita a rimpiangere il fatto di avervi spezzato il cuore.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

No matter how hard you try, you can\u2019t seem to forgive him for the way he treated you. You can\u2019t forgive or forget the pain<\/a> o il danno che quest'uomo ha lasciato.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

To be honest, he doesn\u2019t deserve your forgiveness either.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

L'ultima cosa che si merita \u00e8 di dormire tranquillamente mentre voi siete ancora da qualche parte l\u00e0 fuori, a combattere le conseguenze di tutto ci\u00f2 che vi ha fatto e a cercare di scacciare i demoni che si \u00e8 lasciato dietro.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Nevertheless, this forgiveness shouldn\u2019t happen because of him. <\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Dovete fare del vostro meglio per trovare la forza dentro di voi di perdonarlo per il vostro bene, perch\u00e9 questa \u00e8 l'unica strada per la vostra libert\u00e0 spirituale.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

I won\u2019t lie to you\u2014forgiveness isn\u2019t omnipotent. <\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

It won\u2019t heal your broken heart overnight, it won\u2019t make your pain go away just like that and it won\u2019t magically erase the scars on your wounded soul. <\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Tuttavia, sar\u00e0 il primo passo per andare avanti.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Every time you doubt your ability to forgive, remember that people\u2019s actions only say things about them and they shouldn\u2019t in any way define you.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Non \u00e8 compito vostro portare l'enorme peso di tutto ci\u00f2 che \u00e8 accaduto, anche ora che vi siete liberati dalla vostra relazione tossica.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Besides, if the man who has caused you harm doesn\u2019t have a conscience about what he\u2019s done then you not forgiving him won\u2019t make him see the consequences of his actions.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

I know this is a painful realization but no matter what you do or don\u2019t do won\u2019t make this man feel the blame for the way he hurt you.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Quindi, perch\u00e9 dovresti essere tu a continuare a portare avanti tutto questo <\/strong>bagaglio emotivo<\/strong><\/a>sapendo che questo non fa altro che appesantirvi? <\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Letting go all of this bitterness and desire for revenge won\u2019t make things easier for your abuser\u2014it will just set you free from the chains of his deeds and it will make the process of moving on easier for you.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

I know that you\u2019re aware of the fact that this man, who has done you so much harm and who has damaged you so deeply, is out there living his life as if nothing has happened while you still struggle with the outcome of your relationship.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Tuttavia, Invece di sprecare tutte le vostre energie pensando a lui e ai modi per vendicarvi, mettete tutta la vostra forza nell'aiutare voi stessi a recuperare e a guarire.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Lasciate che il karma faccia il suo lavoro perch\u00e9 vi assicuro che sar\u00e0 punito per ogni singola lacrima che avete pianto a causa sua.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Tuttavia, non \u00e8 vostro compito fargliela pagare.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Quindi instead of allowing this guy\u2019s toxicity to have an impact on your life after all this time, turn to yourself.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Have faith that God always has a plan and that there will come a day when he\u2019ll go through all the things you went through.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Non vi sto chiedendo di lasciar andare tutta la tristezza e il dolore in un secondo, perch\u00e9 la guarigione \u00e8 un processo che richiede tempo e avverr\u00e0 quando sarete pronti.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

I am just begging you to let go of resentments and grudges because they won\u2019t lead you anywhere except becoming the same as the guy whom you luckily escaped from in time.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

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